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Spouse Bereavement Leave (Initiative to Amend the FMLA)

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  • Nov 17th, 2013
    Someone from South Point, OH writes:
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    I lost my husband to leukemia when I was 27. It wasn't just my grief I had to deal with but also that of my two children. They needed comfort and reassurance that they weren't loosing Mommy too. Please make the humane choice for families & extend FMLA to cover time off to grieve for a child or a spouse. We're not asking for pay; just time to deal with arrangments and grief for the family.
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  • Nov 17th, 2013
    Someone from South Point, OH writes:
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    I lost my husband to leukemia when I was 27. It wasn't just my grief I had to deal with but also that of my two children. They needed comfort and reassurance that they weren't loosing Mommy too. Please make the humane choice for families & extend FMLA to cover time off to grieve for a child or a spouse. We're not asking for pay; just time to deal with arrangments and grief for the family.
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  • Nov 16th, 2013
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  • Nov 13th, 2013
    Someone from Belfast, TN writes:
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    I had a very close friend go threw this as well. Her son had just passed away from SIDS. Her husband couldn't take the loss of his son so he committed suicide by drinking Draino. She found him while still alive ..all the while being 6 months pregnant with her second child. FMLA should cover grievance of any close family member ( child, parent, spouse) the same as they do if that said family member is sick. I am sorry for your loss. I hope this gets passed.
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  • Nov 13th, 2013
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  • Nov 12th, 2013
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  • Nov 12th, 2013
    Someone from Cardington, OH writes:
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    This is unacceptable.
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  • Nov 12th, 2013
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  • Nov 11th, 2013
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  • Nov 8th, 2013
    Someone from San Jacinto, CA writes:
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    I am appalled, dismayed, disgusted , perturbed and very apologetic . I am so sorry that this happen to you, My mother is Lillian Garland she fought to get this law FMLA on the books went to the Supreme Court to make it a federal law and they do this, I'm outraged, I'm forwarding her your story. I pray God blesses, keeps and heals you.
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  • Nov 2nd, 2013
    Someone from Sharon Hill, PA writes:
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    The same thing happened to me and while dealing with the hardest thing in my life.. I had to function occupationally. It was too difficult unnecessarily.
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  • Nov 1st, 2013
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  • Nov 1st, 2013
    Someone from Iraan, TX writes:
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    I agree
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  • Nov 1st, 2013
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  • Oct 23rd, 2013
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  • Oct 21st, 2013
    Someone from Murrieta, CA writes:
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    I could not imagine the pain of such a loss. People need to grieve without fear of losing their jobs.
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  • Oct 17th, 2013
    Someone from Anderson, CA writes:
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    As a widow myself - I could not have gone back to work so soon after losing the love of my life. It has been 1 year, 2 mos and 3 wks and I am still deeply grieving.
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  • Oct 15th, 2013
    Someone from Omaha, NE writes:
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    I did not lose my husband to suicide, however, the feelings ARE the same. After reading this post, I dont feel so crazy. After 12 years together, my husband was 32 and killed in an auto accident. I never thought I would be widowed,my world has been turned upside down, some days I just want to cry. I am finding it very hard to go to work, I have made it one full day and it has been a little over a month. But when everything slows down after funeral arrangements and everyone coming over. Now is when it is hitting the hardest as life will never be the same. I feel like I am going to have a mental breakdown at any moment. I'm trying to fix myself right now and it's hard to do when you are trying to take care of your kids needs and feeling of losing their dad. Worrying about losing your job should not be added to all the pain and hurt you are already suffering.
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  • Oct 15th, 2013
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  • Oct 14th, 2013
    Someone from Mays Landing, NJ writes:
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    I'm 33 years old. I am a widow and grieve the loss of my twin daughters and I can attest that there is nothing, save time, that can help mend the wounds caused by grief and loss.
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  • Oct 6th, 2013
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  • Sep 27th, 2013
    Someone from Vallejo, CA writes:
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    There is no reason this shouldn't be included
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  • Sep 26th, 2013
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  • Sep 12th, 2013
    Someone from Dayton, OH writes:
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    I agree with this request.
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  • Sep 12th, 2013
    Someone from Franklin, OH signed.