Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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May 12th, 2011Someone from Tyrone, GA writes:
My son took an oath to protect the constituation of the United States of America and now is fighing false alligations of abuse, he has not been allowed to see his invant son since January just because she said so. Absolutely no proof just she said so and she said a lot of lies. Even with wittnesses that testified and no proof was found a no contact order for his son was placed. Where is the proof! Where are the rights he took an oath to protect, protecting him! -
May 11th, 2011Someone from Peachtree City, GA writes:
We know of such a case where the man is innocent, he is the victim not the wife.REPORT COMMENTS
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May 11th, 2011Someone from Newnan, GA writes:
Those who abuse domestic violence laws should certainly be held accountable for thier actions. I hope this petition is not negated and will be looked at very seriously.REPORT COMMENTS
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May 11th, 2011Someone from Oak Creek, WI signed.
May 11th, 2011Someone from Oak Creek, WI signed.
May 11th, 2011Someone from Alpharetta, GA signed.
May 10th, 2011Someone from Brooklyn, NY writes:
I was falsely accused and charged with dv via cell phone and text messages, 15months later I am yanked from my bed at 5am by 2 detectives who arrest me, I'm put into the system at Queens Central Booking only to be let go 15hours later because the DA decided not to press charges. I was humiliated, hand cuffed, finger printed, irises scanned, treated like a criminal because a man said he felt threatened by me. There is no proof of that, nor was I ever asked my side of the story. The dv laws need to be revamped, they are being abused for vengeful purposes.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 10th, 2011Someone from Salt Lake City, UT writes:
The court system has become truly inundated with these types of false accusations thus depriving the ones who truly need the help from getting the assistance they need. Everything from resources, manpower and even public sentiment is strained to the breaking point. Worse is the effect it has on the children to see one parent falsely accused and put thru a system that has no checks and balances to judge ones guilt or innocence until months or years later. This current system presumes the person accused is guilty with little or no verifiable evidence other than one person?s statement. Worse still is a system that then refuses to punish the person who makes false accusations even when it is blatantly clear that one person used the system for their personal motivations. When one uses the law for their personal gain it undermines the very foundation that the law was built on. The next generation of children who have now experienced this travesty 1st hand realize that there is no real justice, only that one can use the system to their advantage to get what they want. If you want to truly change the system to make it work I would offer the following points concerning the issuance of No Contact/Protective orders: 1. Any protective order /No contact Order entered on behalf of one party be for both parties not just the one for whom it was entered. (This would prevent the party who asked for the protective order from abusing the system that was set up to protect the parties). 2. That if it is determined that one party makes false allegations against a former spouse that in a case that the party making the false allegations lose the custody of the children or be incarcerated according to the current laws for giving a false statement. 3. Require that BOTH parties attend a state sponsored course on what each party can and can?t do in accordance with any court issued No Contact/Protective Order. (This way both parties understand what contact is or is not allowed) and require both parties to pay for the course. 4. Stop the arbitrary checking of conditions of a No Contact/Protective order by the court on the forms by the court clerks. Require the court to provide a rational for the inclusion of each condition when they issue such an order rather than simply checking every box. 5. Re-evaluate what Domestic Violence is and what it is not in terms of the law. (Does a person sending an email asking how their kids are really rise to the level of domestic violence or constitute a violation of a no contact order?) Nothing will change until the tools that are used to gain advantage in custody cases are reevaluated and modified so as not to give unfair or skewed perception to one party vs. the next. The laws that were originally set up to protect the victims have been hijacked by those with the means and understanding of how to use and abuse them for their personal motivations. Believing that one party is the better person/parent becauREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 8th, 2011Someone from San Antonio, TX signed.
May 7th, 2011Someone from Jacksonville, NC writes:
My son has been falsely accused by his wife. There is absolutely no proof what so ever. He has never been in any kind of trouble. The judge did not take this in consideration at all. Since his arrest she has posted on several sites about her new "relationship" and how happy she is. This new relationship began the night he was arrested. She had accused her first exhusband of the same thing. How can a woman make an accusation and the man be arrested without an investigation? The man is automatically looked upon as guilty. What happened to innocent until PROVEN guilty? Why isn't there reprecussions for the woman who falsely accuses? I am the mother of 2 sons and it concerns me deeply that a female can simply do this. The man is put in jail, treated by the court as guilty before the trial, judged by those around them. Women who falsely accuse need to be held accountable! They should be required to pay court/lawyer fees. I am disgusted with our judicial systems handling of domestic violence accusations.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 7th, 2011Someone from Grapevine, TX signed.
May 7th, 2011Someone from Fairfield Bay, AR writes:
I agree with this article. As a police officer, I was arrested as a result of a dispute with my wife. She was completly upset with me and I did not know why at the time, while trying to find out why, she was going out the door ignoring my request. I closed the door with my foot from behind her, catching her hand in it. Her daughter flips out, runs next door, calls 911. My wife goes after her, and I stayed in the driveway, waiting on the county deputy to show. Meanwhile, the city dept. Chief that I worked for and the county Sheriff, did not like each othet at all. It was election year and what better political ad can you get than the headlines reading " SHERIFF DEPUTIES ARREST CITY OFFICER FOR DOMESTIC VIOLENCE". I knew I could have been gone before he arrived, but I had nothing to hide. Well, I rode in the front seat of the chief deputys' suv and held his shotgun in my lap all the way to jail. My name smeared,My ten year career ruined, and all the fun of court just that fast,simple and stupid . My wife even told them that it was an accident that night and the next morning. The chief deputy told her he would charge her for filing a false report . She reminded him that SHE did not file ANY report at any time. And do you know after court, the prosecutor as well as the judges office told me.. "Had you been anyone else besides #1 an officer, #2 an officer for THAT city , and it was not election time, I gaurentee you would not have been charged with anything." Well thats been exactly one year ago and I am in a career now making very near three times my police salary, my record is to be sealed in about a week, but the point is the life I worked for, took serious was TAKEN from me without a chance to hardly even say my name. Thanks to the dom. vio. act if 1991. I EARNED the DUTY of wearing that badge so the bastards I protected at night while they slept could RAPE ME the very next day. I am still a certified police officer for two more years and even though I constantly have a burn inside me to try to return to it (if someone will take me now. by the way, charge was reduced in court to just battery third, not domestic) ,I dont know if I could ever be as proud of my badge as I once was. Honor,Respect,and the will to "do whats right" has left a lot of officers and judges. Its more the case now of, " we have got to find a way to makes some kind of arrest, we want money". Thanks for reading my soapbox.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 6th, 2011Someone from Kingston, NH signed.
May 4th, 2011Someone from Colorado Springs, CO signed.
May 3rd, 2011Someone from Staten Island, NY writes:
THIS IS SO OUT OF HAND AND SO EASY FOR XWIVES TO DO TO FATHERS THAT JUST WANT TO SEE THEIR CHILDREN....BY ALLOWING A ONE SENTENCE STATEMENT FOR ORDERS, ETC....FATHERS ARE KEPT FROM THEIR CHILDREN...FOR NO GOOD REASON!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 3rd, 2011Someone from Downey, CA writes:
thgis law is too harsh on men.. I believe that it is being abused to often every day.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelMay 2nd, 2011Someone from Salem, OR writes:
Eight years ago I told my wife I wanted a divorce. Then she proceeded to beat me and I was hauled off to jail where she falsely accused DV and took it to trial. I was found guilty by court house and department of corrections employees that made up most of the jury. While in state prison I met other Fathers that had been Alienated from their children for profit and greed . When I was released from prison my ex-wife accused me of conspiring to commit murder for hire. The D.A. tried to build a case out of it from just words out of lying mouth. I was interrogated by DOJ. The homiced detectives in Reno Nevada, who did not know anything about the alleged plot to kill the ex, my son and the grandma. So after waiting to years for the homicide det. to show up from Reno, I decided to give them a call and spoke to Det. Alexson. He said he had not know anything about it and didn't understand why he was not informed, when he had the police report in front of him. I told him that I had been beaten, captured and enslaved by women and that it why it is so important for him to help me keep the feminist away from my ex wife when she dials 911 and do the investigation because my son needs a father. The DOJ has been trying to get me to make a false confesion for 8 years. Oregon is not prosecuting mothers that falsely acuse Fathers. There is alot of money to be made in OR, keeping Fathers separated from their children. Conspiring to commit murder for hire carries a life sentence. The transcripts of my trial have been alterd to make my accuser look like she told one story. I had a hearing in March 2011 to see if I can get a new trial and my ex mother-in-law testified that her daughter is pathalogical liar and has a history of being dangerous and violent to men. At my hearing the state has taken notice that she has lied about her the incident. My ex and the state need to stop terrorizing my son and I and start minding their own business.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 29th, 2011Someone from Center Ridge, AR signed.
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Apr 28th, 2011Someone from Omaha, NE writes:
I have found and that the men always get the blame. The women can hit the man and claim to be a victim. I check on Domestic Violence and it shows nothing about men all help is aimed to assist womenREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 27th, 2011Someone from Saint Petersburg, FL signed.
Apr 26th, 2011Someone from Spencerville, OH writes:
my wife had used domestic violence on me because she was wanting to get rid of me(divorce) because she had cheated on me with another and i really want to save our marriage, at first she did go with my laywer to da and told them that nothing happened and wanted the charges dropped, cause at that time we desided we were going to work on our marriage. however the da wouldnt do it, the da even sent me a letter stating that i had a restraining order, how they had never filed it with the court cause my wife was trying to get it dropped but they would not do what she asked for, she had to write to the judge, how ever during that process my wife decided she wanted to leave me for a 24yr old boy she met. but we were to gether up until i was sentenced, the only thing the da did was drop the charge to a misdeameanor domestic from a felony domestic, how i could not afford the right attorney, i was sentence to 6 month jail in whitch i served, after my realease me and my ex got together and now she has realized what she has done falsing the domestic crap, wishing she could change it cause now that we are together she has to pay for it to anlong with our children cause i cant get a job, she thought about writing to our governer totell him what she done to see if i could get pardon cause my state doesnt allow record to be sealed, ive already tryed, i have the person that i so called beat up on my side, tellg them i never did what the da siad i did, but i still have to pay for the domestic falseness for the rest of my life, things with domestic should be investigated more, is not right that its guilty until proven innocence, hell even if you can prove it the dont listen just to get a verdic, im still with my exwife 3 yrs later and we're still trying to figure out away to get rid of this so i can finally work again and we can move on with our lifes, i hope congress listen to us falsly accused of domestic violence.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 26th, 2011Someone from Lusby, MD writes:
I think you need to rephrase your petition sentence below to include "innocent men/and women" I signed your petition, "Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys".and I agree with your concerns however, I am a woman and I too believe that there are people with money to hire an attorney in my case their attorney was the one whom told me a lie, I walked out of the court room thinking the charges were dropped but they were not. My daughters father said I abused my15 year old daughter because she wanted to run wild and did not like being on restriction so he filed a false restraining order. I too do not have the money to hire an attorney and am searching the web to find out how to appeal or ask for a new hearing. the only thing I can think of, in order to get a chance to tell my side of the story, is to go file for an order myself against the other party. I live in MD so the laws are different I am assuming. Prior to the restraining order he contacted Child Protective Services and they investigated and found no and closed the case. After that they filed for an order of protection even after the investigation proved no abuse. So he still has my daughter and there is nothing I can do.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 25th, 2011Someone from Chester, NJ writes:
CHECKS AND BALANCES MUST BE PUT IN PLACE.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 25th, 2011Someone from Marietta, GA writes:
A good looking mentally disturbed women who was guest in my home has accused me of a felony DV via strangulation. In fact she assaulted me viciously twice in the same night one week earlier while I was in a deep sleep. She called the police they are totally ignoring the truthful report I made about her assaulting me. Everyone is turning a blind eye especially the state attorneys office. All they want is a prosecution. It is a disgrace that the this lying female DEAMON is being encouraged and PAID victims $$$ to misuse these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. She now is on an out of state vacation partying and visiting her other women buddies across the country. She did not even show for the injunction hearing... the judge had no problems with that poor women not being there to defend her lies. You ask WHY ..BECAUSE she pressed the 911 buzzer button FIRST therefore you are GUILTY. Now everyone is catering to this lying DEMON. The State Attorneys Office and law enforcement are all turning a blind eye to the truth. Even the victims advocate is of NO help. There is NO innocent until proven guilty if your a man and no resources to turn to. The whole thing is setup for women. It is as sick as a mass murder running the streets. They are actively abusing the government resources to destroy innocent men. This sweet DEAMON has beaten 2 other men (one violently) that I am aware of at this time and my lawyer is telling me the state attorney will have have this evidence suppressed because it is not relevant.l Hell if that's not relevant then GOD only help us. (DEMON>>>DEVIL>>>DISGUSTING ROTTEN CARCASS is a more descriptive term)REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 25th, 2011Someone from Grand Ledge, MI signed.
Apr 24th, 2011Someone from Mebane, NC writes:
Lost my children and home based on lies from my Wife and her demonic family. The majesty at court house wrote his own report to submit to the judge. Which was not what my Wife stated on the police report. Everything she stated on the report was conflicting. She lied about everything. Now my kids have been brainwashed to believe I'm a bad father and husband. My so called D.A. was a joke and wanted nothing more but for me to accept a plea bargain.. Now I have lost everything, including the kids which they have cut me off from their facebook, they won't answer their $400 cellphones mommy bought. Yes kids 8, 13, and 15 with $400 cellphones..ridiculous! Wife is having a secret affair that her Mother and Sister along with her so called close friends have been collaborating behind the scene to get me out of our house. All thanks to Joe Biden S1515 bill and his army of attorneys across the country.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 24th, 2011Someone from Jacksboro, TN signed.
Apr 19th, 2011Someone from Fairmont, WV writes:
My son's ex has used false allegations and a restraining order to gain an advantage in their child custody case. The evidence is there to prove her lies and instability but no one is willing to see it. My granddaughter is the one that will suffer the most. I have completely lost faith in the judicial system.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 19th, 2011Someone from Calabasas, CA writes:
I am a victim of a false allegation and was strip of my self evident civil right to be equally believed because I have male characteristics. I am one of the very lucky who was able to prove my innocents and am suing my false accuser.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 18th, 2011Someone from Henderson, NV signed.
Apr 18th, 2011Someone from Brockton, MA writes:
Massahusetts is one of the worst states for this bias******against men. A woman can call the police on her boyfriend/husband and with no evidence, he will be arrested and put through the system...and don't even get me going on the scumbag prosecutors that refuse to drop charges when the accuser comes forward and tells the court she lied. I went through hell when I was married to an illegal immagrant from Cape Verde (guys, stay away from woman from this country...whoa..they are friggin' trouble) and me having a great job and paying taxes, was arrested many times because she (an illegal paying no taxes with no job) said I assaulted her. I called the police on her several times, and they still arrested me. East Boston police are so bias...they don't do their job and investigate...they just find it easy to arrest and charge the man. East Boston police, you can kiss my ass.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 17th, 2011Someone from Greentown, PA writes:
i have been fasley acused,finatialy distroyed with no resorces to eather help my wife or clear my name. as a christian i must forgive and help my wife,this is imposible for me finatualy. being disabled, i have limited funds.PLEASE STOP THIS MADNESS there are lives being destroyed with only your felow lawyers bennifiting.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 15th, 2011Someone from Rochester, NY signed.
Apr 14th, 2011Someone from Vale, NC writes:
I personally know men have have been falsely accused of domestic violence and restraining order violation based on womens lies. This is a violation of civil and constitutional rights. These women falsely filing charges are manipulating the court system and wasting tax dollars that the country cannot afford to waste.These women should be held responsible for ruining the life of an innocent man.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelApr 14th, 2011Someone from Hart, MI writes:
I am fully behind this all the way. I personally know of men who have been falsely accused of Domestic Violence and was put in jail til their court dates when they were release based on the women's lies. In these cases it was the women who were trying to find an "edge" over the men to seek full custody of their children. Even tho in court it was proven that they lied, the damage was already done, and the courts did nothing to the women who lied about the men in the first place. As with any other "crime", there should be "innocent til proven guilty" with things like "facts and evidence"... not speculation, hearsay, and false assumptions.REPORT COMMENTS
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