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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.
Public Comments
Aug 10th, 2017
Someone from Fort Lauderdale, FL writes:
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Some provisions of the Violence against Women Act (VAWA) are being used by foreign national spouses to bypass the immigration laws of the United States to obtain a Green Card. On 07-03/2017, my wife went under the care of the Crisis Center for Domestic Violence with my son, WITH A PURE FALSE DECLARATION. PLEASE, “THERE WAS NO VERBAL THREATS TOWARD HER “ AND “I DID NOT HIT HER IN THE HEAD WITH A HAND GUN A FEW DAYS AGO.” THIS IS MORE THAN A FALSE STATEMENT. Why did she not call the police that day to witness the blood and the scar ?. WHY NOT, SHE SHOULD. She lied to the authoriries. GOD IS MY ONLY WITNESS . I found myself falsy accused of a crime like that I did not commit. We must take a stand ENOUGH IS ENOUGH - THE LIARS ARE THE WINNERS.
Aug 9th, 2017
Joseph G. from Evanston, WY signed.
Aug 9th, 2017
Someone from Evanston, WY signed.
Aug 9th, 2017
Judy C. from Sebastian, FL signed.
Aug 9th, 2017
Someone from Knox, PA writes:
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Father falsely accused of raping his daughter, 1 of 5 children, no evidence wife mentally challenged wants rid of him for the free stuff she gets off the system wrong with this system he's in jail,my son ,it's not innocent until proven guilty it's guilty until proven innocent and these attorneys and judges are making big bucks and fame while destroying the family and innocent people falsely accused
Aug 8th, 2017
Alex C. from Sebastian, FL signed.
Aug 8th, 2017
Judith C. from Sebastian, FL signed.
Aug 7th, 2017
Roberto A. from Lynn, MA signed.
Aug 7th, 2017
Roberto A. from Lynn, MA signed.
Aug 7th, 2017
Roberto A. from Lynn, MA signed.
Aug 7th, 2017
Someone from Lynn, MA writes:
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This is a most reprehensible crime. Those who fabricate to get ahead, to get what they want or for their own selfish reasons don' t know the pain, suffering and they cause to those they choose as their victims!!! These people should have to prove what has happened with physical evidence. Those falsely accused are treated like criminals even though in this country "you are innocent until PROVEN guilty." People's lives and reputations are ruined because someone said an act happened...STOP this now!!! Keep these innocent men safe...
Aug 5th, 2017
Someone from Marysville, WA writes:
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I was the victim of a fraudulent restraining order by a serial abuser & false reporter. False accusations of rape, child abuse, and child sexual abuse but our "no rules of evidence" DV law means that Commissioners can use even open bias in deciding a case when you have a mountain of evidence to defend yourself. The person with the DVPO against me proceeded to stalk me via social media, my mail, in person, send me threatening phone calls and even found a way to monitor my text and phone calls. The police did nothing because she was the one with the restraining order and prosecutors don't prosecute these cases without a restraining order violation. As a result I lost my home, I was homeless with children, and my children lived with an abuser who repeatedly put them in the hospital. I'm one of the few who successfully mounted the evidence to prove myself innocent of DV allegations beyond a shadow of a doubt. To this day I live partially in hiding because the Courts are always willing to help my abuser and my children's abuser. I will never vote again for anyone who supports this bigoted theft and abuse of our children. I vow to spend every day fighting till my children no longer cry every night because the Courts place them with a documented (by CPS & medical professionals) abuser. Do your job and impeach the corrupt Judges and Commissioners who don't follow the law but instead profit off of abused children.
Aug 5th, 2017
Edward R. from Roanoke, VA writes:
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False accusations of domestic abuse are widespread and systemic. If you are accused, you are guilty. They are happening because there is NO BURDEN of PROOF, there is NO DUE PROCESS, and there is absolutely NO RISK for lying under oath.... they NEVER prosecute it. Give American citizens their due process rights back, STOP taking action against innocent American citizens, unless they have been PROVEN to have committed a crime, and start PROSECUTING the people who are PROVEN to have lied... its already Felony perjury... start prosecuting them. It really is that simple.
Aug 5th, 2017
Alfredo A. from La Quinta, CA writes:
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As a victim of this malicious Act I can say that I would not wish this on any man who loves there kids.
Aug 5th, 2017
Alfredo A. from La Quinta, CA writes:
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As a victim of this malicious Act I can say that I would not wish this on any man who loves there kids.
Aug 5th, 2017
Someone from La Quinta, CA writes:
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The day after my husband and me started dating his ex-girlfriend/daughters Mother, found out he was dating somebody she called the police to his house which he solely owned and told the police that he broke her cell phone on purpose claiming that she walked into the room and the phone had smoke coming from her phone. The police office took him in and processed him. He was let out early the next morning and returned to his house and she showed up with the sheriff and a temporary restraining order which stated that in October 2015, December 2015, and February 2016 "he got physical" with her, I have heard women who have actually been victims of domestic violence and never once did the describ it as "he got physical" they actually had details of what had happened. They also didn't all of a sudden 4 months after the supposed last incident become in fear for her life. Which I guess it was just a coincidence that it was the day after his first date with another women, not to mention she had never called the police or had the police called from a neighbor, shown or told anybody prior that "he got physical" with her in their whole 6 year relationship. During the month he had to was waiting to contest the restraining order, which she included his young daughter on, he was told he could not go home to his own house because she was living there and he was not allowed to see or speak to his daughter. The hearing was postponed for another 6 weeks and when he finally went in with his self paid attorney to contest the trumped up accusations she told the judge that he broke her phone and she held up a broken cell phone which could have been from 5 years ago for all anybody knew. My husbands attorney could hardly get a work in before the judge shut her down and continued to do so. He then granted her a THREE year restraining order for supposably braking her cell phone, I guess all the evidence he needed was because she said so. We became aware that she had no belongings at his house and has not been staying there for the last 6 weeks prior to the court date and yet when his attended request that he get to have his house back she claimed that she stilled had to get a few things out and the judge gave her another 60 days to do this. During this time she took all the TVs in the house all of his cloths, broke off all the tops to his cologne bottle and helped herself to any furniture she wanted. She kept him to his daughter for o et 2 1/2 mouths she left the a/c turned way down and was not allowed in his house, where he had all of his tools for his self employed company for 120 days. On top of all of this she requested that the judge send him to anger management classes which he granted 52 weeks of classes and he can't have joint custody (physical or legal) of his daughters till they are completed which is finally a few weeks away, which means he has not had any say in her education or medical decisions for this whole time and over the last almost year now his daughter has flunked her class and the teacher thinks she has ADD and the teacher is holding her back and she refuses to believe it and is insisting on sending her on to the next grade which she is not prepared for. She has gained too much weight due to her feeding his daughter fast food every time she has her and we can only control what she eat and studying when we have her. The principal of his daughters school see what she is about and has provided a letter to the court in order to help him obtain joint physical and legal custody back so we can hold her back as the teacher insisted she needed and then we can get her tested for ADD since her Mother won't. This last year has been one huge nightmare for my husband I feel so terrible that he has had to go through this and I hope and pray the judge will see her for what she is, a big fat liar, and give him back some say over his daughters life before it get too far I to this year. Oh I forget one of the other huge thing she claimed that she made all the payments on "her" car which my husband is actually the sole owner and the only person on the loan and the judge has given her sole control over the car which we have had to. See the payments on since she has yet to make 1 and what does she care since its nit her credit and she is so irresponsible I am afraid she is going yo let the insurance laps and then get into an accident and then it would be our liability since its his car, which I still am not c,ear how the judge can just give her my husbands property to drive around even though they were never married and our state isn't a common law state so all she ever was, was his girlfriend and they broke up and be let her have access to his house for 4 months and handed her his car. On top of the fact that we pay her child support and we have his daughter more than she does. I just hope he made a mistake and for some reading thought they were married or something and then we can sell the car and get that liability off our backs and give us the control we need to insure his daughter is healthy and learning how she needs to learn. There is so much at steak with this and she just acts like nothing ever happened in fact she actually said that was just our break up, like somehow she thinks that is how everybody handles a break up. It is just terrible that women would lie about something so horrific that is discusting and the court just believes everything she says
Aug 5th, 2017
Howard G. from Holtsville, NY signed.
Aug 4th, 2017
Ian G. from Davenport, IA signed.
Aug 4th, 2017
Ian G. from Davenport, IA signed.
Aug 4th, 2017
JON I. from Brooklyn, NY signed.
Aug 4th, 2017
Gregory S. from Manchester, NH signed.
Aug 4th, 2017
Someone from Rockville, MD writes:
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False allegations of domestic violence are a blight on the soul of our nation's criminal justice system.
Aug 3rd, 2017
Someone from Gallatin, TN writes:
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I have four sons, and two of them are just starting to go through a small portion of what many of these men have experienced. my heart breaks for so many. My sons were raise in a broken home, and by a step father and later we divorced, but I never thought of doing the things I have read here, to this day the two the wasn't his and he raise still call him dad. I can' t wrap my head around what my sons will be facing in the future, in a system that is broke, like this, when all they want to do is be good father the way they were raise to be, I remember my oldest when he divorced, his ex, was trying to pull the every other weekend, he said, I would never expect you to be a mom just 4 days a month how could you expect me to be a dad just 4 days a month, guess, that puts it in perspective. I pray the courts change before more children pay the price.
Aug 3rd, 2017
David C. from Encinitas, CA signed.
Jul 30th, 2017
Someone from Oklahoma City, OK writes:
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I was wrongfully accused of domestic violence by my husband because I told him I'm getting a divorce and getting full custody of my daughter. The DA picked up the case and is trying to charge me with DV with zero proof I gave a police statement which stated what really happened no physical altercation what so ever. No bruises ext. He told me he felt guilty about lying and just did not want me to get full custody of my daughter and divorce him and move on. I have voicemails of him admitting he lied and he's went to the DA and admitted his false accussation. Yet I have to pay for a bail bondsman and lawyer for a case all from a lie
Jul 29th, 2017
Rob O. from Granite Falls, WA writes:
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Caught my wife having an affair. I was beaten with a frying pan and punched repeatedly by her for finding out. I defended myself from the constant beating by putting my arms over my head. She wouldn't stop beating me so I put my arms around her to stop it and we hit the floor together. I was arrested for assault and preventing reporting of DV cause she said I took her phone. We lived next door to sheriff station. The door was 40 feet from our house. She could have ran to Sheriff if she was afraid. I was arrested by just her words. 5 Months later she admitted to lying and my charges were dismissed with prejudice. I have received no justice but am still paying the price to the tune of $30,000 borrowed dollars. Her new boyfriend moved in the night I went to jail. She later kicked him out for choking my 7 year old son. She protected him from the police but kicked him out anyway. This woman is mentally ill and addicted to prescription pain killers. The part that gets me is the courts (divorce) still treat me like I committed a violent crime. All the judges are woman. Stop discriminating against men. You are damaging children in the name of feminism. My 3 children have lived with me for the last 18 months and she still gets the money to maintain her lifestyle. My kids end of sleeping in strange places on her weekends so she can get drunk and laid. Different men different locations. She drinks and drives with my kids in the car and the court calls it "hearsay". In the name of humanity I demand you take a stand against this form of discrimination. YOUR HURTING THE CHILDREN!!!!!!!!
Jul 27th, 2017
John M. from Cummings, KS writes:
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i am being accused of domestic violence for hitting a woman trying to kill me . we were driving to texas from oklahoma and she had a bipolar episode attacked me yanked the steering wheel as hard as she could we were going . i had three children in the back and oncoming traffic . i hate that i had to do it but i did pop her to get her off the steering wheel and my self . i did try to pullover during her assualt on me and was unable to see to safely stop i seriously believe that she would have killed us or my children if i had not done what i did . am i wrong or should i just go to jail and loose my children to her and her mental problems ?
Jul 24th, 2017
Jay P. from Los Angeles, CA writes:
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In family courts the rule of law is reversed, the woman does not have to prove her allegations, it is for the man to prove that the allegations are false, This is why every man should stay away from american women, you should read "Marry not an American woman" on Amazon, for advice and shocking facts.
Jul 24th, 2017
Christopher L. from Nampa, ID writes:
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I am fighting for my freedom and my family in Idaho after my brother falsely reported details of a domestic situation to prevent being arrested for violating probation. I was arrested without having an opportunity to answer questions in presence of an attorney and I chose to protect my wife by not incriminating her for a mistake that was made when alcohol interfered with her bipolar medication which led to a violent mood swing. My hired me a private attorney and paid $2600 towards a $4000 retainer but then her family got involved and told her that if she confinued helping me she would lose her two kids to their biological fathers. Then a month after I was incarcerated she made a report alleging that I attempted to strangle her which no evidence supports and I had been the one who was suffocating when she covered my mouth with her forearm as I was trying to tell her that she was hurting me. I had major neck surgery a few months before and she had me straddled hitting me in the face. I forgive her actions both in the moment and for being in fear of losing her bilogical children but this situation ripped my family apart and Idaho Statute 202A says that in cases of self defense the party defending themselves are not to be in any legal jeopardy whatsoever. I was charged with Felony Domestic Violence with Traumatic injury due to biting down when I was suffocating and could not push her off of me. The officer in charge told my wife my brother's version of what happened and asked if anything he said wasn't true to which she stated it made sense. Medical reports show that he was intoxicated and was hysterical among other emotions, with her having admitted to punching things due to being angry, including a large picture which led to her cutting her hand before wandering off without concern for the children and after being brought back home she disappeared again and her parents had not heard from her who had her two biological kids for several hours because. She subsequently got a DUI.
Jul 23rd, 2017
Someone from Agoura Hills, CA signed.
Jul 23rd, 2017
Someone from Agoura Hills, CA writes:
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My husband had me falsely arrested on DV charges to get an advantage in a divorce that he knew I wanted. I was fortunate enough to get the charges dropped, but I was the second woman he did this to. This is not okay and should be a crime. He should be punished. All he wanted was my money (he hadn't worked in 6 years), custody of our son, and to hurt me. This is becoming more and more common and is something that should be punishable by law. A false claim can ruin someone's life.
Jul 19th, 2017
William D. from Little Chute, WI writes:
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I was treated guilty from the start. At the first preliminary trial, they gave me no custody and I couldn't even be heard. I felt like i had no rights, and all the years of raising my kids meant nothing because of the charges which were falsely brought out. She reacted and hit me, but i was pretty much told it was a losing battle. Even if I raised my voice it could be disorderly conduct, so I was too scared to defend myself against the system. Instead, I just took the plea deal to clear my record. When i went to all the counseling sessions, the counselors even said that they couldn't believe i had to be on the program. I even homeschooled my son. This was the most unjust and worst time of my life. I never had anything on my record before that divorce, and after it a2 year restraining order, and a case for domestic disorderly conduct. Luckily I finished the plea deal, and got the charges dropped.
Jul 19th, 2017
Nina A. from Killingworth, CT writes:
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My son was wrongly acused of domestic violence,and has been in and uut of court for over a year . There still waiting for medicals that haven't shown up ! My son has had depresion since this alegation and never had a criminal record before this .there have been several men in this womans life with the same situation going on because she has arested them in the same situation even a ex spouse.
Jul 19th, 2017
Nina A. from Killingworth, CT writes:
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My son was wrongly acused of domestic violence,and has been in and uut of court for over a year . There still waiting for medicals that haven't shown up ! My son has had depresion since this alegation and never had a criminal record before this .there have been several men in this womans life with the same situation going on because she has arested them in the same situation even a ex spouse.
Jul 19th, 2017
Taryn B. from Yucaipa, CA signed.
Jul 19th, 2017
Alexa M. from Colorado Springs, CO signed.
Jul 17th, 2017
Thomas M. from Thousand Oaks, CA writes:
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I know first hand about being victimized by my ex wife and the criminal court system. My ex accused me of both physical and mental abuse. The truth is just the opposite. I suffered from her abuse for thirteen years and six months and when I told her I wanted a divorce she and two co-conspirators called police and made false claims of threatening her and my children's lives. I was a gun collector and avid target shooter. All of this was used against me and after 6 criminal hearings the DA was telling me I will serve 17 years. I was horrified and scared. I was forced to accept a plea bargain or face a trial where 2 friends of her had already bore false witness against me. My ex wife's psychiatric history was not allowed to be presented in any of the 6 hearings. There was never any allegations of abuse against me in the entirety of the marriage. I was debt free and had just paid the capital gains taxes on the sale of my business. The truth is they called the police who sent a SWAT team to remove me from my home. I thought the call from the police to me saying to put my guns down and come out the front door was a prank. IT WAS A PLANNED MURDER BY MY EX WIFE MANIPULATING THE SYSTEM USING SWAT TO CARRY OUT HER VICIOUS RAGE AGAINST A GOOD MAN. It is 24 years later now and she has been getting away with her LIES without consequence. I have suffered the losses of all I worked hard for and my good name has been tarnished by accepting a felony plea bargain for crimes I DID NOT COMMIT. STILL ****ED OFF.
Jul 17th, 2017
David R. from O Fallon, MO writes:
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Currently, the law for criminal prosecution for false domestic violence accusations can only be administered by a district attorney. More than 99% of these cases go unpunished simply because the DA is overwhelmed with case load (primarily drug enforcement). The law can be altered to be a civil case, allowing individuals falsely accused to press charges.
Jul 16th, 2017
Robert E. from Thermal, CA writes:
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My life has been ruined by this, I lost my job, my home, and have no ability to see or contact my daughter because I am not able to afford a lawyer. I did nothing to my ex, and was arrested anyway. My daughter was my life and this is wrong to do to anyone
Jul 16th, 2017
DarylAnn B. from Yucaipa, CA writes:
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Happening to my son right now in Washington state. Lives are being ruined by women that deliberately lie know they can get away with it and they actually laugh about it. It's disgusting
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