Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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Google: "crespo vs crespo" in New Jersey. Protective Orders and Restraining Orders are a direct violation of the US constitution in many ways.

These orders are a VIOLATION of EVERY American citizens most BASIC civil rights....
The right to a trial, the right to due process, the right to face your accuser in a court of law, and the right to be presumed INNOCENT until proven guilty in a court of law with due process.

These orders are LITERALLY guilty, until you can somehow prove that you did NOT commit "abuse"! The exact opposite of how our criminal justice system is supposed to work.

If you currently have a Protective Order or Restraining Order issued against you (it must currently be in place).... Find a good lawyer, and CHALLENGE the constitutionality of YOUR order... and take it all the way to the Supreme Court. Tell your lawyer to use "crespo vs crespo" in New Jersey as a reference. Crespo won! These orders were ruled "unconstitutional" (duh), but another judge overruled it on appeal (to keep the status quo). These judges KNOW that these orders are a DIRECT violation of everyone's most BASIC civil rights! But, these orders are rarely challenged on a constitutional basis.

If you currently have a Protective Order or Restraining Order issued against you, please do yourself and the rest of the falsely accused a favor.... Find a good lawyer, and CHALLENGE the constitutionality of your order, because it VIOLATES your most BASIC civil rights (the ACLU may be able to help you find a good "constitutional lawyer")... Then take it all the way to the Supreme Court! These orders WILL STOP, along with the epidemic of false accusations... We need multiple people in their respective states to challenge the constitutionality of their OWN orders, and this BS WILL stop! These orders are CLEARLY a violation of the respondents' most basic civil rights... not to mention, it is EMOTIONAL ABUSE! Yes, these orders ARE the abuse!

Millions of falsely accused American citizens, having their lives DESTROYED, because the US government (Congress, to be specific), decided to switch from innocent until proven guilty.... to the EXACT opposite... guilty until you can prove you did NOT commit abuse... the accused is literally forced to prove a negative!

Challenge the constitutionality of these orders in court, and take it all the way to the Supreme Court... it is rarely done, but "crespo vs crespo" laid the blue print! We need more people to do this, and these orders WILL stop, as it is literally ABUSE! Yes, the Protective Orders and Restraining Orders ARE the abuse! Millions of falsely accused... lives destroyed by false accusations, and the US government (Congress, to be specific) is ENCOURAGING it!

This WILL STOP! Its only a matter of time.

In the meantime, contact your state and federal representatives and TELL them that these orders are a DIRECT violation of your most BASIC civil rights!... Literally guilty, until you can pro
I'm waiting to get served restraining order papers from my child's mother. Because I state to her stop being a *****. Here's why. She uses our daughter as a pawn. Refuses to let me see her when we had agreed on a day and time. Cuts off contact. To me, that's mentally abusing me. The bond my daughter and I have is strong. She hates that. She knows this pushes my buttons so she keeps doing it until I get ****y.
I Damian Grimaldo filed assault charges on Jasmine McCray on July 20th and she was arrest and served a domestic violence protection order in Williston And 58801. She then conivenly filed a restrain order on false allegations of harrasment. She has all of her family trying to put me in jail. She her self can have me arrested at any given moment. If I leave Williston she gets what she wants. If I stay
I'll be arrrested. This isnt the first protection order i had on her. This would be two in a year of 2016. I also reported domestic violence back in 2009 or 2010 in Grand Forks Nd and the cops took pictures. And made a report. The cops also here in wlliston took pictures of this incident and i have a written statement against her. I have physical proof of this in both police departments and still made out to be the bad guy. Please im not getting any help from nobody here and i feel like the court system is going to side for her. She gets away with it every time. Im lost and dont know what to do please help me.
Thank You
Damian Grimaldo
I spent tens of thousands to defend against my bi-polar x-wifes DV allegations. My children were placed in foster care for 11 months as a result of the DCPP investigation even though I prevailed in trial TWO times.
Good men are being ruined by false allegations of domestic violence. I am lawyer and want to help men find equal protection and justice under the law. Follow me at Time to take our lives back and fight back against the criminal justice system which is unfairly targeting men.
I'm so tired of people who lie about domestic abuse. They should face stiff consequences,
I'm so tired of people who lie about domestic abuse. They should face stiff consequences,
I have met so many men online who have been falsely accused during divorces, why would they wait till the just after the divorce is filed? seems suspicious. I'm thankful my soon to be Ex is not like that (yet)