Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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I dated a woman who told me she lied about a domestic violence incident because the father didn't pay child support and started dating another woman. When I Asked her how she could do such a thing, she chalked it up to being angry and immature.
I was set up by my wife of 22yrz she pulled out the retirement and ran
My son is a victim of this false abuse. His wife did it to gain power in the divorce and to gain money from the victim abuse association women. She spent the house payments for 4 months. She has had him in jail on trumpted up charges and no proof. I was with him and he did nothing but he is in jail and will not be able to attend his court date. She told him if he signs away everything, she will make his legal problems go away.
Given the number of women murdered by their spouse, boyfriends, and lovers. Restraining orders and no contact orders are in order. Coming soon, ankle bracelets with the victim's address, place of work, business daycare and family addresses programmed into them. Police will be automatically alerted when no contact is violated. It has been my experience and observation that domestic batterers are persistent. However, if allegations can be proven false, there should be consequences for the perp. Domestic violence is a grossly under reported crime. One that is very seldom admitted to.
This is Government sponsored extortion... in direct violation of the US constitution. Violating EVERY American citizens' most BASIC civil rights. Here are some sources: (copy and paste these links / addresses).

If you currently have a restraining order or protective order issued against you:

Find a good lawyer, and challenge the constitutionality of YOUR order (it must be currently in place), and take your case all the way to the Supreme Court. Tell your lawyer to reference "crespo vs crespo" in New Jersey (google it). Crespo won! A judge ruled that these orders are "unconstitutional" and a violation of of basic civil rights, but it was later overturned on appeal. These orders are rarely challenged on a constitutional basis. We NEED people in their respective states to challenge the constitutionality of their OWN restraining orders / protective orders, and take it to the Supreme Court... THEN, these orders and false accusations will stop. This is only a matter of time. These orders and false accusations WILL stop!

EVERYONE KNOWS how these orders are destroying lives, even Congress.... they're just too corrupt and lazy to do anything about it.

US Congress CAUSED this problem with VAWA (The violence against women act), and now they need to fix it.

Domestic violence is horrible and should be punished.... but, there is a little thing called innocent, until proven guilty... right now, it is guilty, until you can somehow prove yourself innocent. The accused is literally forced to prove a negative, which is not possible.

Return our criminal justice system to innocent, until proven guilty in a fair court of law, with due process.... CONGRESS! Thank you, One of the MILLIONS of falsely accused American citizens.
For GS
Cps has taken our daughters for the 2nd time now. Have not said what we have done to them. They acuse us of having domestic violence and police involvement for domestic violence but we havent. Police department on our side and defending us and testifying on our behalf. Judge now says their lying. Before our trial the judge decided to go ahead with adoption and we didn't even get a trial. Please help.
My bigamist wife is charging me with Domestic violence including rape. I threatened to charge her with bigamy and she ran to get this Restraining Order that will put me in jail for years. Can she do this? She never called police and none of these 20 charges ever happened. She owns half of my house and is extorting me for $30,000 in exchange for the house and dropping charges.
Enforce perjury laws!
I was falsly accused by my girlfriend of a domestic battery in which she clearly lied to the police I have called too many times to her mom and 911 and reported that she needs help she really hits herself. I was shocked the first time I saw an individual hitting them delves that hard then lie say he did it. I have no history of violence and have been in a long relationship before without any violance. I had a pending case for a 485pc that LAPD falsely accused me of Been going to court for over year and half they have destroyed my background so I can even get a job possible that they are the ones who are behind the domestic dispute because every officer in the bench that testified pointed the finger on the other one. I have previously worked with them and even got a thank you letter from the Capitan. What is wrong with this society with this system that first follow the previous calls I made. I have gangsters all day hrassing front of my apt door. Let's not forget I have also previously walked to a active 211pc hostage situation bright day light and with my quick action they are doing 19years. I'm ready to move on in life not be held back by a Police Department that I have my all to and returned got nothing not even a fair trial. They never come to my calls Im not stupid; uneducated individual. I SPENT MY TIME GROWING UP WITH THE LAW I RESPECT THE LAW I WILL DIE FOR MY COUNTRY AND COMMANDER IN CHEIF ANY DAY ANY MINUTE. BUT I WON'T HAVE A LOCAL POLICE DO FRAUD INVESTIGATION.


I was a victim of 'State of Delaware" sponsored False Allegations of Domestic Violence. False Allegations have become the new act of domestic violence.
thank you for this letter many men don't have the fight to fight
For GS and REP
Having been the victim of false accusations and been arrested I fully hope these laws be amended, protect the innocent and don't arrest non abusers.