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My gf and I had a verbal argument I left my home to give us time to calm down only to receive a phone call from the local pd wanting me to meet them so we could "talk" I did not show out of fear of getting arrested and now I have a warrant for DV with no bond all either of us did was raise our voices and say nasty things to each other I have no money for an attorney what should I do I cannot lose my job and I also have custody of my 2 kids and now have nowhere to turn I know I need to turn myself in I don't know what to do my life will soon be ruined please help
It's important to protect those who are being abused, however the current system does not protect those who are falsely accused. There has to be a way to protect those who are being abused, and those who are victims of false accusations.
My kids mother has put to fake the Domestic violence charges on me In the last two years. I just got out of jail for one of them So I go to the police station to ask them for help. She's making accusations about giving me another fake charge Because I won't be with her. The police tell me they can't do nothing. Help:(
June is False Allegations Awareness Month. ...............Fathers' organizations now estimate that up to 80% of domestic violence allegations against men are false allegations. Furthermore, 70% of restraining orders are trivial or false. ....................... Tired of the Lies and Myths? Check out these startling facts.
Did you know criminals and mental illness are NOT the majority of murderers?
Did you know America is the leading jailer in the world?
Despite being Innocent over 95% are forced to plead guilty rather than go to trial.
Did you know at least 12% of People convicted of 'Serious' crimes are INNOCENT? (Probably much higher than 12%.)
In the 1990s, a federal inquiry found that DNA testing, then new, was clearing 25% of primary suspects. (DNA evidence is of little if any use for the vast majority of the wrongfully convicted. Only 5% to 10% of all criminal cases involve DNA evidence)
Did you know America is NOT Free?
Did you know the US Constitution guaranteees every citizen the right to possess firearms yet thousands are in prisons for owning a firearm?
Did you know some government officials, and members in Law are domestic enemies, traitors, and perjures to the US Constitution?
1 in 10 falsely accused of child abuse, sexual assault, and domestic violence.
1 in 3 falsely arrested for domestic violence nationally.
Law Enforcement in North Dakota arrest the wrong person in domestic violence cases nearly 1 out of every 2 incidences.
Law Enforcement Officers commit the most violent assault crimes, the most sexual assault crimes, the most fatal excessive force crimes, and police domestic violence nearly twice the average rate.
..................... North Dakota Wrongfully Convicted https://sites.google.com/site/nodakwc/home/domestic-violence-scam
My ex-wife Anna Zubkova came to US (with my financial help) as visitor from Uzbekistan in 2006. 2007 we got married in NY. 2008 all her family came to US. 2009 Anna stole my personal identity info and through her parents sent it to immigration lawer. 2010 Anna Zubkova reported false domestic violence and with our two daughters moved to city shelter applying for section 8 NYC housing programm. 2014 Anna Zubkova got her Green Card with code B26 (domestic violence victim). WE NEED TO STOP THIS LOOPHOLE IN THE US FEDERAL LAW LETTING VISITORS GET IMMIGR. STATUS VIA FALSE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.
False allegations of abuse by my wife for a green card.
I am one of these victims
VAWA Is unconstitutional legislation. It denies basic human rights to those who are accused whether it is falsely or not. Every human being has the right to face their accuser. Where are the measures to protect people from false and vindictive accusations? Espescially when it involves immigration issues. In immigration marriage fraud, filing false claims of abuse is widely encouraged to gain favorable advantage with immigration loopholes. Non-citizens actually have more rights and protections under U.S. law than U.S. citizens do. I believe that is a major failure on the part of our country's legislature to find an appropriate way of dealing with legitimate and illegitimate claims. In order to have hope of justice, there must be a system that protects all, not just the majority. There also needs to be a clear definition of court proceedure for issues that cross multiple disciplines of law. An example would be immigration through marriage. I have had 7 attournys in 2 years fighting my non-citizen wife and her false accusations. I have had 4 family law attournys, 1 criminal defense attourny, 1 immigration attourny, and 1 civil litigation attourny, and I still need to hire an expert in immigration marriage fraud. It has cost me into the 6 figure mark, and consumed 4 court cases in 3 states. And that is just to end the marriage. Next will be the larger and more costly battle over immigration matters. And all of this is with no children, and less than one year together. And all she had to do was lie and claim abuse.
Had a no violent contact order placed agenst me because she never wanted to speak to me agen and I did not buy a can of fomrmula.
Had a no violent contact order placed agenst me because she never wanted to speak to me agen and I did not buy a can of fomrmula.
My mother and I are victims of a false restraint order my sister filed because of my sisters jealousy and greed I can not see my mom in her final stages of alzeimers. Our system does not protect the innocent.
My wife FALSELY accused me of assault and filed a PfA against me in November. She presented to the court a medical report that states "no injury", changed her story about the events of the day, perjured herself on the witness stand, and has since been diagnosed with an underlying mental health disorder, yet my PfA still stands. I was guilty until proven innocent, proved my innocence, yet am still being treated as though I'm guilty. Is this the United States of America or Communist Russia?
Its very difficult to understand how the police and the law could get the facts so wrong. I was nieve to think that the law was for everyone but in this case in Cherokee County, Georgia. I called the police one night after my significant other erupted into a rampage that lasted 3-4 minutes until she left with my daughter to her moms house. I am a good person who always did the right thing because I believe in Gods' Law of treating everyone equal and fair. I am a good father, parther, friend and son. Ask anyone who knows me and they will say the same but all that goodness, that and a dollar will get you a cup of coffee at the corner store when it comes to the legal system in Cherokee County, Ga which is heavy handed aginist men not matter what the circumstances are. If your a man, watch out if you ever have a women that is aggressive with bully tendencies because they can hurt you in many ways. All they have to do is make anything up to get you kicked out of your own home and kept away from your family because the law does not believe the man. I am screwed, royally and there is very little I can do to change it. The system is set up to runion men and their lives in domestic violence accusations. I have been railroaded out of my house and life for almost four months. Thank God that I have the support of my Mother who I have been staying with all this time. She is 77 years old and I wish I would of taken her advice long ago when she told me that I better get out of my abusive relationship with this women. Me being hard headed and thinking she would change only got me the s--t end of the stick. I have invested everyting in this bad and abusive relationship far longer than stupid me should have. I have delt with much mental and physical abuse from her for years and not I am basically destroyed mentally, physically and on the verge of loosing everyting. I used all money trying to get her to love me more and have provided a very nice upscale life for her and our child which she could care less. If you live with an evil person, you better watch out because they will use you into oblivian and leave you when you have nothing to offer because they were never for your love in the first place. I think lying, cheating and stealing and evil are wrong and go aginist Gods' Law but, in our degrading society that does not mean a thing for most people think it okay to be dishonest. My father, always preached to me. growing up. to always be honest and have integrity and I have strong convictions about these virtues and have never gone aginist these even when I was wrong. I always have been an honest and good person and a true Christian in a world that is turning toward evil. I feel hopeless and helpless because, I refuse to be anyother way and no one seems to care about what is right and just. You cannot get a fair shake in this life because these virtues mean very little to most people. Most people, including our legal system with slant the
Its very difficult to understand how the police and the law could get the facts so wrong. I was nieve to think that the law was for everyone but in this case in Cherokee County, Georgia. I called the police one night after my significant other erupted into a rampage that lasted 3-4 minutes until she left with my daughter to her moms house. I am a good person who always did the right thing because I believe in Gods' Law of treating everyone equal and fair. I am a good father, parther, friend and son. Ask anyone who knows me and they will say the same but all that goodness, that and a dollar will get you a cup of coffee at the corner store when it comes to the legal system in Cherokee County, Ga which is heavy handed aginist men not matter what the circumstances are. If your a man, watch out if you ever have a women that is aggressive with bully tendencies because they can hurt you in many ways. All they have to do is make anything up to get you kicked out of your own home and kept away from your family because the law does not believe the man. I am screwed, royally and there is very little I can do to change it. The system is set up to runion men and their lives in domestic violence accusations. I have been railroaded out of my house and life for almost four months. Thank God that I have the support of my Mother who I have been staying with all this time. She is 77 years old and I wish I would of taken her advice long ago when she told me that I better get out of my abusive relationship with this women. Me being hard headed and thinking she would change only got me the s--t end of the stick. I have invested everyting in this bad and abusive relationship far longer than stupid me should have. I have delt with much mental and physical abuse from her for years and not I am basically destroyed mentally, physically and on the verge of loosing everyting. I used all money trying to get her to love me more and have provided a very nice upscale life for her and our child which she could care less. If you live with an evil person, you better watch out because they will use you into oblivian and leave you when you have nothing to offer because they were never for your love in the first place. I think lying, cheating and stealing and evil are wrong and go aginist Gods' Law but, in our degrading society that does not mean a thing for most people think it okay to be dishonest. My father, always preached to me. growing up. to always be honest and have integrity and I have strong convictions about these virtues and have never gone aginist these even when I was wrong. I always have been an honest and good person and a true Christian in a world that is turning toward evil. I feel hopeless and helpless because, I refuse to be anyother way and no one seems to care about what is right and just. You cannot get a fair shake in this life because these virtues mean very little to most people. Most people, including our legal system with slant the
I am a woman who was falsely accused by my husband who was told by his attorney to lie to a judge for the sake of legal leverage and blindsiding me. My professional life is ruined. I can not secure a job and the civil restraining order which I am told is permanent on my record. Even if the person who falsely made the allegations wishes to be truthful and clear my name before a judge
Cont.... is hhighly unlikely to reverse or clear my record. Mostly men are victims of mean vindictive motives or urged by their attorney's to make false allegations as a means to win a divorce proceeding etc... I am here to say it happened to me, a female. Male or female, makes no difference Its a violation of our constitutional.rights and it destroys the lives of the falsely accused. Please stop this injustice. I thought I lived in a country where you could defend yourself before being accused.

My life is ruined, my own parents, siblings do not understand how this can be possible but are devastated to read about how easy it is to slander and quickly turn an innocent mother or father unjustly to appear on record as a criminal. The loss caused by false restraining orders perpetrated is so damaging on all areas on a persons life is incomprehensible.
My brother in law was falsely accused and has not been able to see his children for over a month. The accuser is facing jail time on a felony for habitual driving on a permament revoked license, that she lost because of DUI. She has not hidden the reason that she wanted an injunction is to shave time off her sentence for being a (battered person). She went one step further and put the kids on the injunction. One day after she filed the injunction, she dropped off the kids to the wrongly accused. If she was in fear of her life, and the kids. Why did she leave them repeatedly, until the actual injunction was served. I have watched a very loving, respectful and careing father goes through some of the most devistating time in his life. He has seen these boys everday of their life, and in one short second, being falsely accused, he can not talk, see or contact his boys. There is not money for an attorney, which the accuser knows, so he has to just hope what evidence he has, is not taken lightly. We were told that legal aid will not help the respondent, because they only get funded for the petitioner. This is just rediculous that a person can accuse any one, and they are quilty until proven innocent. What is wrong with this picture. The kids are the ones that are hurt in all of this. That is all.
Our son was used to get a child, bad parental agreement we couldn't afford to change, fishing, camping, hunting, overnight visits were banned so he ended up in court every other month defending his right NORMAL things with his son and always lost, he never got to have a say in any court proceedings. He even spent a week in jail for taking his son fishing on a boat. She tracked where he took his son and then wouldn't open the door to him thus causing abandonment charges and he lost. Missing Theron for 28 months now due to being normal. Our son is a mental mess now over missing his little boy. Why is the mother more important just because she carried the child! Do none of you remember having a dad and how important it is? Money, Money, Money. Sheila
My son is the victim of false claims of abuse..
He is loosing everything little by little.. Sir, Mam, my son just wants to be heard and delt with a unbiased opinion.. They are Judges.. correct?.
We can prove beyond a reasonable doubt, he is innocent..
This happens often in Mo. Too often..
If the petitioner is Wrong.. no accountability to them.. we should all be accountable to a Judge.. for making false statements.. I believe we call this Defamation of Character.. or Down right Slander.. a abuse of the system.
please please hear our cries and humiliation.. we are loosing all we have over something that can be proven false... Thank you for your time, Jasen Teel and his mother..Lisa Kennett. 636 -279-0717
Lets talk about this! The Pink Elephant in the room... needs to be addressed...
This is currently happening to me. My ex-wife whom i was married to for about 9 months is accusing me of extreme abuse, all of which is untrue. And she has called before, which makes it seem as though I continually beat her.
I m victim of domestic violence. my wife is blackmailing me , so plz stop the misuse of domestic violence law.other wise no one do marry.
I told my wife I wanted a divorce. She is controlling and manipulative, she doesn't always take her medication and it causes her a great deal of instability. She threatened me with bodily harm, I called the police to make a report. I moved out of our home and I took my property with me. I am now being accused of burglary. Something MUST be done to prevent vindictive people from filing false police reports of domestic violence.
My brother has never done anything illegal in his life and would NEVER hurt his wife or children. She continues to fabricate stories and have him arrested. A few days ago she beat him and the kids up, so he grabbed his kids and left to go stay the night at her mothers home, so she could help with the kids and he could work the next day. She was mad that he left so she cut up a t-shirt and called the cops. She told them that he stabbed her, even thought she didn't have a mark on her. He is covered in cuts and bruises from her. The police arrested him, denied him bond initially, then when they granted him bond yesterday, they put an ankle monitor on him and he's facing felony charges. She showed up at his work today threatening him. She wont stop with the lies and false accusations. She has proven psychiatric problems and is a known drug addict. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!
My brother has never done anything illegal in his life and would NEVER hurt his wife or children. She continues to fabricate stories and have him arrested. A few days ago she beat him and the kids up, so he grabbed his kids and left to go stay the night at her mothers home, so she could help with the kids and he could work the next day. She was mad that he left so she cut up a t-shirt and called the cops. She told them that he stabbed her, even thought she didn't have a mark on her. He is covered in cuts and bruises from her. The police arrested him, denied him bond initially, then when they granted him bond yesterday, they put an ankle monitor on him and he's facing felony charges. She showed up at his work today threatening him. She wont stop with the lies and false accusations. She has proven psychiatric problems and is a known drug addict. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP!
After going though a bad divorce and her and the Jefferson county DA's office pressing multiple charges (33) against me with only her say on things and in domestic violence cases you are guilty until proven innocent, I had a gps device on my ankle for 2 years until I went to trial and took a plea bargain just to get over with all of this, having a gps device on your ankle all the time is a great way to force one to admit that they are guilty even thou they are not, just to end this terrible experience with the "Judicial " system and now I have a few misdemeanor charges against me! For a person who has served his country and was a voluntary firefighter and had never even had a speeding ticket in 48 years, this is very devastating!
I am a female attorney who became a victim of multiple false allegations of dv by my now ex husband, including felony internet stalking. This was a result of his belief of my infidelity and in contemplation of divorce. We had been married for 16 years, yet he convinced investigators that I had beat him on a regular basis! This outcry of victim-hood from a man who outweighed me by more than 60 pounds. The evidence? A report from our pc doc that actually weighed in my favor! Jefferson County spent thousands of dollars to investigate and prosecute this unbelievable case, including buying plane tickets for the "victim" and other members of his family (all of whom I met exactly twice in our 16-year relationship. The taxpayers should be informed of how their hard-earned tax dollars are so whimsically and dishonestly being spent. These people's chose not to show up for trial (wow, what a shock), depriving me of my much anticipated say in court. I wanted to clear my name in this public forum, but I knew they would never subject their lies to my attorney's cross-examination.
My question is this: where's MY shot at justice? Why is the D.A. not pursuing charges such as False Reporting against my ex?! Facing false accusations and formal charges will effect me for the rest of my life, and this evil family learned that all it takes is the point of a finger. I'm up for participation in your movement and anything else I can do to help fix this broken, jagged system. I hate the thought that Justice is nothing more than an illusion.
I am a female attorney who became a victim of multiple false allegations of dv by my now ex husband, including felony internet stalking. This was a result of his belief of my infidelity and in contemplation of divorce. We had been married for 16 years, yet he convinced investigators that I had beat him on a regular basis! This outcry of victim-hood from a man who outweighed me by more than 60 pounds. The evidence? A report from our pc doc that actually weighed in my favor! Jefferson County spent thousands of dollars to investigate and prosecute this unbelievable case, including buying plane tickets for the "victim" and other members of his family (all of whom I met exactly twice in our 16-year relationship. The taxpayers should be informed of how their hard-earned tax dollars are so whimsically and dishonestly being spent. These people's chose not to show up for trial (wow, what a shock), depriving me of my much anticipated say in court. I wanted to clear my name in this public forum, but I knew they would never subject their lies to my attorney's cross-examination.
My question is this: where's MY shot at justice? Why is the D.A. not pursuing charges such as False Reporting against my ex?! Facing false accusations and formal charges will effect me for the rest of my life, and this evil family learned that all it takes is the point of a finger. I'm up for participation in your movement and anything else I can do to help fix this broken, jagged system. I hate the thought that Justice is nothing more than an illusion.
The law is being hijacked by vindictive disturbed women, it's a great idea to have solid laws to protect women and children from domestic violence, but it should be a harsh punishment for anyone who falsely accused an other person to deter from the real abuse in this case.
I have been the victim of false allegations and it seems that some women have been giving a strong weapon to hurt innocent men with these laws . I find that women who often misuse these laws are also hurting the women who are really being abused.
I have been the victim of false allegations and it seems that some women have been giving a strong weapon to hurt innocent men with these laws . I find that women who often misuse these laws are also hurting the women who are really being abused.
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The Adkins Recovery Plan Against False Allegations of Domestic Violence
I have been falsely accused with no evidence whatsoever and they still believed her... I don't have a record and police were never called and not a single bruise on her but still thy gave her the restraining order and 5 months later she filed for assault and battery.
Innocent until proven guilty
When I contacted DSS on the mother of my children who for the second time abused my autistic son, she filed for a Order of Restraint and was given it based on using the word "fear". I have not seen my kids for six months that I raised for a decade. My life is ruined, I am fighting the allegations in court, and I am filing for custody and suing the SC DSS for unfound findings that were used against me. This MUST STOP NOW. I am not white trash I am a college professor and consultant for a state government agency and federal program and I love my kids beyond words, beyond life, and beyond the stars. Please deal with this, end this, and uphold the US Constitution as well as the Civil Rights and Liberties we all deserve. Please Help ME!
Both My ex Son inlaws are going threw Charges of domestic violence and even worse . with absolutely no evidence of the charges just all based on her word. and even a history of false allegations they are prosecuting the laws need to change. And if they make a false charge just cause they want custody of the kids then they need to do the time...
A) Attorney ASAP. B) Bail Out. C) Clear Name. This is the only way to avoid wrongful conviction after a wrongful arrest. Even if your public defender knows you are innocent, there isnt much they can do. They work for the same boss as the prosecutor, and that boss doesnt like to admit a mistake and have to pay out wrongful reimbursement. What alot of people miss, is the connection between the officials we elected and our harmless family member who shouldnt be in jail. The system is just, but human errors happen everyday. Can we maybe require more thorough investigations in this area? Or require a mandatory evaluation by an independant physician or psychiatrist before conviction? []Deace
I am a victim of this abuse of the law and I am a woman. After being beaten, abused, and tortured PHYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY, AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY I finally decided to leave the relationship. He told me "If im not with hime Im against him." In doing so my ex has made false accusations against me on police reports saying that I violated the OOP. I have him on a recording stating he lied about tge accusations and my attorney tells me I can't use the recording in court. He has a history of doing this to women. His sons mother got deported because he did the same thing to her. I am just hoping his past behavior will get me a victory in this case. I now have an ACS case in Family court and a criminal case and I am currently out of work from my government job. This whole thing sucks. What happened to innocent until proven guilty ? And how in a county like America a so called Democratic country could allegations stick and completely ruin a persons life. ITS NOT FAIR OR RIGHT WE NEED JUSTICE !!!
I've been a victim of revenge filled woman TWICE! They use the laws the punish good men because they didn't get their way! Mean while my professional and personal reputation is ruined. They post your record out for ALL to see once arrested but never post that the charge was dismissed or not prosecuted. Woman use this law to gain wealth and possessions while the man's life is ruined.
1. The VAWA, is a law that requires the mandatory arrest of a man .
2. The separation of him from his property without due process (Bill of rights).
3. The woman is then awarded with all types of assistance by the government to include, legal assistance, housing, etc.
Question: Why has congress made no provision for the man who is mandatorily been arrested? The wife has an opportunity to drain all the accounts and assets leaving the man homeless, broke and no legal aid. Why is a man not allocated housing & legal aid since all his property has been taken away from him without due process? Does the VAWA not believe in innocent until proven guilty?
Worldwide issue and requires attention of UNICEF
False allegations of child abuse is bottom line criminal. Not only does it harm the accused but also any children that have to endure such parent alienation tactics. These tactics are in fact emotional abuse on both the accused and any children that are having to endure such cruelty.
This has happened to our family 3 times and has kept my step-daughter from having a relationship with this side of the family for long periods of time. It causes undo stress and harm to all but the real abusers.
I was a victim of false DV allegations; my son and I are still suffering from it. His mother still harasses me years later, flaunts her ability to gain sympathy based on her "protected status". She puts on the false face of a victim in the public eye and the face of the "mentally unstable abuser" otherwise.
I'm watching my son being destroyed by his mentally disturbed wife and her mother who are actually the abusers. They are receiving all kinds of FREE legal aid while my son is being financially raped denied his children lost what little he had . He took a plea bargain after hiring a attorney who sat on their assets and waited for the standard plea bargain to be emailed to her. Even after she talked to the sister who was on the scene at the time of the alleged assault who told her that my son didn't do all that he was accused of she told my son she didn't have time to do anything with that information. The judge told him to sacrifice his toe or lose his leg. Well after all that the professional victim is getting all the free help she deserves as an "abused wife". What is so darn sad is that her and her mother are very aggressive people are prone to lieing and have very entitled attitudes and are totally backed up by the so called legal system. Once they have destroyed my son who will be the next victim I can answer that it will be the two children
Domestic violence laws are supposed to help victims. Not be misused to create them. Disgraceful.

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