Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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As a outside party watching a woman degrade, falsify stories, false accusations of domestic abuse without merit for the sake of gaining custody just for the child support and revenge, I 100% agree that the system needs to change and start treating both parties with equal respect and listen to facts and look at the facts. In addition, all women who falsely claim domestic abuse should be treated as a criminal because their false accusations in my opinion are consider obstruction of justice. Although the way things are judged greatly effect the innocent father's negatively the persons who are really suffering are the ones these courts are claiming to be looking out....the children. How is stripping away a good innocent father from their lives in their best interests.
In simple terms domestic violence is about abuse, which is not exclusively perpetrated by men. Abuse is a "behavior" that I've seen employed by women. However, I've known a few women that psychologically abuse their husbands with name-calling and yelling for nothing, abuse their children with their constant Drill Sergeant screaming orders, lie to present themselves as victims, create explosive situations to call the cops with the sole intention of "building a case" against their husband, and brainwash their children against their dad. All the while, they keep going to church pretending to be virtuous and devoutly religious, showing an innocent-looking picture of themselves to the world while continually sharing invented "stories" of abuse at home to inspire pity and make others believe everything she says. And people start giving her advice (on how to "get" him using the cops and the court system) because they Stupidly Believe in only her side of the story but get blind-sided by ignoring the man' side. This type of vindictive liar is a devil disguised in sheep's clothes. This False Allegations Campaign has been needed for a long time to stop these manipulative liars and place them in jail for bringing false complaints into the court system, and ruining the lives of their spouses and of their innocent children. Their motivation? Greed for money or vengeance, or both. As someone else said in their signed petition, everyone in this country is innocent until proven guilty, and laws should FIRST investigate the accuser's allegations to find strong Evidence instead of throwing men in jail without due process and only based on the woman's testimony. These liars need to be stopped by laws that do not vilify the other side immediately in a jerk reaction. And male's defense lawyers should have the duty to dig real deep and find the truth about the women's so-called allegations instead of giving up so fast on falsely accused men. No one thinks about it but: courts are giving custody of kids to manipulative liars who "play" with a broken court system, how do you think those kids will turn out learning from a liar to play victim to get what they want? That's a social burden that our society doesn't need either.
In simple terms domestic violence is about abuse, which is not exclusively perpetrated by men. Abuse is a "behavior" that I've seen employed by women. However, I've known a few women that psychologically abuse their husbands with name-calling and yelling for nothing, abuse their children with their constant Drill Sergeant screaming orders, lie to present themselves as victims, create explosive situations to call the cops with the sole intention of "building a case" against their husband, and brainwash their children against their dad. All the while, they keep going to church pretending to be virtuous and devoutly religious, showing an innocent-looking picture of themselves to the world while continually sharing invented "stories" of abuse at home to inspire pity and make others believe everything she says. And people start giving her advice (on how to "get" him using the cops and the court system) because they Stupidly Believe in only her side of the story but get blind-sided by ignoring the man' side. This type of vindictive liar is a devil disguised in sheep's clothes. This False Allegations Campaign has been needed for a long time to stop these manipulative liars and place them in jail for bringing false complaints into the court system, and ruining the lives of their spouses and of their innocent children. Their motivation? Greed for money or vengeance, or both. As someone else said in their signed petition, everyone in this country is innocent until proven guilty, and laws should FIRST investigate the accuser's allegations to find strong Evidence instead of throwing men in jail without due process and only based on the woman's testimony. These liars need to be stopped by laws that do not vilify the other side immediately in a jerk reaction. And male's defense lawyers should have the duty to dig real deep and find the truth about the women's so-called allegations instead of giving up so fast on falsely accused men. No one thinks about it but: courts are giving custody of kids to manipulative liars who "play" with a broken court system, how do you think those kids will turn out learning from a liar to play victim to get what they want? That's a social burden that our society doesn't need either.
The huge problem with the court system and law enforcement officers is that they always go by stereotypes that Only men are capable of abusing others. In fact, I've seen women insult their boyfriends/husbands and calling them names. If they have done so in public, who can say that what happens in private is not worse? Nowadays women are using laws intended to protect victims of real abuse to "get rid" of their husbands portraying them as the abuser and them as a victim. It's sickening how women play victim and the system do not "investigate" the truth of their accounts. The court system should investigate the victim as much as the accused: the law says that we are all innocent until PROVEN guilty.
I was accused of domestic violence by my spouse on month after we were married. She just came into the country three months before on a fiancee visa. She wanted a change of status green card and didn't want to stay with me so she accused me of rape after we have been together for eight years and I took care of her all that time in the Dominican republic. I told her I wanted a divorce two days later she call 911 and said I raped her to get her domestic violence visa and later her green card, public assistance,. and a place to live on tax dollars.. Later bring her kids. and her family over.

I fully support this or will never stop. My life is ruin now I struggling to get by.
Being a personal victim of this 3 times I fully support this.