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change child support laws

How do mothers really spend child support

Hello I am writing in regards to better monitoring with the money they receive for child support.I am a mother of 3 grown children now. Yes i was married for 18 yrs then divorced had to raise mine on my own with the divorcement yes I agree it can be very hard but thru that 18 yrs of his ex wife and several ladies I know personally or just hear the talk I have since remarried and now his ex just a repeat of what the women talk about and actually lie about what the do with money it really think this is so unfair to the father also the child. I know there is a few honest woman still but a bigger percent are full of deceit . Evan me as a woman this wrenches my heart, Anyway I believe and am asking this to be looked into. Like for 1 women should have to show receites for everything for that child and that child only it should not go to other children, boyfriend or any other person strickley for that child or children. That money should not be aloud to run the family only that child. I hear so many men say That Is why they hate to pay or they use it for there fun. I hear so many woman say i cant wait for child support so they can spend on them selves. I also believe a woman should have to work while collecting and they base her earnings if woman want to keep and raise there children they need to work not live off welfare food stamps and any other things they get all this now they got free money to play with there is so much deeiite I do not blame a man for getting aggitated. A man has to work and pay or go to jail but the woman sit back and do nothing and gets nothing if they choose to have custody they should be jailed also they are not putting in there fair share living of the Goverment. Ive seen so many men in despair because of deciete and the courts and system believe more deceitful woman than they do a honest trying men this is sad real sad. So i am doing this on part of all men that do mean well and try and watching the hurt of males in my family also yrs of ex husband hurting now husband.Women need to face strict disipline for her actions. I am asking in my behalf and the behalf of hurting hard trying fathers I believe if they had this monitoring men would be more secure . Thank u for looking in to this and please consider this change . thank u