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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Apr 14th, 2011
    Someone from Milpitas, CA writes:
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    ex vietnamese wife also created a false TRO with no proof to get custody of our daughter,spouse support, add child support. I was played like a fool. Never thought anything could happen like this or that anyone would ever stoop so low for money. then she just dropped the TRO when I found an attorney but the chances of domestic violence continue to denie me any rights with getting additional visitation time. I'm also treated like a criminal when I go to court. It's so incredibly ridiculous that the family court system plays ignorant of any proof that I present of the lies. I don't understand why slander per sa cannot be used in family court. Family court seems to be one of the most corupted ways that the court system and attorneys use to create revenue. It's the biggest joke I've ever had the pain of witnessing
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  • Apr 13th, 2011
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  • Apr 10th, 2011
    Someone from Nashville, TN writes:
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    I?m a woman and my vengeful husband easily used this law to gain huge and unfair advantages that would never be possible if decided fairly in divorce proceedings. After 14 years of being a good wife to him, greed and anger led him to knowingly make the untrue claim of ?abuse victim? and based solely on his statement, the charge of domestic violence was made against me, with its wide-sweeping penalties effective immediately, while he was rewarded with every possible benefit, including having the police available for his protection. This set in motion the near total destruction of an innocent woman?s life and it is shameful that TN courts allowed it to happen. Something is very, very wrong when even the rarest of abuse victims ? a MAN ? is allowed to make such a blatantly unbelievable and unsubstantiated claim against a WOMAN!!! I could have easily proved my innocence, but that was one of my many rights just steamrolled over with this barbaric, brutal law.
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  • Apr 10th, 2011
    Someone from Nashville, TN writes:
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    I?m a woman and my vengeful husband easily used this law to gain huge and unfair advantages that would never be possible if decided fairly in divorce proceedings. After 14 years of being a good wife to him, greed and anger led him to knowingly make the untrue claim of ?abuse victim? and based solely on his statement, the charge of domestic violence was made against me, with its wide-sweeping penalties effective immediately, while he was rewarded with every possible benefit, including having the police available for his protection. This set in motion the near total destruction of an innocent woman?s life and it is shameful that TN courts allowed it to happen. Something is very, very wrong when even the rarest of abuse victims ? a MAN ? is allowed to make such a blatantly unbelievable and unsubstantiated claim against a WOMAN!!! I could have easily proved my innocence, but that was one of my many rights just steamrolled over with this barbaric, brutal law.
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  • Apr 9th, 2011
    Someone from Davenport, FL writes:
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    After serving as a Corrections Officer for over 15 1/2 years, keeping the public safe by ensuring that the accused " Bad Guys" stay behind bars and standing behind the judicial system. Never having been in trouble with the law or history of excessive force, no investigations... I am a victim of th very same system I upholded and protected. My husbands exwife has placed a false injunction against me and has continued to harrass me through different methods. I appealed the decision to only be denied. Her attorney stated that she was opposed to the order of protection being dropped. I cant get a job in the department I applied for because of this bogus injunction. I cant believe that this was granted to her without proof! I have seen many women enter the very same jail I worked in that couldnt get an order of protection after being attacked by their boyfriends or spouse. Then my husbands exwife files a false claim and without proof my life has been ruined. All of this is being done because my 17 year old stepdaughter does not was a relationship with her mother for many reasons. I have spend thousands of dollars protecting and defending myself and nothing has worked. PLEASE HELP!!! THIS IS A FORM OF HARRASSMENT AND SLANDER. AN ADULT VERSION OF BULLYING!
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  • Apr 5th, 2011
    Someone from Wasilla, AK writes:
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    I have a 22 yr. old son who has a 17 month old son with a very vendictive piece of trash 26 yr. old. Time after time after time, whenever the baby's mother gets in the mood to cause problems for my son she calls the police and "claims" that he has assaulted her. Each and everytime the police are called, they care not to hear his side as to what really happened simply because all that really matters is that he is a man and she is a woman and that automatically makes him guilty. To prove my point, there was a time recently that this woman beat my son over the head with a night stick and the police were called. Needless to say, she was not arressted nor brought up on any type of charges what-so-ever. Yesterday was another day in court with the same false dv charges against my son. Of course because she is of the female gender and the "alleged" victim" she ruled the court. I am so tired of the bulls**t that the courts lets women get away with it's crazy. Something really needs to be done about the injustice in Alaska towards men. Women need to start paying in one way, shape, or form for filing all these false charges against innocent men and destroying their lives.
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  • Apr 5th, 2011
    Someone from Southgate, MI writes:
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    i went through all this a few years ago, however its over for me and i did get the charges thrown out and gaind some physical custody of the child. never stop fighting
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  • Apr 4th, 2011
    Someone from San Jose, CA writes:
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    I just recently made a false report after i got out of the hospital for over dosing on benadryl. I tripped, acted immaturely. And my fiance and I just recently started going to therapy to help me cope with my problems better, my man is on parole and probation and got remanded when he saw his parole officer today. I went with him and told her it was false and she still took him in. Now i got to fix this cause I'm the one that lied and deserves to be punished not him so I have to call probation, parole board, D.A. and repair everything. It's not right and I'm wrong.
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  • Apr 4th, 2011
    Someone from Englewood, CO writes:
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    My first experience with this filed by my wife. No threats, no violence just a method to kick me out of the house I paid for and set up alimony for the rest of her life. Oh yes I get to pay all of the house bills too. What a system set up for women to abuse the so called perpetrator of domestic violence.
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  • Apr 4th, 2011
    Someone from Danville, KY writes:
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    These laws need changed. So many women think this is the first step to child custody. They make these accusations with no proof at all and are able to ruin the lives of their children and husbands. they are never held accountable. These laws do not prevent domestic abuse but take needed resources from the women who really need these protections.
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  • Apr 4th, 2011
    Someone from Ridge, NY signed.
  • Mar 31st, 2011
    Someone from San Antonio, TX signed.
  • Mar 31st, 2011
    Someone from Fremont, CA writes:
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    I am a disabled 54 year old male. I was acused of Domastic Vilance from my girlfriend of 20 years smipley because I could not move out because I had no money to do so. I used it to remodle her home. I rased her son from a year old. Know she has another boyfriend, is living in a remodled home, and I am living on the street. I went to jail for a week. on her word alone. Police picked me up outside Starbucks. Not because I hit her. Which I would never do. Because I was driving the truck that was in the TRO. The money to remodle her home came from a Personal injury ssettlement in which I was injured to the point of never being able to work again. there is no legal voice for men. The funny part of all this. The DA through the complant out and released me after spending a long weekend in jail. When the court hearing came up. The judge vacated the order. But nothing ever happened to her for fileing a false TRO. Why should I ever trust the legal system or women ever again?
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  • Mar 30th, 2011
    Someone from Muskegon, MI signed.
  • Mar 28th, 2011
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  • Mar 27th, 2011
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  • Mar 25th, 2011
    Someone from Morehead City, NC writes:
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    Stop the madness!
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  • Mar 25th, 2011
    Someone from Meriden, CT writes:
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    I am a victim of false Domestic Violence alligations. A woman claimed that I slapped her when I did not and the court gave me a Public Defender who's sole goal was to manipulate me into a false guilty plea. Most men in these situations are given PD's and that is the main reason the convictiion rate in cases like this is so high. PD"s defend no one they just assist the state in getting guilty pleas and this is a conflict of interest and should be illegal.
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  • Mar 25th, 2011
    Someone from Beaufort, NC signed.
  • Mar 24th, 2011
    Someone from Spokane, WA writes:
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    I have been falsely accused of Domestic Violence over and over by the same person. This person beat me so badly that I was hospitaIized and I was charged. I live in Spokane, wa. I would like to start a petition in Spokane. I would sit outside the court house and greet persons that have been falsely accused to sign this bill 839. How can I find a copy of Bill 839 for signature? Pls Help! THX!!!
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  • Mar 24th, 2011
    Someone from Quinton, OK writes:
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    Dues to false Domestic Violence charges of females of every race, or economic background, has brought to the forefront the need to apply new legal statues to hold those individuals to a higher standard of legal prosecution. The ramifications of making false accusations destroys peoples reputations, and makes them a public stigma that can follow them unto death.Until this is accomplished females will continue to us this statute to carry out personal agenda's.
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  • Mar 23rd, 2011
    Someone from Morehead City, NC writes:
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    I am being falsely accused with this protective order because my ex was caught having an affair so she does this...
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  • Mar 23rd, 2011
    Someone from Pinehurst, TX signed.
  • Mar 23rd, 2011
    Someone from Kingston, MA writes:
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    I too have been fighting a false restraining order for 4 years. I am nearly bankrupt because of the legal cost.
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  • Mar 23rd, 2011
    Someone from Pearland, TX signed.
  • Mar 21st, 2011
    Someone from Houston, TX writes:
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    Falsely accused of DV and child abuse. VAWA = Sharia for men.
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  • Mar 20th, 2011
    Someone from Strongsville, OH signed.
  • Mar 18th, 2011
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  • Mar 17th, 2011
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  • Mar 17th, 2011
    Someone from Rome, NY writes:
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    arrested and jailed the day before my sons birthday party for domestic violence, aggravated harassment 2nd , threats over the phone , i was at a superbowl party with my co workers AND manager, a ridiculous amount of witnesses and that was never taken into account before getting brought for the run around and jailed for the night, i had to bail my self out and miss my babies 2nd birthday party because of a jealous little girl, thanks to our wonderful laws and lack of proper laws this girl will walk away with no consequences, that's if i can prove my innocents at trial, though there is no proof (because it never happened) i will most likely suffer a guilty verdict, seems i cant PROVE MY INNOCENTS . these are ridiculous lies our system is based on. ex. innocent until proven guilty, i sure wasn't innocent when only her word with no proof had me locked away like a criminal
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  • Mar 16th, 2011
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  • Mar 16th, 2011
    Someone from Mattoon, IL writes:
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  • Mar 15th, 2011
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  • Mar 12th, 2011
    Someone from Toledo, OR writes:
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    Why do women get interviewed but the one being accused and the witness which is her son can prove without any doubt that she is making up a story to stay out of jail for disturbing the peace and drunk in public. She charged domestic violence and I was arrested the following day still without be given my right to be interviewed before the arrest. This lady has called 911 8 times in the past against other people and this time she did not call. A neighbor heard her son and her outside arguing after I kicked her out because she would not quit arguing and let it be with her son and myself for over 7 hours. She was the only one drinking for the last 6 of these 7 and her son and I only had two each at 3:30PM and her last was 10:18PM when she ran out.
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  • Mar 12th, 2011
    Someone from Toledo, OR writes:
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    Why do women get interviewed but the one being accused and the witness which is her son can prove without any doubt that she is making up a story to stay out of jail for disturbing the peace and drunk in public. She charged domestic violence and I was arrested the following day still without be given my right to be interviewed before the arrest.
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  • Mar 11th, 2011
    Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
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    Geez, i'm glad i'm not alone. My infant son got abducted 2000 miles away, just because i didn't want to have a romantic relationship with the mom, i told her i just wanted to be friends... so without notice she bolts with my son. 200,000 thousand dollars later and 35 court dates, i'm finally at 50/50 percent. Oh yeah i got hit with a DV allegation also, which the Judge Dissolved... But the Judge is going to let them move 2000 miles away anyways. WTF?
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  • Mar 10th, 2011
    Someone from Jacksonville, FL writes:
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    I too am a victim of a Domestic Violence injunction based of completely false claims. My life is in shambles because of my ex and her lies, and I'm left footing the bill. I did not get a chance to represent myself before my constitutional rights were tossed out the window. This is not a Justice system. It's a sham!
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  • Mar 8th, 2011
    Someone from Butler, PA writes:
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    My ex-girlfriend accused me of abusing her. she is bi-polar, depressed, attempted suicide, cuts on herself and has been committed to a psych ward. Now im going to lose my daughter because of an allegation, they have no proof, not to mention im innocent and i had a witness to the whole thing. This ridiculious!
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