Stop false domestic violence accusations
Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
Help us stop false allegations of domestic violence. Keep our children from hurting because of lies
We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of our son, 43 year old, whose wife, called the police because her 90 year old grandma had a dream the week before that our son was going to murder the entire family. She is pregnant, hormones out of whack, and has a history of untreated major anxiety. He was trying to see what she was texting on a bipolar FB group about him. He tried to grab the phone from behind her and it touch her neck as they tussled for it for 5 sec! He left the house to cool off, called her and she had called the police and told their 4 children age 7 and under that “daddy had choked her”. Mind you, she did not have a mark or anything on her neck as police took pics. Our son was arrested and not even allowed one phone call, until we called the jail chaplain to help us contact him for a credit card fee. He had never had any problem w the law before. A common friend, finally came forth and said that his wife told her that she wasn’t even sure that he choked her. He has been kept from seeing his children except for once in 5he past 8 weeks and at that, he is supposed to pay $40/ hour. He was unemployed, except working as a DJ 2x a month before the incident. He had a full time job landed, but because he was pending 3 felony charges, he could not accept that job and was turned down by many others. Currently, he found a job paying $11/hour and has been told he does not have bipolar as his wife made false accusations over 2 years ago when he had a reaction to steroid treatment. Please change these laws to protect the innocent and make the false accuser have a penalty of perjury, pay fines, etc.
If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Help us stop false allegations of domestic violence. Keep our children from hurting because of lies
We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of our son, 43 year old, whose wife, called the police because her 90 year old grandma had a dream the week before that our son was going to murder the entire family. She is pregnant, hormones out of whack, and has a history of untreated major anxiety. He was trying to see what she was texting on a bipolar FB group about him. He tried to grab the phone from behind her and it touch her neck as they tussled for it for 5 sec! He left the house to cool off, called her and she had called the police and told their 4 children age 7 and under that “daddy had choked her”. Mind you, she did not have a mark or anything on her neck as police took pics. Our son was arrested and not even allowed one phone call, until we called the jail chaplain to help us contact him for a credit card fee. He had never had any problem w the law before. A common friend, finally came forth and said that his wife told her that she wasn’t even sure that he choked her. He has been kept from seeing his children except for once in 5he past 8 weeks and at that, he is supposed to pay $40/ hour. He was unemployed, except working as a DJ 2x a month before the incident. He had a full time job landed, but because he was pending 3 felony charges, he could not accept that job and was turned down by many others. Currently, he found a job paying $11/hour and has been told he does not have bipolar as his wife made false accusations over 2 years ago when he had a reaction to steroid treatment. Please change these laws to protect the innocent and make the false accuser have a penalty of perjury, pay fines, etc.
If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
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