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I have personally fought wrongful persecution of a 100% falsely accused domestic violence protection order with very little progress other than receiving full custody and decision making of my 3 year old son.
If you are going through hell.. join a mens rights group. Start one in your town or county. My son has one in Arizona. Mensrightsofarizona.com if you live in that state.
I used to be judge mental of how things "seemed" from the outside but now after watching a young lady with mental health problems bring attention to herself by making false accusation about and/or against more than one ex boyfriend, my heart breaks for the people that ARE TRULY being physically abused.
I think it is utterly pathetic that women lie about domestic violence and do not have to suffer any ramifications. They truly can ruin a mans life by this horrific accusation.
I have a brother who's been caught in a chaotic relationship that he's been stuck in for over two years. He's been thrown in jail multiple times because of his crazy on/off girlfriend claiming he has hurt her which he never has. She's never been to hospital because of him and there are no police reports showing physical or emotional evidence that she has been abused by him. There is a 'no contact order' on him which she keeps violating by tricking him into seeing her by saying she needs him or she'll die. My brother constantly feels helpless. He lives in constant fear thinking he will be sent to prison or in order to be freed from her, his life should end. What's worst is that he has children with her now (she claims the children are his, and we are trying to have paternity tests done but 'surprisingly' she's never has been able to make it to her appointments that she had made.) We need new laws to help stop false accusers and help male victims!!! Please help!!!!
An order of protection is a weapon many lying women use to punish men. A man has to pay thousands for a lawyer and she can stroll into court all obnoxious with a pro bono advicate. Stop this false allegation business. There are already statutes on the books to handle crimes. An OP deprives people of their rights. I should know, im dealing with this right now.
my brother is going through false allegations for over a year now. Constant lies I hope this woman will get caught and arrested
On August 26, 2007 my now my ex wife had me arrested. She falsely accused me of domestic violence that she alleged was committed on August 18.2007 Upon my release two days later, I was told by neighbors that this was all planned .as she had previously enquired of them what course would one take if they wanted to proceed to US Citizenship as soon as possible without the involvement of the sponsor. My neighbors discussed domestic violence and the VAWA act with her, thinking she was asking for someone else. sometime later, the police showed up at my door. It was proven in court that her accusations has no merit as I have never at any point, raised a hand to my wife. Secondly I was at church on the date and time she accused me of the violence, I had witnesses who was going testify to my being in church and more who was going to testify to her questioning them on the path to citizenship through domestic violence .for 18 months I was going to court not knowing what they would to do to me. 18 months of her change dates and times, stores and they let her getaway with it. for me this was my Domestic violence this was my Humiliation and there was no help for me no one would help as I was the one who was being false accused of domestic violence they would tell me is this is your punishment . I lost it all and now as life go's on I can not forget that day when I was arrested some of you can say forget it and go on with your life, be a man and maybe your right but I can not I work so hard to get where I was and to lost it in one day and tell today I can not go out with a women I cannot trust a woman nor can I trust the legal system for what they did to me I do forgave her and I do fell sad for her to as I know there is a god and I live it up to god to be my legal system. but as for me right now life go's on day by day not knowing what life has for me good or bad ON FEB 2009 NOLLE PROSEQUI: COUNTS 1, 2, 3 **************** CASE CLOSED ***************** CountCodeDescriptionDispositionDispositi on Date 1 784.021(1)(A) AGGRAVATED ASSAULT WITH A DEADLY WEAPON PROS ACTION NOLLE PROSSED 10/21/2008 .....CountCodeDescriptionDispositionDispositi on Date 2 784.041 FELONY BATTERY (GREAT BODILY HARM) PROS ACTION NOLLE PROSSED 02/04/2009....................... CountCodeDescriptionDispositionDispositi on Date 3 784.03 BATTERY PROS ACTION NOLLE PROSSED 02/04/09 .......................................................................................................................................................................... as of right now am suffering from depression am letting everyone know because if you know someone who went Thru something like what happen to me you need to be there for them being false accused of something and having to go to court is something that No one should have to go through the nightmare I had to go through I hope this helps someone do not gave up I did not.
My wife started the violence by yelling at me throwing things around me and my 6 year old son. She jumped onto me so I push her back. She continued to yell and throwing things without any concerns for our 6 year old son who have autuism. He was crying and terrifying. My wife continue to yell and throw things at us so I react for the interests of my son my slapping her once to defend my son. She then a day later called her brother and he call the police to arrest me. I was arrested and put in jail. I am being charged with two counts of domestic violence. I need help.
I was convicted of a felony when I was 21 years old for punching a guy one time that swung a pool cue at my head. Therefor, I am a "violent" criminal. My wife whom I have now found out that I'm her FOURTH husband, has told me for six months that she "couldn't wait to take me for all I've got. After finding out that she has extorted twenty plus people across the united states, I kinda take her serious. I actually turn myself in next Tuesday to defend myself from what has now became the biggest hurdle I've ever had to jump in life. I honestly think that this judicial system will not give me a chance in hell in this town due to my past. She has taunted me ever since. I honestly am going to write a book about this woman when this is all over with. Maybe some good would come of it then.
A woman can use the judicial system to advance her agenda. In my case I was falsely accused and arrested for a domestic when in all actuality it was a ploy for her to get control of my vehicle and have a place for her parents to stay since they just lost their house. The really deplorable act came in the fact that she waited till the day I was supposed to pick up my oldest daughter from the airport for the summer to file the false allegations. So in one fail swoop she managed to evict me from my house, vehicle, and right to see my youngest daughter as well as almost costing me the chance to see my oldest for the first time in two years and making it to where I am scrambling to find a place where she and I can stay from night to night. All this from signing a bold face lie at the magistrates office. Oh and yes her parents showed up with a uhaul the next day
I have posted on this petition before and I have even sent a letter to white house on this issue but nothing has been done so far. So tell me are all these comments that are being received are looked into or its just for fun at your end.
My brother had DV charges against him from his Indian National wife who just arrived 2 months earlier. She was pregnant when she arrived and as soon as she delivered the baby she started her tactics. She did not even care for the baby . The next thing we know is there is police in the house and she is throwing all kinds of allegations and what happens , my brother is locked up and she is set free. Its been a year but till today we still are trying to figure out what happened. And guess what the baby was not even my brothers after we had DNA testing done. She had a boyfriend back in India. She is free , she wanted to come to the land of oppurtunities and she did by screwing up our life. The last we heard was she is trying to get her brother and parents into the USA as she came in with a green card.
Please do something , dont just read our stories , take action. I know there are many husbands out there who are being framed for DV by their wives who are from India right now because thats the only easy way for them to come into the country. Do something. Make the rules strict for all those ladies who are coming in after marrying a NRI here. Its a scam that is running in India right now. The agents actually take a fee for training these women on how to lie. We need your action.
I am currently being falsely accused of domestic violence by my kids mother. I am trying to defend myself because I cannot afford a lawyer and the public defenders work with the cops n district attorneys. This is destroying my life and reputation in public.. I have not seen my kids since I been arrested on 4/21. There are no wittneses evidence or any thing all there is, is her word and they say that's einuff? I am fighting it in court, but am not a lawyer so its a lot harder to represent all of the evidence I have or how to uptain other evidence.
It is FAR TOO EASY for someone to simply say a man has abused his children and/or spouse/significant other and to have these false allegations be taken as the truth with no proof at all. On the contrary, in many cases, there is evidence disproving the false allegations and heaps of common sense that scream "FOUL" or "LIAR!!", but these things are overlooked. The use of false allegations has become a weapon of choice in divorce and custody cases as a method to vindictively lash out against the man, to rip him from his children's lives, and to separate him from his hard-earned finances by way of child support. In cases where the man is, in fact, guilty of abusing his children or the spouse/significant other, he must be prosecuted to the full extent of the law. To be fair and just, the same energies that are expended to prosecute an actual offender must be employed to clear the name of the falsely-accused party, and, very importantly (DON'T MISS THIS!!), PUNISH THE PERSON WHO IS FALSELY ACCUSING when allegations are found to be false. Sadly, even when a man, who has been falsely accused, is found to be innocent, he is forced to pay a very high price. All you have to do is say a man has abused or molested a child and he is presumed to be guilty without a trial or proof. Even after a court of Law rightly finds him innocent, there are some people who will believe the man somehow manipulated the system and "got away with it" and is guilty after all. There is also the substantial stress of having to defend your name against false allegations of abuse; having that heinous crime attached to your name; and fearing that you'll be railroaded and end up in jail, or wind up on the sex offender registry and never see your children again. Finally, the costs in legal fees and associated court costs to defend yourself and have your name cleared can be astronomical. Consider the person who has very little or no resources to fight the false claims. He is a sitting duck! Unfortunately, I write from experience. I was falsely accused of molesting my kids for virtually the entire ten years I was married. For those ten years, no official claims were made, but fingers were pointed at me and I was forced to live under the very dark cloud of being a child molester although I was innocent. It wasn't until after I had had enough of the constant and persistent false allegations of molestation and other emotional abuse and filed for divorce, that these false claims were reported to the authorities. Then, the fight began. For the better part of three years, I was in and out of Court to answer to and defend against eleven, yes eleven false claims of abuse and domestic violence. After eleven false claims in Court, five CPS investigations, three different attorneys, one custodial evaluation and upwards of $100k in legal fees and associated costs, I was ultimately found innocent. I paid a tremendous price, and for what?? Nothing! The false allegations continue and I am forced to vide
I had been falsely accused of domestic violence while going thur a messes divorce, had to spend thousands of dollars to defend myself against false allegation... after making bail the judge who was a female continued to throw me back in jail. I had to fight tooth and nail to defend myself and clear my name and still years later my ex wife continue to use this ploy to gain and advantage get into court over guardianship for our now seventeen year old son. What a shame! The courts still allow this sorry excuse to be used without any evidences... There needs to be a change. Sonoma County one of the worse places for a man to have rights of any sorts in the family law system.
Being falsely accused in kenton county court system. Police even closed case no marks . No arrests. From what I'm finding after going to court about 7 times now, the so called good old boys club at the court system is going to hang me out to dry.this is the 4 the attorney I've paid for! DOOMED
I have been falsely accused of domestic violence by a vindictive person who injured himself and who knows the results of calling the police to have me arrested for a DV charge -- and am involved in an ongoing trial. It's absolutely not fair -- and even thought i have an amazing attorney, there is little to nothing I can do against a DA who is out to prosecute. I am an absolute believer in the horrors and awfulness of domestic violence, and the irony of my situation is that I have had a wine glass broken against my face, and punched multiple times by my accuser multiple times. And now ... I'm the one faced with charges. In reality I AM THE VICTIM of domestic violence and I am now being charged with it.
My family has been destroyed due to the biased, corrupt system that always finds the man guilty even when he's the victim.
This MUST be changed as the corruption continues to leave children in the custody of the actual abuser and destroys entire lives.
How did this corruption ever spread so far, so quickly?
do something to those who make false abuse reports please !
Please because ima 32 year old black male suffering because of false accusations, no criminal record.
6500.00 dollars I had to spend for my lawyer and proved her restraining order was nothing but lies I won because I told the truth and the order was dismissed she got in no trouble for the false order. now I'm fighting for custody I have not seen my little girl in three months she will be 7 months old on the 8th of July 2014
What was done to me is more than criminal and for the judge to believe the lie's, no he knew. It is such a display of corruption, but when you have more money than God, destroying a 92 and 54 year old females lives is no big deal
innocent until proven guilty
Make false accusers and fake witnesses pay the price when lying. It is easy to lie without consecuences
Justice aint blind. Workimg on appeals and motions. I gotta provide for these babies!!
My boyfriend of 16 yrs is in prison for yelling at me ... He has never laid a finger on me .. After judge put a no contact order on us my landlord of 15 yrs decided to sell the house that my three kids and I lived in .. We were homeless and my boyfriend made sure we had a motel room every night for four months ..but each time we were seen together he went to jail for violating no contact order .. Regardless each time he went to jail meant we slept on streets .. But two days ago I watched a video of a officer that would go out of his way to catch us together . arresting a girl that may have weighed 110 to his 200 pounds he swung her around by her hair several times kicked her multiple times then a second cop showed up to help him manhandle this girl . and my boyfriend is in prison for 33 months for yelling at me ..
You sir have allowed hundreds of thousands of illegal immigrants to come to the united states. Every country below the border thinks its a joke, that as long as they step foot on land they're free to stay. They are costing this country billions and yet you do nothing. They are taking away from the people that pay taxes. I voted for you and regret i ever did. Even your wife spends tremendous amounts of money not meant for her to spend. She wants to set fashion trends instead of help. She aint a Kennedy. Please mr .Obama do something for this country that helps , not to devide us. Make a stand against this illegal intrusion. My mother came from Guatemala but she did it the right way with permission. You are just a horrible president only cause you are a flopper.
i am a female from New Jersey who was Wrongly and Falsely Accused and arressted for alleged domestic violence and terrorisyic threats and possession of weapon...PLEASE HELP ME
Husband used it to rob bank acct 20000 at least and I was afraid he'd do it again never went home . Nj State Trooper left my disabled son with obvious abuser. Which I never did for 12 years . Told me as I was being driven to jail your husband will take of your son . It was not my abusers son. Prosecutor was viscous I had no money for a lawyer . She said I'd go to jail I couldn't my son has autism and needed me . Had to pay a fine for breaking household items belonging to him . Over $ 500 Told the judge he took all the money had to I pay over months . I've never felt so abused and now I have record . Total abuse by police and prosecutors the judge let him keep all the money to fight me in the divorce I couldn't afford one he kept everything . House cars boats money my stuff my sons stuff ect ect
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OVER 20,000 PEOPLE HAVE BEGGED YOU TO TAKE ACTION IN THIS CIVIL RIGHTS MATTER, AND YOUR ANSWER IS "NOT MY JOB" REALLY? THE CIVIL RIGHTS OF THE AMERICAN PEOPLE IS NOT YOUR JOB!!!
An innocent man I know is going through this right now.
This is happening to my son.
A very decent man I know is facing a life of ruin because of a diabolical woman who was coached by others in a women's group, staged "an event" and tried to have this good family man arrested. There is no fairness in the law that takes the word of one and immediately convicts the other, sentencing to life in financial prison. Something must be done to stop this ABUSE of the system and ABUSE of innocent spouses. America prides itself on JUSTICE and this is anything BUT JUSTICE!
It is a sad commentary on a country that purports itself to have a system where you are innocent until proven guilty, yet allows accusers to deny all civil rights to their victims with a single lie. Yesterday I watched as a woman lied with zero documentation and zero evidence, yet she was able to obtain a restraining order against a man who had 42 pages of evidence including 4 witness statements, emails from the accuser, pictures of texts from the accuser and other evidence. None of the evidence was considered. The woman's testimony was taken as fact. When pointed out that all of her evidence was hearsay, the judge said, "yeah, but it is enough." Since when? Remove judges who do not understand the rules of evidence from the bench and make them repeat law school. Or grant the citizens of the United States restraining orders from these judges.
Women more and more understand that they can use a Domestic Violence call to the police as a power grab, yet the courts have not woken up to this fact as of yet. False claims of Domestic Violence should be treated as harshly as the crime itself. There's a false perception that women may not call if they felt they could be prosecuted, but that's just the point isn't it. It would stop them from calling unless they were truly violated. I have a wife, mother, two sisters and two daughters and I just as much as anyone want to see true women beaters prosecuted to the highest extent of the law, but the law should also protect men falsely accused.

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