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Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 years now. we have a year old son together. he also has 2 other kids with another girl that was before me. in all of these years she never put him on child support untill i had my son. he went to jail at the first of this year and while he was in there she told him that if he would move in with her she would drop the child support. well now that hes back with me she wont let him see his kids and shes taking him back to court. his oldest son walks around with his head down and tells everyone that his dad dont want him. we bought all of his school supplies and clothes and everything last year. its just sad that mothers use their kids to make the father do whatever they want and if he dont do what they say she puts him on child support.
Child support laws need to be reconsidered, rewritten, or basically abolished. I have watched this system and judges unfairly treat fathers truly concerned for their children get treated like criminals and financially raped. Women today are not honest and know that they can get what they want from a judge. These judges need to be replaced by citizens that truly look to serve justice for broken families and the child or children involved. Women are cheaters too, women trap men, women do some serious damage to their own children and to force a man to stay or pay is wrong. These women need to be held accountable for what they really spend on children and support should not be based on a percentage of the mans check it should be a set amount based on the number of kids such as $100 per child per month. Kids have no business shopping every month, and that money should not go towards paying a bill that the grown woman asking to raise the child should go and work and pay the bill herself. Men mayove on and remarry and have more children and should not be held responsible to pay for a seperate household. Wives come before anything, people writing these laws "under God" should look back into the bible and understand the order of how a family works and baby mamas or ex wives are not entitled before a man's current family nor should he be financially responsible just because of "hurt feelings". Laws need to change because these men and families are getting educated and get enough people to stop paying and say no we will see where this country is then.
Run by a bunch of crooks who obviously have no clue that money doesn't buy happiness. Mom's and Dad's do yourself a BIG favor and do NOT put your children in the "system".
Wish that Congress would open up their eyes I've been paying support for 22 years and by the way for at least 15 of it I've been homeless, slept on freinds couches n have had a horible time paying rent. I cant keep up! This means i havnt been able to b productive in society including fed income taxs,ss,cant get health ins. And why is this? Becuasand e a DRIVER LICENSE is a nesesity! Please fix it nation wide!
The system that is currently in place is being abused by a lot of individuals and is forcing some individuals into debt. Some of these child support payment amounts are ridiculous for people on middle class incomes. Where is the government accountability to the custodian parent and what he or she spends the money on/for?
I think law should look at every situation different and grant custody and order the parent that not doing everything to pay support. The one that take care of the kids and household should not be punish for doing what they are suppose to be doing and already doing.
As a single working mother, I believe it is both parents responsibility to financially support their child/ren. Why should one parent be punished because he or she is a hard working parent, by having to support the other parent who refuses to work, and is encouraged not to work by receiving a free pay check every month.
The laws and guidelines are bias and unjust.
We had an agreement of 450 a month and split all the sports and other activities, her live in boyfriend quit his job and now his daughter lives there too and so now she wants more money ,looks like they are going to make me pay her almost 1000 a month and I have my kid everyday he isn't in school.This is justice???????
If a father lose his job his child support does not change. I submitted a letter to have my child support lowered because I lost my job. It was denied due to the fact that I am not up for an review for another year. I pay over 500 a month in child support. No matter how much you have to pay at 2500 dollars you can end up in jail and other things can happen. Now this goes for no matter what you have to pay. Me personally I have no problem with supporting my children and don't care if she works or not as long as kids have what they need. I just want to say that the amount of where you could end up in jail or can't leave the country and more. Should vary by what you have to pay. This is only right because in 5 months I don't find a job I can go to jail where as if someone only pays 150 dollars a month has more time. To find a job. Also if you lose your job you should be able to have an review to help fathers. These laws need to be changed all fathers are not bad fathers things happen and laws need to be changed plus I put my self on child support. I hope the right person sees this and can make some changes because it definitely needs to be fixed.
I recently found out that I had a four year old son living 7 hours away. The mother until now has never contacted me to tell me. They lived here until four months ago and all of a sudden she wants money. I have NO problem helping to support my child. But she wants back pay too. The price is absolutely ridiculous. I'm married now with a two year old daughter. I make roughly 1200 a month and I'm looking at paying 400 to her. Its physically impossible to support a family on 800 dollars a month
My girlfriend is always threatening me with support if I'm not with her, i don't recall when she ever bought diapers. She likes to party a lot with her friend at clubs and drinking , i feel helpless since the girl always wins
In 2006 my husband of 23 years was ordered to submit to a paternity test for a person that was 16yrs old at the time. There should be a statute of limitations. The mother should have some responsibility to come forward if it is truly for the welfare of the child. Instead she lived her life and when it was convenient for her she sought child support. At 16 yrs old this person had already been in trouble and now at 24 has been in and out of jail for drugs and prostitution. He is now still paying back child support and has been arrested 3 times and spent 4 months in jail because we didn't have the money to pay. A man that has NEVER been in trouble with the law and has been in his 3 kids lives from day 1. The law is wrong and it needs to be changed. This shouldn't happen to any man or woman!
My ex wife collect three SSI check and child support check from me at 23%. She don't work for 15 years I have been paying the mortgage and Equity line which my ex wife name on it. Government SUCKS!
I completely agree with this statement. We all know of these kind of situations. As there are career criminals there are also career child support takers! We ask ourselves, why is there such high crime rates, the answer might be because these women go in search of stupid men, get pregnant and then sit around and collect child support checks from different "baby daddies!!!" They don't care who they are having these kids with, the truth is, it's easier to birth them and collect than take the chance at getting paid for fostering children that can easily be taken away any time...and there goes their paychecks. We can't however just blame these low lives collecting child support from these men...we need to also blame the system that allows for this to go on!!!!
Why do females have children they know they can't afford then take all the fathers money through child support and don't even have to work but the dad on the other hand have struggle while she don't even try to work
My son has been paying got behind when people lost there jobs but is working to catch up He applied to get 2 grown in there mid 20s kids removed so he could catch up Paying what court says Ex wife wants him in jail She wants all back pay How will that help if hes in jail Then she gets nothing His kids dont bother with us the grandparents or my son They brainwashed them into hating us
even if they work part time the calculations they use are rediculous; I am going backrupt with what I am paying my ex.
There should be a fair amount for a father to pay. Fathers are working 2 jobs to pay child support and to pay there own bills and food on the table. People say there are so many dead beat dads, their dead wrong. There are fathers out there busting the tail for their kids. Maybe they work 2 job, to pay child support and to have a roof over their head, food on the table. They work so hard that, they cant see the kids. Maybe are tired of struggling and become homeless, cause all the money they have is on child support. Maybe, if the laws was fixed, there will be less so called dead beat dads in jail. Maybe, if they could afford the child support, they wouldn't be in trouble with the law. Maybe, the kids would have a father that can spin time with and look up too. And the kids would have a better up bringing. Cause they wont, if they are working to pay it. Or in jail for it. Make the laws fair. I think the child support system is broken and the laws need to be fixed.
my gross pay is $500 now -$100 for taxes and $200 for child sapport = 200 left over. rent and bills not coverd = me homeless. now they take lisence for arrears {witch ive been paying consistant for over a year}.. = lose job. = can no longer even pay sapport and gets sent to jail.= more arrears interst n penalties and now they make money off u in jail to..... how is this sapose to help the kid??? o its about money not the kid i forgot...
I have seen all sides of this child support issue.
1. My mom raised me and my sister on minimun wage salary and without the help of our dad.
2. I do collect child support($200 a month) from my ex husband. This money goes directly to my son's NEEDS (medicine, shoes, clothes, etc) it is NOT much but it IS enough to help out.
3. Before my now husband's children came to live with us, he paid BM $1200 a month for 3 children. Every month for 3 years she would call asking for money for groceries because she didn't have food for the children. Husband had a judge ask her for all of her bank statements and such, only to find out that she was spending the Child Support money on herself, eating out and buying herself clothes and such. The judge didnt do a darn thing about it after reviewing all of the financial info. All the while husband had to buy the kids clothes and shoes on top of the monthly CS payments. BM has a degree and chooses to work part-time minimum wage paying jobs because she makes more off of CS.
Yes!!! Child Support laws MUST be fixed!! They MUST be equal since BOTH participated in the making of a child. I'm so sick of these women making some father's part time daddies and taking their money!
I have a child with my x-wife and I have a child with a girl that traps dads for a living. My x-wife has a millionaire for a father hired the most expensive attorneys while I couldn't afford to touch a lawyer after the found out who her attorney was. We divorced I worked for her father . The judge called me a dead beat father and being unrepresented was put into a corner and she managed to get supervised visitation which I didn't even get that as she did not do the paperwork she was supposed to so I could see my son, and order to pay 358. a month with no job. My ex wife married a felon with a record as long as my 2 arms this guy also works for her dad and was fired from there for sexual harassment they had 2 kids at this point and they separated. I have not seen my kid in five years and she files with department of revenue on myself and the other father so that way she can apply for government assistance for all of her children somewhere in between she is pregnant again and back with this guy and works for millionaire daddy once again. she is asking for 17k from me for 5 years back due and not once offered me to see my kid blocked me from all social media, cell phone communications ect. and meanwhile daddy pays her rent in the apartment complex he owns drives the new ford explorer he bought her while she can parade around and take advantage taxpayers and a hard working man trying to survive, it gets better. I dated a girl for 2 weeks she told me that she was pregnant oh and that I should also be treated for chlamydia , she already had a 2 year old and was battling dad in court I found out that I knew other baby daddy and got to talking with him and all the things that she told me that father was a dead beat abusive doesnt pay child support was a complete fabrication. He pays quite a bit in child support actually and I start defending the father and same thing that my ex wife did to me she did to him alienating him from him but still wanted to collect that child support with a dose of harrassment to him and his wife driving by their house taking pics of what they own to try and get him to pay more money next thing you know here comes my paternity suit from this girl living with grandma whos retired from the department of children and families food stamp fraud department asking me for money to support our daughter but she decides im not like the other father I wanna see my daughter and I have the money this time around to defend myself , so what does she do. when all else fails get an injunction. and ask for support. injunction falls through from lack of evidence increasing my attorneys bills and having her attorney send my attorney frivolous letters trying to get my bills up to not be able to afford it anymore. This girl used her grandmothers years of knowledge of the government system to be placed on wic food stamps dor to keep her attorney costs down soo at the time I am battling her with that and what happens next she gets pregnant again a
My husband works 40-60 hours a week at $15.00 an hour. After taxes its about $1900 a month. He pays $552 dollars to biological mother #1 for one daughter and pays $807 a month to his ex wife who he has three kids with. He lives on about $300 a month. His ex wife has alienated him from their children. When he does get time to spend with them he has to refuse because he can't afford the visits. We have to drive round trip 8 hours (16 per weekend) as she rufuses to meet us half way. She drivs a brand new vehicle. Dresses in name brand clothes, get her hair done and nails done, goes out to eat at fancy restaurants every night. Mean while my husband can't afford rent :(
My childrens fathers rights were terminatwd because he killed our youngest son. He beat him to death. I didn't collect a dime of support from him. I raised our surviving son by myself with out support. While he was in prison he got SIX college degrees. He served ten years and has been out now for almost 2 years and he's making $130,000.00 a year. I should be able to get some of that for raising my son alone for 13 years. . . but I can't because his rugjta were terminated because he's a murderer. Please look at these laws and hear the people paying child suppor . The system is broken and extremely flawed. Non custodial parents are suffering and no one cares to fix it. Its time to change child support laws now.
The federal government needs to base it on minimum wage. They need to come up with a fair amount per child and cap it off at tha . None of this taking 65-80% of a non custodial parents checks. Like, $140 a month per child. Custodial parent pays $150 a month per child and a non custodial parent pays $150 a month. That's $300 dollars a month. That is plenty to raise a child on. Change the laws NOW. Just because a non custodial parent makes 50 grand a year doesn't mean they should have to pay more than a parent who works a minimum wage job. That's discrimination. FIX THE LAWS NOW!
Who's hiring these Judges that we pay our tax dollars for.I mean we pay their salaries , they have no understanding, very rude they belittle you.There should be a petition to fire them all! You are not giving us men a chance to be anything else.Exemption should be shared every other year.If the fathers working and paying he should benefit.My exgirlfriend has every benefit the Government has to offer!How is this legal?!New car every 2 years.Oh she makes sure she stops by my house to show off her new success in Life.When wil you realize that these are not the same women Like Grandma,No,These are a different breed.They will suck you dry without the enjoyment.They are seeking stability without working.Five different dads,Do the math?Why work?This is Modern Day slavery
Child Support Laws are outdated, and completely unfair to Fathers. I should not be paying so much money that I am unable to live, at the same level my kids are living at. When I am able to have them, they have nothing when they are with me because I cannot afford it. Yet, their mother is able to own three cars, go on vacation, travel regularly to visit family and friends all who live out of state. Yet makes LESS THAN I DO! and I still have to pay for things my kids need because the mother claims she has no money.
Fix the system!
I have seen every side to the child support system... I grew up with divorced parents who worked it out together regarding financial support, but I saw my dad every other weekend from Sat-Sun. Now, I'm a stepmom, and have been for 13 years now. My husband and I have a younger son. He's a wonderful dad! We have/had my stepson every weekend (Fri-Sun), every day school was closed, all of winter break minus 1-2 days, all of spring break, every other week in the summer. So, basically, we have a type of shared custody but in the eyes of child support, he should be paying the bio-mom. We provide food, electricity, shelter, clothing, etc as well. Then, there's my younger brother's dad... a total POS. Doesn't spend time with my brother, pay anything, support him in any way, shape, or form. My mom does it all on her own. And, somehow she makes too much money to get any type of financial assistance through various programs. I have researched this topic lately, and it's astonishing the absolute hell some dads are put through. I did not have my son to one day depend on his dad's money. If my husband and I split up, that's a personal thing, it has absolutely nothing to do with my son. And, these horrible women who literally tell their child their dad is going to go to jail, etc (yes, my stepson's mom actually told him this when he was 12) should be ashamed of themselves. It is NOT anyone else's fault that some women choose to stop taking birth control, not be forthcoming with that information, and continue to make poor choices regarding their personal life, except their own. And, maybe my viewpoint on this topic is due to me having a son... I don't want him to grow up, get "tricked" into being a dad with someone he doesn't love, only to be faced with this nonsense for the next 18+ years. Something really needs to be done about this particular system and the way it is structured.
Im a hardworking father who's very dissapointed in the system. I pay childsupport on time but i often see my son go without his basic necessities because of his moms negligence. She spends the childsupport money on other things besides my son. Congress must pass a law to protect the interests of millions of innocent children .
I pay so much child support a month no matter if I work or not and I cant even afford to live and start a new life the way it's structured. I'm behind on everything.
Im a hardworking father who's very dissapointed in the system. I pay childsupport on time but i often see my son go without his basic necessities because of his moms negligence. She spends the childsupport money on other things besides my son. Congress must pass a law to protect the interests of millions of innocent children .
I work two jobs I'm killing myself... I'm getting very tired each and every time.. at what point in time will my kids lose there dad cause I had to work two jobs to survive... my health is not getting any better.. i cant even afford the copay to visit the doctors office for a check up..I'm tired most of the time... my time with my kids are getting less and harder. one job pays for my 3 children. Which then leave me with 0 dollars... The other job Suppose to pay for a roof over my head and food and light and it's never enough..I own friends and family a lot of money..so much that I know I couldn't pay it back. it's getting ruff... I'm afraid that one day I will over sleep or mess up at work cause I'm so tired...my first job requires me to be very alert and I can't lose this job cause it's a very good city job and it's my future...my kids are well taken care of and their mom works and has a good job as well... I feel like a bum..I've been wearing the same old clothes that I had for over 10 years... I can't even buy my kids birthday or Christmas gifts....I feel very bad. I lost my car and about to lose my cellphone...I'm becoming so disconnect with the world...please please help!!! The man didn't just make the child, the women took part as well... both parents should pay...not just one....I pay over 2,500 dollars a month...my kids live like kings and their mom like a queen... she has a good car...a very nice home.. she looks her best all year long and I'm pretty sure it's not just with her money..and as for me a man that had it all.. now I live like a bum...while she's living life with my child support and meeting new people. I can't even go out on a date... not that it matters cause to me its about my kids but why are we paying so much money... whether it's cause the government don't want the women on public assistance but what about the man... I feel like I need public assistance but guess what.. I'm told I make too much. I don't know whether to laugh or cry...I have a great job and yes I used to have money for activities for the kids and myself... but my check just this week was no kidding 0 dollars.. I worked for 0 dollars... and the other job doesn't really pay much...kids are our future but they don't need all this money... what values are we showing our kids or our women...please make changes... I don't wanna lose my kids because I have to work 16 to 20 hours a day just so I could pay for a roof over my head which now a days it's too much money...and last I don't wanna lose my job or get slammed by child supports back pay cause I ended up "god for bids" in the hospital cause of exhaustion....just note that I'm trying very hard for my kids...
My husband pays over $1,000 per month for 1 child even during the winter when he is laid off due to seasonal employment. He's also still paying for full-time daycare even though the child is now in elementary school & is not in daycare. The county should have taken that off of the court order over a year ago. The child support laws in MN are ridiculous. His nasty ex wife is living off of her income, my husband's income, her previous ex's income that she also got knocked up by & her live in boyfriend's income while we can barely afford to pay our bills. Minnesota at its finest.
I feel giving half of your check and health insurance is to much. N. C. Laws for C.S. to way one sided, towards the mother of course.
I am a single mother of a 15 yo son. Divorced his father 14 years ago and went to court to deviate BENEATH the guidelines, even though I had custody of my child the vast majority of the time. I do not expect a man to pay my way, or my child's way. MY SON IS MY RESPONSIBILITY 24/7. I am disgusted by the vast majority of women's behavior in these circumstances. I have so many male friends who try to be good fathers yet they get screwed by vengeful, nasty, immature, "I am the victim" women. Even if the women cheated on them or worse (addicted to pills ring any bells?)! There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with this system. Men who try to be good dads are being taken advantage of, and the courts are all too accommodating to women and constantly being lied to. So many women expect to live off the man they were once married to for the rest of their lives, setting a terrible example for their children. Where is the accountability, ladies? I did not choose that behavior and I think women who do should be punished for it (by more than just karma). The children should come first, not some ******** feminist revenge that the courts are clearly enabling. I think nowadays, it is men who try to step up and women who fall short, far more often than anyone cares to talk about. I see it everyday. It's disturbing beyond belief. We are in desperate need of new guidelines and laws that protect the integrity of both parents equally. And women should realize it is their responsibility to support themselves AND their children while the children are in their home, especially in cases of joint custody.
My ex bought a brand new car after collecting my child support and I can barely afford to be in college with all the money I am ordered to pay this is unfair
They should be obligated. Being a parent is a job of 2 people, not of one. CS is for the child, not for the mother. Women are required to go back to work after 6 weeks if not they lose their jobs. Women then requesting CS should also be required to work after 6 weeks.
13 years my husband paid child support and medical insurance for his 3 kids. His ex has lived off of the child support and Social Security the youngest receives for being disabled. I found 4 different simplified financial statements dated from the years 2000 through 2012 where she reported her income as 0.00 income and welfare benefits. Child support payments should be made to support the children, however the custodial parent has responsibility for working and supporting themselves. These $0.00 income custodial parents should be held accountable verifying where the child support is being spent. Child support should be just that, Child support!
You know my boyfriend only makes minimum wage, WV & SC take $200 a month = $400 a month. He told the Bureau of Child Support that left him with only $150-$200 a month for living. He told them he was almost homeless and about to lose his job. They had the audacity to tell him that housing was a privilege, yet they expect the father to have nothing, be nothing, and still work to support his children with no housing or food himself. How ethical is the USA. I understand yes you have to help support the child financially but why do think all these mothers and fathers are going to jail. Would you want to work and only bring $200 home a month & not even get to see your child when.court ordered because of the mother NO. SOMETHING NEEDS TO BE DONE AND FAST.
Bunch of ********. Women want fair pay, treated fair......wait no I am a women I want my money.
CS Laws are designed to punish Non Custodial Parents, more specifically Fathers. Fathers are no longer allowed to be Fathers as the Mothers are given ALL Rights to Child. Fathers are forced in some cases, bankrupt and homeless yet they are held to a strict financial burden where as the Mothers are free to move in a boyfriend, and spend money however they want. It is deplorable. Child Support laws are a legal way to get even w/ Men. They should be reformed and Custodial parents should have to account for every dime received.
I pay a decent amount of child support each month and I have my kids 50% of the time. My kids mother, chose to quit her job "because she couldn't handle working" only to take a job paying 35% less in pay. Guess who got stuck paying because of that. ME... Just found out last week she is now pregnant again and about to have her 2nd kid with her new husband, and chooses NOT to work for 3 years now. Tells my kids that she doesn't have to work. So where is this right? Not only that, she doesn't use that money towards my kids, but her other child seem to get all kinds of new things... Something needs to be fixed.
The CS laws are archaic, to say the least. It's like us men are getting punished for being a father.
I have two awesome boys ages 8 and 3 and I'm paying $2163 a month in CS. This is a mortgage payment and is beyond ridiculous. Once me and my ex split I moved (of course) and all hell opened up. She says this could've been avoided if I hadn't worked so much. WTF do these women want. I've cut the cord on both of my son's and I am a hell of a dad(financially, mentally and physically). I'm 27 and have had my job since the age of 20 and I'm blessed beyond measure and I know this is a test of my faith, but the court system and Judges should also rule with common sense. They take CS off of gross which is stupid and do not factor in any living cost of the defendant (mainly dads). Men stay prayed up and let's stop having these children with non-wife material. I've learned and will not have any more children out of wedlock. God bless and let's end this madness.
These so called stay at home moms are nothing but lazy sponges on us all.
Child support is too high. As its suppose to get dead beats to pay which don't either way and cost tax payers more money for jail etc. It at the same time causes a great dad to lose everything. Rates way too high lower.
My fiancee is currently ordered to pay 25% of his GROSS income, not take home, to his childrens' egg donor even though the kids LIVE WITH US. She only sees them for a few hours 1 day a week. The judge knew this, and still ordered my fiancee to pay her. We could not impute an income for her when we went to court to reduce it from the 50% of his GROSS income he was paying because she receives $9 a month in cash assistance. That is not 9 with any 0's in it, that is simply 9 freaking dollars. These laws are disgusting and the judges perpetuating them need to be held accountable. "Women" like this are the reason there are so many absentee fathers and men in debt. I am absolutely outraged and I hope something is done about these pathetic laws very soon.
Child support laws need to be looked at again. By having these ridiculous laws for the other parent to pay because the custodial parent wants to make them pay. These women, just have sex and go from guy to guy and get pregnant so they don't have to work and use these kids as a meal ticket. How can you have a kid, leave their dad, get married to the guy you cheated on with the first kids dad. Only to find a boyfriend to get you pregnant, once again. then leave the boyfriend and go back to the husband. Now this woman has 2 meal tickets. Leaving the father of each kid just to get money out of them. CHILDREN ARE NOT MEAL TICKETS!!!! Why don't you make the mothers that go from guy to guy and get pregnant, pay child support?!?!?!?!? Half of these women, don't care about the child(ren), THEY JUST WANT THE MONEY!!! Those women who get child support and won't let the fathers see their child(ren), SHOULDN'T GET CHILD SUPPORT!!! They are just using the kids as leverage to get what they want. IT'S NOT FAIR TO THE WORKING PARENT WHO WORKS THEIR TAILS OFF JUST TO HAVE IT TAKEN AWAY AND THE CHILD DOESN'T EVEN GET THE MONEY SPENT TO PROVIDE FOR THEM BUT WHAT THE CUSTODIAL WANTS FOR THEMSELVES. BY HAVING ALL THESE CHILD SUPPORT LAWS, IT'S BREAKING FAMILIES APART. NOT BRINGING THEM CLOSER TO EACH OTHER. THESE LAWS ALLOW THE CUSTODIAL PARENT TO PLAY WITH THE CHILDS LIFE AS WELL AS THE NON-CUSTODIAL PARENTS LIFE. IF CONGRESS PASSED THESE LAWS SAYING TAKE MONEY FROM ONE PARENT AND GIVE IT TO THE OTHER, THEY ARE TEARING THESE FAMILIES APART. CONGRESS, IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT? DO YOU REALLY WANT TO RUIN FAMILIES? MOST OF THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS JUST HAVE BABIES TO GET MONEY. IT'S NOT RIGHT FOR YOU, CONGRESS, TO RUIN FAMILIES. TO DRIVE A WEDGE BETWEEN THEM AND MAKE PEOPLE GREEDY WITH MONEY. CONGRESS, ALL YOU ARE DOING IS SHOWING THESE CHILDREN THAT IT'S OKAY TO GROW UP AND HAVE LOTS OF BABIES AND COLLECT CHILD SUPPORT BECAUSE YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT FAMILIES. CONGRESS YOU HAVE FAILED. IF YOU REALLY WANT TO HELP THE FAMILIES OF THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA, START BY BRINGING FAMILIES TOGETHER!!!! CONGRESS IS ONLY SHOWING US NO MATTER IF YOU ARE IN YOUR CHILD(REN)S LIFE OR NOT, YOU WILL PAY FOR THEM. SOMETIMES IT'S THE CUSTODIAL PARENTS WHO ARE THE DISHONEST ONE AND WEASELS, WHO WANT EVERYTHING AND WILL KEEP HAVING KIDS TO GET IT. STOP TEARING FAMILIES APART!!!!! BRING THEM TOGETHER!!!!!
The child support system or as it should be call the lmb. Lazy mother bank . Should stop . It is a horrible thing . Men good men are committing suicide because they have nothing anymore and are going to jail becoming homless because it is impossible to afford two households. It isn't right ! It's sick . Men are suffering from severe anxiety and depression also . Who comes up with these half*****systems ? The mother needs to work full time ! I don't want to hear women can't get a job or don't have time . Since the 80s women's employment has sky rocketed . Thus system is killing people period .It does no good. A man can't pay because there are no jobs he gps to jail. Think that man gos to jail , who flips the bill ? The tax payer does . Who reeps the rewards ? The county , and state both get fedral kick backs for sending a man or woman to jail because they can't pay support . Really a good system. New York is one of these states . Real poverty here unless you work for the court system or jail. It can be proved to . Change this now
I am not the father of this child dna and sumited to the court and i am still getting charged for this i need help this is not fare what they are doing
My mother has five children and has custody of every one. She literally did nothing but mooch off of other guys and live off child support, food stamps, and other guys money she was dating. Even though I barely know my father, I feel like the amount he still owes my mother is outrageous, and unfair.
Child support is killing me. The court took my kids from me. The court takes my money.
I think child support is to high for a man. And a man cant even take care of there child like they would like to because of child support. Thats not right a man cant even live as high as child support is they should really change yhe rules on child support some women do just because they are not with the father any more and the father is happier an can take of there child with a peace of mind. Some women use it to pay there on bills and buy things for themselves. Please help change the child support all over

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