Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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Don't think this can't happen to to you. It happened to one of my best friends yesterday. He has 3 witnesses and many more standing in line testify about each and every horrible thing she's done before this.Now he's in jail, the judge won't set bond and she's running around free threatening to do the same thing to us.I hope this never happens to you.
Don't think this can't happen to to you. It happened to one of my best friends yesterday. He has 3 witnesses and many more standing in line testify about each and every horrible thing she's done before this.Now he's in jail, the judge won't set bond and she's running around free threatening to do the same thing to us.I hope this never happens to you.
Malignant Narcarisstic women are intelligent actresses that know how to Pycholgically control the police and the therapist and judges,they will cry ,they will convince anybody that you are the aggressor...TO ALL MEN ,VIDEO RECORD YOUR SITUATIONS OF ABUSE AND SAFE IT FOR YOUR PROTECTION
I am a 27 year old women and mother and am so sick and tired of how fathers get treated in this country. I'm tired of crazy incompetent mothers getting all the rights and the fathers having zero. It's funny a women has the right to give her baby up for adoption, to abort her unborn child, and to decied what rights a father has. But a fathers only right is to loose their child and sit back and write the checks while the mother cashes them for her own personal use it's disgusting. I pray one day things will be equal for all the good, hard working, honest and loving dads who just want equal time with their child.
I am in Gilbert Az. and this letter is me.. I just had to do 40 days in Maricopa's tent city for false allegations of Domestic Violence where my wife accused me of hitting her with our phone, in which aspect she punched herself and cried wolf, then told police and prosecutors that her and my son are afraid of me and now I have no visitation rights with my son.
My wife coached my son to make false statements against me. My son told me this after I was being investigated. The Dist Atty told me to take him in to the police for a statement, after which he told his mother, and then they both accused me of threats with a gun (which I did not even own one). Seminole county Florida, 2 1/2 yr process, 4 day trial, and I lost my son and career. http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-766346. My son's recorded interviews proving my innocence were thrown out by the judge.
My ex-wife accused me of "pushing her on to a tile floor around 11:30 p.m." Dec. 20, 2012, causing bruises on her elbows.
She made the accusations the next day to police saying what provoked the argument was because she came home late from work. She testified I destroyed her cell phone and she could not get to the landline. I was arrested around 1:30 p.m. Dec. 21 without police giving me a chance to defend myself. I did, in fact, cause the bruising by inadvertently rolling her out of bed around 3 a.m. I was trying roll her over because of her snoring and didn't realize she so close to the edge of the bed.
I stayed in jail through Christmas; humiliating.
She was seeking divorce prior to the allegation and we'd been separated for several days beforehand. But she didn't come late from work and I wasn't at home at 11:30. I was in a bar and pulled credit card receipts from the business that showed I was there from 7 p.m. until midnight. I pulled a copy of her receipt as well. She went to the bar looking for me arriving only a couple of minutes after I had left. Her receipt showed her closing out at 1:08 a.m. Dec. 21. When she arrived, the bartenders said she had two packs of my kind of cigarettes and she was looking for me.
I pulled the phone records for the evening before and it showed someone on the phone four different times from 7:30 p.m. to around 11 p.m., all calls to friends of hers, ex-boyfriends and probably a new boyfriend.
The credit card receipts, witnesses putting me somewhere else at the time of the alleged crime, phone records showing conflict of her testimony. I was arrested again for violating a restraining order by talking to a mutual friend of our yet not mentioning her at all. His false testimony at her behest landed me in jail again.
She then tried to take all her false claims to my employer and have me fired.
Thousands of dollars later, scrutiny from my employer, divorce, no place to live, her abandoning the home she was given custody of, me having to pay her to pay the mortgage, which she is no longer doing as she has fled to another state with her new fiance.
There needs to be more proof allowed from the accused before the politically correct courts/law enforcement allow lies to ruin an innocent person's life.
My ex-wife accused me of "pushing her on to a tile floor around 11:30 p.m." Dec. 20, 2012, causing bruises on her elbows.
She made the accusations the next day to police saying what provoked the argument was because she came home late from work. She testified I destroyed her cell phone and she could not get to the landline. I was arrested around 1:30 p.m. Dec. 21 without police giving me a chance to defend myself.
I stayed in jail through Christmas; humiliating.
She was seeking divorce prior to the allegation and we'd been separated for several days beforehand. But she didn't come late from work and I wasn't at home at 11:30. I was in a bar and pulled credit card receipts from the business that showed I was there from 7 p.m. until midnight. I pulled a copy of her receipt as well. She went to the bar looking for me arriving only a couple of minutes after I had left. Her receipt showed her closing out at 1:08 a.m. Dec. 21. When she arrived, the bartenders said she had two packs of my kind of cigarettes and she was looking for me.
I pulled the phone records for the evening before and it showed someone on the phone four different times from 7:30 p.m. to around 11 p.m., all calls to friends of hers, ex-boyfriends and probably a new boyfriend.
The credit card receipts, witnesses putting me somewhere else at the time of the alleged crime, phone records showing conflict of her testimony. I was arrested again for violating a restraining order by talking to a mutual friend of our yet not mentioning her at all. His false testimony at her behest landed me in jail again.
She then tried to take all her false claims to my employer and have me fired.
Thousands of dollars later, scrutiny from my employer, divorce, no place to live, her abandoning the home she was given custody of, me having to pay her to pay the mortgage, which she is no longer doing as she has fled to another state with her new fiance.
There needs to be more proof allowed from the accused before the politically correct courts/law enforcement allow lies to ruin an innocent person's life.
When someone makes false accusations, they should be charged criminally and have to pay the all the attorney fees and court costs. The courts have gone to extremes to protect the woman just to protect themselves in case something did happen, but it's not fair to the man. You can't always assume the man is guilty just because the woman says so, it's just not right.
My wife Angela Kriebel has falsely accused me twice of threatening her to get a restraining order and kept my child away from me for months.
My wife Angela Kriebel has falsely accused me twice of threatening her to get a restraining order and kept my child away from me for months.
This in my opinion is the basis for improving all aspects of our lives.