Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence
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Jul 1st, 2011Someone from Arlington, VA signed.
Jun 30th, 2011Someone from Jackson Heights, NY writes:
innocent men are being labeled as criminals and they have no defense. this needs to change.Jun 30th, 2011Someone from Gillett, WI writes:
There are 2 templates for DV , female and male. The legal system over looks the facts and apply the templates. A horriffic misjusticeREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 28th, 2011Someone from Mansfield, TX writes:
I was arrested, falsely for Domestic Violence, and a month later arrested for Violation of a MOEP. To date, the Violation of the MOEP has been dismissed, and the prosecutor for the origanal DV charge wants to dismiss the case, just taking a little longer due to political reasons. The problems are far reaching, as I am in the middle of a custody battle over our 7 year old son. Because of theses accusation I can only see my son supervised. I wish to have her prosecuted for filing a false police report, but I don't expect to find any relief, even though the proof the she filed a false police report is part of the court record.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 27th, 2011Someone from Havana, FL signed.
Jun 26th, 2011Someone from Long Beach, CA writes:
I WAS ACCUSED OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FOR MY WIFE, AFTER I FOUND HER CHATTING ON HER COMPUTER ON A SOCIAL NETWORK WITH SOMEBODY THAT SHE DIDN'T WANT ME TO KNOW WHO WAS IT, SHE SUDDENLY CLOSE THE COMPUTER AND TOLD ME THAT WAS NO BODY...I TOLD HER THAT IF SHE WANT THINGS THAT WAY SHE WAS FREE TO DO IT, BUT NOT WITH ME, AND I ASK HER FOR A TIME TO THINK THE WAY THAT WE HAVE TO MAKE ALL THINGS DONE, WITH DIVORCE AND ALL OF THAT SITUATIONS, ( WE NOT EVEN AGUE WITH LOUD VOICES, LESS FISCALLY CONTACT) SHE TOOK ARE TRUCK AND LEAVE, 10 MINUTES LATER SHE COMES BACK WITH A POLICE OFFICER ALLEGING THAT SHE WAS AFRAID OF ME, AND SHE WANTS TO TAKE THE CHILDREN AWAY FROM ME, THE OFFICER ASK ME IF THAT WAS OK WITH ME, I TOLD HIM, NO BECAUSE MY CHILDREN WERE SLEEPING AND IT WAS TOO LATE (AROUND 1:30AM), SO THE OFFICER ACCEPT MY REASON AND DON'T LET HER TOOK OUR CHILDREN ... NEXT DAY SHE FILL OUT ON COURT A FORMAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACCUSATION FORM, AND PUT ME A RESTRAINING ORDER FOR HER PROTECTION, AND PROTECTION OF MY 3 CHILDREN... I HAVE A COURT HEARING ON JUNE 29 2011..... DURING 7 YEARS I'VE BEEN THE ONLY ONE WORKING FOR MY FAMILY, AND OF COURSE PAYING FOR EVERYTHING...AND WITH OUT ANY QUESTION THE RESTRAINING ORDER WAS EFFECTIVE RIGHT AWAY AFTER SHE FILL OUT THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FORM, (WHY THEY NOT EVEN WAIT TILL THE COURT HEARING TO MAKE THE RESTRAINING ORDER EFFECTIVE, THAT WAY THEY HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY OF JUDGE BOTH PERSONS AT A TIME) ...HOW FAIR IS THIS? AND HOW FAIR THE LAW WILL BE WITH ME ON JUNE 29 2011. WOMEN, CAN LIE, THEY CAN FOUND WITNESSES (THEIR PARENTS, OR ANY FRIEND WHO LIE FOR THEM), AND THEY CAN MAKE EVIDENCE HURTING THEMSELVES...AND ALL OF THAT CAN BE VALID IN COURT TO AFFECT ME... AND WHAT I CAN DO TO DEFEND MY POSITION????????????????REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 26th, 2011Someone from Long Beach, CA writes:
I WAS ACCUSED OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FOR MY WIFE, AFTER I FOUND HER CHATTING WITH SOMEBODY ON HER COMPUTER IN FACEBOOK, THAT SHE DIDN'T WANT ME TO KNOW WHO WAS IT, I TOLD HER THAT IF SHE WANT THINGS THAT WAY SHE WAS FREE TO DO IT, BUT NOT WITH ME, AND I ASK HER FOR A TIME TO THINK THE WAY THAT WE HAVE TO MAKE ALL THINGS DONE, WITH DIVORCE AND ALL OF THAT SITUATIONS...SHE TOOK ARE TRUCK AND LEAVE, 10 MINUTES LATER SHE COMES BACK WITH A POLICE OFFICER ALLEGING THAT SHE WAS AFRAID OF ME, AND SHE WANTS TO TAKE THE CHILDREN AWAY FROM ME, THE OFFICER ASK ME IF THAT WAS OK WITH ME, I TOLD HIM, NO BECAUSE MY CHILDREN WERE SLEEPING AND IT WAS TOO LATE (AROUND 1:30AM), SO THE OFFICER ACCEPT MY REASON AND DON'T LET HER TOOK OUR CHILDREN ... NEXT DAY SHE FILL OUT ON COURT A FORMAL DOMESTIC VIOLENCE ACCUSATION FORM, AND PUT ME A RESTRAINING ORDER FOR HER PROTECTION, AND MY 3 CHILDREN... I HAVE A COURT HEARING ON JUNE 29 2011.....DURING 7 YEARS I'VE BEEN THE ONLY ONE WORKING FOR MY FAMILY, AND OF COURSE PAYING FOR EVERYTHING...AND WITH OUT ANY QUESTION THE RESTRAINING ORDER WAS EFFECTIVE RIGHT AWAY AFTER SHE FILL OUT THE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE FORM...HOW FAIR IS THIS?REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 25th, 2011Someone from San Antonio, TX writes:
i have a brother that is a thief and a heroin addict. he is one of those people that steal copper . long story short . he left his stolen copper in the front yard . i had my 10 yr old son help me pick up the mess we put it in his room. my brother got mad . he went some where and hurt himself then said i did it my son was with me the whole time i never even touched him . the law prevents police officers to make the decision if its true or not. even if it is obvious that the person is high and out of their mind. THIS LAW NOT ONLY HURTS INNOCENT PEOPLE. IT QUESTIONS THE INTEGRITY OF LAW ENFORCEMENT AND OUR GOVERNMENT. my son in which i have been teaching to call the police if he is ever in trouble . has just witnessed the police arrest his father while being innocent . what kind of impression does that make on a child? all i did was pick up garbage in the front yard and i have assault charges on me.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 25th, 2011Someone from San Pedro, CA writes:
Even after she said there was no abuse to child protective services, I was to "volenteer" to move away. From home, jeperdise my employment as apartment mgr. , and enroll in a domestic violence perpatrator class. . . . She was documented to say I was suicidal and she feared for her life. . . The truth is that I am the victim of her lies and of public ethics .REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 24th, 2011Someone from River Edge, NJ signed.
Jun 24th, 2011Someone from Kansas City, MO writes:
i have been battling constent false alligations from the father of 2 of my kids for over 4 years of the abuse of hotlines and abuse of the court system they need to be held accountable for these devistating crimesREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 24th, 2011Someone from Toledo, OH writes:
A relative of mine was falsely accused of domestic violance. He has filed for divorice and that just got "resolved" (over one year) but not child visitation that is limited due to the D.V. charge. His wife's cousin ( a grown Man) hit my relatives son (pre-teen) and knocked him on the floor. He has testified to the fact that my relative did not hit anyone.when my relative (the father) came into the room and asked if he hit him , his wife went after him and tried to push him back into another room while screaming at him. She called the police and , of course they took him away. He has told the police, and lawyer & prosecutor that the man hit his son and no one would listen to him and no charges filed. Also this cousin left before the police came and the wife told police no one else was there. This is not the first time she has filed false charges. She previously filed charges that my relative was not supporting her and their son and my relative was actually living with them and supporting the family he was only one even working. She has several family members living with them and he was paying all the bills. After the divorice the courts gave her a very large alimony plus child support. It is far more than he has left to live on. He has $750 a month for rent and all living expenses. They are all from another country. She told the court that she can not work because she can't drive and that was acceptable to the court. There is so much more, all unbelievable. The lawyers want him to take a plea bargin when he has not commited any crime. I think this is a crime by it's own right.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 23rd, 2011Someone from Baltimore, MD writes:
Not fair at all. I am a woman that was falsely accused by my fiances ex wife. She also threatens to say I molested their son. There is nothing I can do about a protective order that she used false allegations against me to obtain. There are no rights for people that go thru this. The DA wont prosecute a person that commits perjury. This is sad..very sad!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 22nd, 2011Someone from Littleton, CO writes:
I am signing for all the men who have been falsely accused, arrested and destroyed by the current judicial system in place. They have taken away their rights and we are now living in a police state.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 19th, 2011Someone from Old Bridge, NJ signed.
Jun 19th, 2011Someone from Manchester, CT signed.
Jun 17th, 2011Someone from Carrington, ND signed.
Jun 17th, 2011Someone from Ocoee, FL writes:
I am a firefighter. I was with a woman for 3 months. She was very insecure. This caused a lot of problems between us. I left her and she threatened to kill herself. I went to her job to possibly have her baker acted. I wanted to talk to her to find out if she really planned to harm herself. She asked me to follow her to a coffee shop so we could talk. On the way she flagged down a police officer and told him she was afraid for her safety because I was stalking her. I was arrested, lost my job and spent the night in jail. The DA didn't press charges, however, now she has filed an injuction for protection and accused me of holding her hostage and domestic violence. I would never do anything to hurt a woman. I'm 40 years old and have never been in any trouble. The government has a tuff task. We have to protect our abused women and can't discourage them from coming forward. But this is a horrible position for a man that is falsley accused.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 17th, 2011Someone from Lubbock, TX signed.
Jun 17th, 2011Someone from Austin, TX writes:
I am still struggling to believe what is happening to me right now after my 15 year old son failed another drug test and then subsequently falsely accused me of actually punching him with a closed fist in the eye. I am or was the custodial parent of 10 years with exclusive rights and an ex who would only visit him for a few hours most Thursday and every other weekend - for 10 years I have done it all, and that includes holding him accountable for his actions. Now, he has moved to his mom's (which is not a real issue, he needs a relationship with her) but changed schools and I am in the process of being prosecuted by the state for something I did not do so my dear son could evade the real issues of his drug problems. When I was arrested over one and a half weeks later and thrown in jail, I kept thinking that sooner or later some rational adult would talk to me and see what was going on - but no, now I am in debt to a lawyer fighting to maintain my rights and have lost custody to the ex who wants me punished and is counceling the boy that he cannot tell the truth now because they will punish him for lieing. Wow. This law has probably saved lives and makes sense in regards to the intent, but for those of us with NO history of domestic violence that did not even come close to their charges - it is a crime that could alter my life for being a parent and trying to hold a child in trouble with drugs accountable.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 16th, 2011Someone from New Milford, CT writes:
I am sighning for my brother David who lives in Kissimmee, Fl. He has gone through so much with his ex who has also made false accusations against him and now that my mother lives there she has even tried to put a restraining order against her which was denied. Friends and Family knows her all too well because of the deceit and lies she has put us through and sadly because she is hurting my adorable little nephews. I pray often for my family and that God's right hand of justice will see us through this.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 15th, 2011Someone from Syracuse, UT writes:
its not fair ! it ruins you ! in front of neighors ! family gets involved and the guilty who get caught with drugs and lis is the victum when you try and help them ! not fair !REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 14th, 2011Someone from Glen Burnie, MD signed.
Jun 14th, 2011Someone from Middletown, NY signed.
Jun 14th, 2011Someone from Glen Burnie, MD signed.
Jun 14th, 2011Someone from Washingtonville, NY writes:
Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? Pathological liars win again!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 14th, 2011Someone from Millersville, MD signed.
Jun 13th, 2011Someone from Glen Burnie, MD signed.
Jun 13th, 2011Someone from Oaklyn, NJ writes:
My husband screams his loudest and falsely accuses me of hitting him when he is asked to take out the trash. I need him to understand this is a serious matter.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 13th, 2011Someone from Oaklyn, NJ signed.
Jun 11th, 2011Someone from West Chester, OH writes:
this has happened to me and judge allowed my ex into the home with her gf only to rob me blind stealing tools, distroying property,taking my idenityREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 9th, 2011Someone from Normal, IL writes:
My family is going thru this right now. My husbands ex-wife, Rebecca Smith, has fasely accused him of child abuse. My husband and I both made a statement, along with our daughter. Nobody will listen to us. She makes this false claim and now jobs are in jeopardy. Not to mention that his ex wife is a police officer. Who does that? She knows the system and she knows how it can work in her advantage. She told his son to write something in his journal at school. Then DCFS was called in and an investigation was opened up. Not Once has DCFS called the father to get his side of the story....NOT ONCE! This is a police officer who does not followed a court ordered document of allowing her son to skype his dad twice a week and to have daily contact with his dad. She has prohibited this but yet nothing happens to her. But let me tell you she definitely keeps getting paid each month. It's a classic case of parent alienation but the courts don't want to hear that. We have documented evidence of this and the fact that she has violated a court ordered document. But does the legal system care? No. Now the false claims of child abuse. My husband will be lucky if he ever gets to see his son again. Since the allegations she has not let my husband speak to his son. Someone please help us!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 9th, 2011Someone from Pasadena, CA signed.
Jun 9th, 2011Someone from Bellevue, MI writes:
I myself have seen weman slapping ,kicking,and hitting men and men just set there and let them then the woman calls the policeREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 8th, 2011Someone from Dexter, MO signed.
Jun 8th, 2011Someone from Pagosa Springs, CO writes:
I have to watch helplessly as my boyfriend suffers from his ex-girlfriend's false accusation of his abusive nature. I have been with him for 3 years and not once has he showed that he ever deserved this. He is paying for her spiteful drunken comment to a buddy cop of hers from high school, which ended up in the STATE making a case against him. She did not even try to press charges, just tried to get sympathy and a restraining order to save some face. He was not even in the state at the time, he was with some friends in Utah. He got arrested when he got home and and was scared in to signing a plea bargain. Did I mention that her dad has been the mayor of this tiny town for 30 years? The whole idea of having the state involved in a case when false allegations were involved is insane! It is so frustrating for him to have to pay (quite literally) for a crime he did NOT commit. Women can be abusive as well. Have our civil rights been taken away from the men in Colorado and other "no tolerance" states? His ex-girlfriend has moved on with her life, gotten married and has a son and a life. She has apologized to him (many times in front of me) but, the damage is done. My boyfriend and I can't even move to another state together because of his probation. His life and his name has been destroyed because of this. His rights have been taken away. He has to work all the time to keep up with all the different charges demanded by the state while still trying to take care of all his personal bills. Just to read the stories of the people effected by this is heart breaking. I just wish there was something that could be done.REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 6th, 2011Someone from Camarillo, CA writes:
This cost me $1,000 when my son's girlfriend assused him of hitting her. My son 18 and GF 20, She placed a restraing order on him, than a week later the police finally finish their paperwork and came to our house and told him he needed to finish his paperwork. We both walked outside to talk to them, the next thing I see is them handcuffing my son. I should of pressed charges against this girl when she was sleep with him at 17. He has a clear record. She however does not. How does this work? She was the one forcing him to stay home from school and have sex, taking care of him. Once he turned 18, she told him he didn't need to go to school, go to adult edd like she was doing. There should be a law agaist this!!REPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 5th, 2011Someone from Hamilton, OH writes:
This has happened to my brother from the same person over and over she went as far as to leave messages on my answering machine telling of her plan in her own words my 18 year old son was present at the time that the allegations supposedly took place he stated this was untrue that none of the statements alleged by the so called victim took place when the police arrived I tried to get them to listen to recording that the victim left herself minutes before police arrival and my son also tried to tell them in his uncles defense that these allegations never took place and that the the so called victim and her Mother cooked up the whole thing in front of him to punish his uncle for not bowing down to unreasonable demands of his spouse concerning his handicapped child's Graduation Ceremony she did not want him to attend it because the child is not hers rage and jealously took over and she had him jailed on false charges resulting in him missing the Graduation and worse yet the termination of employment that he has been at same job for over 15 years because he was charged falsely with domestic violence he was terminated!The police would not listen to anything they took him with no proof and destroyed his life in all aspectsREPORT COMMENTS
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No, CancelJun 5th, 2011Someone from Erie, PA signed.
Jun 4th, 2011Someone from Independence, OR writes:
U.S. citizens stripped of their civil rights without due process.REPORT COMMENTS
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