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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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  • Jul 26th, 2011
    Someone from Los Angeles, CA writes:
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    I have been arrested twice for domestic violence in Los Angeles. I told my wife I didn't want to be married anymore due to her verbal and physical abuse. I told her I wanted a divorce. I was arrested April 2010 when I was the one who called the officers, the 911 operator stayed on the phone with me you could hear the hits I was taking to the head and the jaw and the glass that was being thrown at me while I sat on the curb. She put make up under her eye and I was arrested. She came to visit me a the jail the very next morning, no make up and no black eye. She then told the police I assaulted her June 2010 when I was no where near her, I am now going to court for that in a different city only because I plead no contest to the April 2010 accusation in order for me not to loose my job, but they list me a convicted. She stalked me and harressed me at my new home and my place of employment. I was able to get a restraining order placed on her for 3 years. She even lied to the judge on the day the restraining order was issued and told the judge that I tried to punch her when she went to my job and chased me around and hit me, little did either of us know it was being video taped and that's what I used in court, 2 seperate videos showing her assaulting me. These laws have to change and punish these woman who lie on us me and ruin our records and reputation because their scorned or unable to let go. I am stressed, depressed, and scared the system will once again believe her lies. I don't know what to do other than to pray.
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  • Jul 26th, 2011
    Someone from Ormond Beach, FL writes:
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    I was arrested because I told mty ex wife I was done with her abuse and driking and driving. I was arrested the next day and have never been able to get my property back. I went through months of her telling me if she did not get her way she would take everything from me and sleep with other men. She did it all and I still can not get my injunction removed even though she had no evidence.My life has been ruined by her and Judge Shawn L Briese.
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  • Jul 25th, 2011
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  • Jul 24th, 2011
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  • Jul 24th, 2011
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  • Jul 22nd, 2011
    Someone from Raynham, MA writes:
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    The laws in MA are not upheld, unless you are a woman. It's absurd.
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  • Jul 21st, 2011
    Someone from Saint James, MO writes:
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    There are way too many false acusers out there! Women and children of abuse need to be able to report that abuse, but, there has to be a high price for making false acusations. The way it is right now in this country. If you got a grudge, "Theres a Hotline for that". The government will harass anyone you are mad at for free!
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  • Jul 20th, 2011
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  • Jul 18th, 2011
    Someone from Keithville, LA writes:
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    this is going on right now and we all know the woman is lying. this is not justice! please put an end to this by also arresting her! this is control on the womans part which is also mental and emotional abuse. she calls police all the time! she should get in trouble and be fined. there should be a law and she should do time!
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  • Jul 18th, 2011
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  • Jul 18th, 2011
    Someone from Phoenix, AZ writes:
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    I am going thru this exact nightmare right now...the mother of my boys got heavily addicted to percocet and oxycontin to the point of lieing to her associates , my family , students , that I was a wife beater. i tried to remove the boys from her direct supervision and told her that i would help her get rehabilitated and that once she could prove she stopped her drug abuse for a substantial lenght of time ( 90 days ) that we could go back to the 50/50 custody agreement . instead she hit herself ( or had someone else do it ) and called the police and told them I hit her. right now , my life is in judicial limbo and I am seriously worried that the court is going to believe her due to the laws that are currently in place.i pray to God that something can be done with the serious abuse of these laws to gain leverage in custody battles , not to mention destroying the lives of two innocent children...and mine
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  • Jul 17th, 2011
    Someone from Fulton, MO writes:
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    A neighbor harassed my wife and I for a year before using the court as his latest tool to stop me from making legal complaints about his decrepit property. We had to move. For gods sake we have authorities to handle criminal conduct, let them do it. Remember, it is "supposedly" better that 10 guilty persons evade conviction rather than 1 innocent person be convicted.
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  • Jul 17th, 2011
    Someone from Trenton, NJ writes:
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    Not only do women do this to men but men also do it to women. It happened to me and my ex husband falsely accused me of hitting him when i didn't touch him. The motive is to have the upperhand in custody of the child/children.
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  • Jul 17th, 2011
    Someone from Monmouth Junction, NJ writes:
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    I am a former victim of domestic violence and have always supported the laws we have to protect the victims of DV. However, I have seen unethical women abuse the laws and these laws were not made to victimize anyone.
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  • Jul 16th, 2011
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  • Jul 14th, 2011
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  • Jul 14th, 2011
    Someone from Battle Creek, MI writes:
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    I met this girl in 04 eveything was perfect. she pushed that we had a kid and in april 06 we had a boy. that's when the lies started. she started accusing me of violence toward her and my son even going as far as saying i tried to poison my son. six months later she left with our son and would not let me see him and she started calling him by another name. she has got everyone convinced i beat her the state of michigan wont let me pay child support because then i would have the right for visitation. so while trying to save for a good lawyer for custody, she now has accused me of home invasion and domestic violence. I turned myself in after getting letter from court (and never being questioned) seen a judge and was locked up with a $10,000 bond and I'm facing 20 years. I DID NOTHING. I've got a court appointed attorney he wasn't doing much until I finally convinced him I would not take there plea deal and now I'm waiting for a trial (6 months now). meanwhile she is still harassing me and spreading more lies. HELP.
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  • Jul 14th, 2011
    Someone from Bushkill, PA writes:
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    I brought my sons up to respect women and not put their hands on them, Unfortunatley the table was turned when he pushed his girlfriend when she attacked him while in his sleep, beating him on the head with his cell phone, she called the police said he pushed her and was put out of his house with only the clothes on his back in the middle of december. Then the nightmare began with the court system. A FEMALE judge in Lackawanna County Pa. heard the accuser say he provokes my rage and yeah I did hit him, HER (THE JUDGE'S) response was I would of hit him too. BE ADVISED this is what is going on in our court system. Predjudice Judges who are PRO ABUSE if a woman is doing it.
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  • Jul 14th, 2011
    Someone from Yonkers, NY signed.
  • Jul 14th, 2011
    Someone from Durham, NC writes:
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    oh my, if only i could explain how strongly i feel about this. my bf was just in jail for a month for this bull and if they had only asked questions they would have found out me and his brother was both with him in a different city when this whole situation supposedly went down......thats 30 days he can never take back
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  • Jul 13th, 2011
    Someone from Wheeling, WV writes:
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    My son is dealing with this right now, yesterday in court she admitted lying under oath to get the order. Want to bet they do nothing to her?
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  • Jul 13th, 2011
    Someone from Readsboro, VT writes:
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    to make a long story short its the goverments short commings in my case .me and my wife have been under alot of stress and got into a small spat in wich i was hit in the face several times with a wooden spoon i proceeded to take the spoon from her in wich she recieved a small mark on the other hand my face was a mess .she called the cops and gave a statement and told them she wanted me in p.c. for the night .i gave my statement and they didnt like it and told me so you dont want to give a statement .and i went to jail .when court came up the public defender gave me to choices go to jail and wait for a court date or pay them all kinds of money and attend spousal abuse classes and pay them all kinds of money .my wife and i love each other very much and it was a freak thing under the circumstances and she amitted she was at fault but i sighned the deferred statement for my wifes name and so i didnt have to go back to jail.vermont courts and law are so crooked its not funny
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  • Jul 11th, 2011
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  • Jul 10th, 2011
    Someone from Salt Lake City, UT writes:
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    I must approve that....
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  • Jul 9th, 2011
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  • Jul 8th, 2011
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  • Jul 8th, 2011
    Someone from Mount Airy, NC writes:
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    As a victim of DV I am outraged that people will use the system to claim they have been abused just for the personal gain! I am watching alot of people hurt from false accusations being made against my childhood friend/fience! It has cost him his children, his reputation and work. All because his childrens mother claims he hurt his chilren and her. he proved those allegations weren't true and that she had lied under oath, and was still convicted. The children are being hurt physically and emotionally and yet the courts still won't listen. I feel that there should be something done about this, but it feels as though nobody will listen!
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  • Jul 7th, 2011
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  • Jul 6th, 2011
    Someone from Plymouth, MA writes:
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    This can happen to a man or a woman. The abuse of this system is outrageous, not just by the abuser but by everyone who encourages these women to lie. It is unconstitutional that you can be charged without proof, absolutely no proof. The person who lies wins in these cases sooooooooooooooooooooo sad!
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  • Jul 6th, 2011
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  • Jul 5th, 2011
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  • Jul 4th, 2011
    Someone from West Palm Beach, FL writes:
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    I know of a lady who filed a false report against another women due to jealousy and had her arrested now the accused has to fight for her freedom for something she never did and she doesn't even know or ever meet the accuser but police didn't believe her we need help to protect the innocent against people like that.
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  • Jul 3rd, 2011
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