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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Jun 3rd, 2011
    Someone from Pensacola, FL writes:
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    I honestly agree with that, I myself have been in a horrid domestic violence scenario, and I don't appreciate how other women that do this lie, for their own pleasure.
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  • Jun 2nd, 2011
    Someone from Salem, OR writes:
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    I know might not be able to get a job, due to backround check. 80% to 90% of the jobs i want to get need a back round check
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  • Jun 2nd, 2011
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  • Jun 2nd, 2011
    Someone from Morgantown, WV writes:
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    I have been arrested for DV when I wasn?t having the problem with my girlfriend I was in an argument with her young niece due to some smart mouth stuff she was saying and I asked her to leave my house several times and she would not so finally she goes and stands right outside my door running her mouth and I close my door and she starts pounding on my door which lead to me heading towards my door. At this time my girlfriend and my friend tried to hold me back from auguring with her niece to get her off of my property. During this time I was so mad both my girlfriend and friend got flung around trying to hold me back. I am a 280 pound man and weight lifter however I did not have the problem with my girlfriend it was her niece. During this time of making everyone leave I hear we are calling dudes over to fight and they got guns and I don?t own a gun all I had was a cigarette lighter gun and faked that I had one. She never calls the police this night to press any charges. The next day I go to my friends house to watch the super bowl and I come back home and notice that my door is broke and go into my room and see that my cell phone are missing. So she goes through my phones calls me and says who is this girl and how long have you been seeing her. I said bring my phones to me and if you don?t I will report them stolen so I do and nothing happens. So She tells me who is this girl remember you punched me and you better say you?re sorry or I?m going to the police. I say go to the police I never hit you and this is about you finding out about this girl and me telling you I?m going to leave you for her. So I leave out of town to visit a friend only to come back to my house to get arrest by the police and tell me I?m being arrested for domestic violence and a firearm. She tells me I?m sorry how do I drop it and I didn?t think it would be a big deal and I was mad about that girl why do you think I filed it 4 days after the fact. After this my stupidly by letting her come back to my house and everything is fine and she called to drop the charges and the officer tells her that she can?t. Then she goes around telling everyone I hit her behind my back and playing cool with me. So one night we go out and while we are leaving her brother makes a remark and another brother follows me outside trying to start trouble. We get back to my house and I said you know what it?s time for you to go because your nothing but trouble. She jumps up goes out side of my door and starts yelling I?m telling the police you have a gun in your house and you hit me. So she leaves and I get a phone call from my mom say that someone called her and told her that my girlfriend is at the police station with her mom trying to get me arrest that I threaten to kill her and her family and I put a gun to her and so she puts out a restating order. Since this she has called my phone private and sometimes not and sent text messages and there are roughly 60 calls and I have recordings. I just let
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  • Jun 1st, 2011
    Someone from Pensacola, FL writes:
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    Spent 5 months in Escambia county Jail accused of DV case was non processede. I am out with no job, home,car and an arrest record
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  • Jun 1st, 2011
    Someone from Elberta, AL writes:
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    Spent 5 months in Escambia county Jail accused of DV case was non processede. I am out with no job, home,car and an arrest record
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  • Jun 1st, 2011
    Someone from La Place, LA signed.
  • Jun 1st, 2011
    Someone from Houston, TX writes:
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    The CPS has ruled out 6 false allegations against me, yet nothing is done to stop or punish the accuser for making false allegations.
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  • May 31st, 2011
    Someone from Jamaica, NY writes:
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    Sisters lies about me threating her all the time she should be jailed for falsely accusing me
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  • May 31st, 2011
    Someone from Blythewood, SC writes:
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    I am currently in the process of being accused of a criminal violent offense for something that my wife and myself do not believe has occurred. These laws put good families with great history at risk for divorce or mental and financial distress. I understand that they exist to protect those who are truly abused. I find any type of spousal abuse to be offensive, but the law in our state continues to prosecute even the best of people in order to get financial assistance. I have spent my life to build my good name and in a matter of seconds in the heat of the moment, one phone call and my entire career and reputation has been put into question. I have interacted professionally with thousands of people as a real estate agent and developer and I would encourage you to contact any of them as to the content of my character. I am for the lack of better words, disgusted with the state of affairs of our state pertaining to this issue. I would like to meet personally with my wife and my representative to discuss this matter further. I can be reached by cell phone at 803-730-4663.
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  • May 31st, 2011
    Someone from Columbia, SC writes:
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    The domestic violence industry has become a money making machine in this country. It's all about charging someone with the crime so that a state's statistics will look good in order for them to receive grant money to aid in so called Family Advocacy agencies and for those charged with domestic violence to pay fines to fund the salaries of all the prosecutors, etc. needed to try these cases. They don't care about the rights of anyone involved or how they are ripping families apart that are in these situations against their will. They don't care if it was just an argument in which both parties are at fault.....they remove all of your rights and they invade and take over your life and neither party has any say about the proceedings. These laws are not tailored to fit every situation......It's not one size fits all. Something must be done! There should be policies requiring law enforcement to make an arrest only when there is real, factual and physical EVIDENCE of domestic violence.
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  • May 31st, 2011
    Someone from Cambridge, MD signed.
  • May 31st, 2011
    Someone from Orford, NH writes:
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    Rally in Concord, NH 1 June 2011, be there to support the wrongfulness in False Allegations and the financial cost to NH Tax Payers. I can tell you my stories, but they are onthe same guidelines as everyone elses. Worse thing about them is when they involve children--HOW MUCH THEY ARE AFFECTED!!!
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  • May 30th, 2011
    Someone from Tyler, TX signed.
  • May 30th, 2011
    Someone from Knoxville, TN signed.
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  • May 30th, 2011
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  • May 29th, 2011
    Someone from Fort Mill, SC signed.
  • May 29th, 2011
    Someone from Oakboro, NC writes:
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    I am a mother of two wondrerful children. I support shared parenting and the efforts toward the modernization of our state and federal judicial system toward presumed shared parenting so that in the future not one more child is stripped of a meaningful relationship with a loving, fit parent against his or her will. As for false allegations of domestic abuse: Innocent until proven guilty. As someone has already stated, let the criminal court handle evidence of abuse.
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  • May 29th, 2011
    Someone from Grapevine, TX signed.
  • May 29th, 2011
    Someone from Charlotte, NC writes:
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    About 5/6 out of 1/6 of dads are fine, loving fathers--absolutely no domestic violence. Unfortunately, so much attention is paid to the 1/6 that families are being abused by our courts. They prevent the child from having a meaningful relationship with BOTH parents when one is given sole custody & the other becomes a visitor. This is NOT in the child's best interest. It's long past time to modernize custody law to 'PRESUMED SHARED PARENTING." Evidence of abuse can be handled in criminal court.
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  • May 29th, 2011
    Someone from Bellevue, NE writes:
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    This is just one case of many where the constitutional rights of our citezens has been abrogated by a lax and self service congress. Please do your job and protect and serve the people you represent!
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  • May 29th, 2011
    Someone from Tyler, TX writes:
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    When we create special laws that violate the constitutional rights of a class of persons by denying due process protection, we weaken our democracy.
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  • May 28th, 2011
    Someone from Augusta, GA signed.
  • May 26th, 2011
    Someone from Sedro Woolley, WA writes:
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    As a victim of false accusation of domestic violence. I would like any help in finalizing this case and ridding myself of any further contact with my ex. My friends have witnessed first hand of her manipulative, two facedness. She had no right to call the police just because she got mad for no reason. Thanks for all your support.
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  • May 24th, 2011
    Someone from Mobile, AL writes:
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    I am a 62 years old totally disabled with lots of major illnesses such as heart, lung disease, 2 ruptured discs with L-leg numbness and tingling all the time, sleep apnea, Tardive Dyskinesia, chronic chest pain, bi-carpal tunnel syndrome, L-cubital tunnel syndrome, depression, anxiety attacks, asthma, and many more, for 15 years in line of duty man. Because my wife never worked for a minute or earned a penny since I married her in a visit to Iran. She started with some huge demands like MOVING to New York and Travel to Iran with kids. I am on SSI,SSA only making $650 a month (she has been in charge of my EBT card since I received it and took $215 kid money for her own ambitions and buying inter national phone cards calling Iran & Montreal many hours a week) were not met she threatened me would make living like a hell. Then played a fake scenario of domestic violence by inflecting a few small bruises on her arm and her foot and took pictures of them in past several years. She first went to a shelter with my 2 kids for no reason told officers I blocked her friend phone (they were interfering in our lives, telling her get divorced, take the kids to Iran). Then asked section 8 to give my voucher to her and HUD terminated me based on false allegations those fake pictures. Then after 1 month she pressed charge for the same fase allegations. She attacked me several years ago was arrested, jailed for domestic violence pleaded guilty and received 1 year probation, few years later she attacked me with a toolbox and permanently damaged my L-shoulder after surgery never been able to lay on it and still suffering from pain & discomfort. 3 years age threw a 20lb weight to my L-pinky and fractured it in 4 pieces I did not press charges because of my 2 kids plus she already had criminal record could stay in jail for long time. In past few years turned my CPAP machine off many times at middle of night I ordered a new CPAPmachine and happened again and again, but there were nothing wrong with machines. I have been gradated from US Naval Academy as F14 Pilot earned 2 masters in technology and I was admitted and studied in PhD program, but due to failing health I never got my doctoral degree. Please help me!!!I am near dead and need help and to save other victims like myself from faker wives. God Bless America and God Bless You
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  • May 23rd, 2011
    Someone from Irmo, SC signed.
  • May 23rd, 2011
    Someone from Boise, ID writes:
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    I,m a victim of false dv charges and I took the case to trial. my ex-wife was allowed by the city prosecutor to falsify more of her story and the prosecutor refused to charge her for any of the multiple felony and misdemeanor crimes she did to me.
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  • May 22nd, 2011
    Someone from Hopatcong, NJ signed.
  • May 22nd, 2011
    Someone from Gilford, NH signed.
  • May 21st, 2011
    Someone from North Little Rock, AR writes:
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    This needs to be spoken about publicly. Women are abusing their feminity in order to cover up sin in their own lives. It is evil, cruel and harsh to cry in front of a judge to make them believe another person is violent. We need to protect the person who is being blamed unrighteously!!
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  • May 20th, 2011
    Someone from Springfield, TN writes:
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    This is costing our family big money. We either fight the wife's false allegations or watch our brother go to jail for something he did not do. We proved it once in Georgia (judge did nothing to her after it was proven he didn't do it and not one apology from the officers who roughed him up either in front of the elementary school no less) but she did it again in Florida. They throw him in jail at her whims (professional victim) and we pay big money to get him free. Kinda of hard to hold a job and pay her support at the same time. Something has to give. My nephew is going to need serious therapy by the time he reaches 18. Child Services is a joke. And do you know what is sickening, she has forged over $50,000 in forged Schedule II prescriptions in Georgia and it is like pulling teeth to get them to do anything to her. I've personally reported her to 4 different agencies and nothing. I am utterly sickened with the whole judicial system.
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  • May 19th, 2011
    Someone from Santa Barbara, CA signed.
  • May 18th, 2011
    Someone from Saint Albans, VT writes:
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    I was falsely accused and wrongfully convicted of a felony aggravated domestic assault based on hearsay. I was the actual victim for years and never pressed charges because it was the father of my children and I thought that I could help him w/his psychological issues. I was denied the request for a polygraph from my inadequate public defender. I was trying to escape in my car and the next thing I new, I was accused of trying to run him over while backing up. He continues to try to meddle in my life on a regular basis with constant false accusations and being stuck on parole for another 4 years makes it hard. I have since married (1st time) and have had 2 more children (newborn & 17 month old). All he has to do is get me wrongfully charged with anything and I will get sent to jail while my 2 small boys lose their mother and noone seems to care. He has assaulted cops, committed a couple of burglaries and grand larceny and suffers barely any consequences while he continues this sick obsession with me.
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  • May 17th, 2011
    Someone from Sunnyside, NY signed.
  • May 16th, 2011
    Someone from Troutman, NC signed.
  • May 15th, 2011
    Someone from Gilford, NH signed.
  • May 14th, 2011
    Someone from Elizabethtown, PA writes:
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    I was beat by my x-wife to the point that i needed to get stitch's in the ER. after our divorce sent went to the local YWCA and told them i beat her when i never touched her. She has no proof of abuse yet i have scar's. Now she receive's free legal help from them in our ongoing custody battle. I have spent well over 10 thousand dollars to keep my daughter safe. Men have no rights and it's wrong !!!
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  • May 14th, 2011
    Someone from Ocala, FL writes:
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    My son has been falsely accused by his wife, after she found someone else. Is there nothing we can do to stop this?
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  • May 12th, 2011
    Someone from Cincinnati, OH writes:
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    I am currently being falsely accused of domestic violence against the mother of my child. The system is so screwed up, just because she said I did it, a warrant was put out for my arrest. I was treated liek a criminal with no evidence against me, no witnesses, or any sort of proff besides her word. I am awaiting my trial in about a week and hopefully the judge see's and understand the whole story for what it really is. To make the situation 10x worse I am a 4th yr senior graduating in a semester, and i am a highly established football and track athlete. This not only destroys my reputation but also my future career in my psychology field and possible professional athlete field.
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