Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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I'm all for punishment of DV offenders BUT I'm also for punishing those who falsely accuse! Time and resources are extended to false claims that means the real DV crimes are being set aside.
Sociopaths. Their illness is costing our male friends and families millions. My friend's acusor claims kidnapping on different dates months apart and still went on her own several times inbetween and after. She was so calculating that she would pick a fight and call someone that she knew it would go to voicemail and mute out the parts she did not record. An example: she was seen on many different occasions yelling "stop, your hurting me", and he would not even be close to her. The awesome thing is she has done in front of some very reputable people, so we will see how far she gets using our tax dollars for her current obsession, trying to make others believe her lies. The time and resources that our DA's and law enforcement our using is also a crime on innocent Americans. Their time and money could be used better try to catch the serial rapist that has now struck the city of Tulsa 5 times. We as American's need to put a stop to the misuse of our funds for false aligations an charges!!!!!
I was arrested and charged with Domestic Violence by a female officer who I have made formal complaints about to her superior officer and who I have requested not to come back to the property my sister who is living in my parents estate against the law and for free and collecting rent from my parents rental property is the one who accused me. Now me being the executer of the estate my hands are tied till this is matter goes through court. As she gets rid of everything my parents worked so hard for there entire life I don't know were to turn or how to handle something like this I never touched her but here I am facing charges and a crime I never done.
My brother is in jail because his girlfriend lied to the police about him. He was denied bond, and has to wait 6 months until they can hear his side of the story. This is messed up as he didn't hurt her at all and the Alexandria Police just believe her story and locked him up on bogus charges.
My wife is and has been constantly callong the police, hitting me and now is making false allegations that I was the abuser. I have a court case very soon where I have to defend myself agains domesic violence accusations and what I've been reading is scaring the ebeejeebees out of me.
Lying, cheating, thieving, women are getting away with everything they want because of this loop hole, women wanted equality they should have equality ,Not empowerment, and entitlement with out proof,or sound evidence!!
Lying, cheating, thieving, women are getting away with everything they want because of this loop hole, women wanted equality they should have equality ,Not empowerment, and entitlement with out proof,or sound evidence!!
I am going through this situation currently. THIS TYPE OF MISUSE OF PROCESS HAS GOT TO STOP.
I can attest with personal experience how frightening and destructive false allegations of domestic violence can be, especially when used in an effort to control custody arrangements.
I am a textbook victim. Coruption also exists in the backwoods town of Waycross, GA. Please avoid this place they will take everything but your soul then legally banish you from the county.
It was false allegations and a corrupt NH family cout system that kept me from my four children for two years. I now have full custody of the three minor children. Where was my rights under the 9th and 14th amendment. Is the state going to give me that time back with my children. My ex wife was never charged with filing a false police report.. Accusations are not evidence!
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GUILTY BY ASSOCIATION NOT FACTS''''
This is wrong and it ruins the reputation of innocent people, and their lives. I've also had my dad be trailed guilty for "not having a damaged disk in his spine" after he cut a tree down in his job that fell on his spine that got him in a ambluance.My dad has a ice pack to cool nerve pain pinching everyday.His doctors in soundshore have his medical records and x-rays of his injury.Our court system is corrupt, my dad was obviously innocent and he had to pay 300 dollars in guilty verdict.
My son is sitting in jail right now because of a vindictive wife who claims he sexually assaulted her. The ironic joke is that my son caught her and a strange man in their bed, the man ran off and she claims my son raped her. The DNA will prove to be the other mans. But because she claims her and my son had sex that he raped her. He has been setting in jail for over a year awaiting DNA results. I haven't had the money to bond him out, so please don't think of me as a bad mother. This woman accused a 16 yr old of rape when she was younger. She committed bigamy against her 1st husband, married her 2nd husband and was legally given her maiden name back and had the nerve to put her second husbands name on my son and her marriage license. She is a very evil, vindictive and deceitful woman. She is attractive so the deputies fall at her feet and she does no wrong. The one party rule needs to be changed. When a man or woman's life is at stake all parties involved should be allowed to have their past questioned.
Yes . I am against these false accusations being made by women for their own purpose they use man like hell abuse there husband and make false statement that the husband is abusing them Ladies from india too to came to USA once they are here say that they dont like him and lie use police for thier support police only believe the Ladies she use him she was toturing her husband the
man was so innocent she uses him to came to USA
as a ticket is there anyone can help to do something about it
Get her back to were she belong


support and police only believe the Ladies all lies
I am marrying my fiance next month. I have 3 children who I have taken care of by myself until he has came into our lives. He has a 2 year old beautiful little princess. His ex-girlfriend of a few months has accused him of abuse for the last 2 years. First it started with neglect and that he was unfit to care for her. Now it has turned into him and our family showing her "bad" things and sexually abusing her. I am so sad that a mother could put her child through this with the only intent to hurt her father. She has NEVER been reprimanded for her accusations nor has anyone ever told her to stop. She calls CPS all the time with false accusations and wastes their time. It baffles me that these women/men can accuse with malicious intent and never have anything said to them. This is all done out of spite. Who gets punished or hurt from this? The child/children that are involved. Something has to be done!
Yes . I am against these false accusations being made by women for their own purposes. I have sent an email to white house about 3-4 years back complaining the same but I did not get any reply.
Hoping this petition is taken into consideration .
Thank you.
It is well known now in other parts of the countries, especially in India, that a woman can fraudulently accuse her husband of domestic violence in US and get away with it.
This loop hole is being used to marry in and enter this country and with a claim of domestic violence, legally obtain residency in US and later the rest of the family joins in.
If the laws can be changed, this will stop the false accusations. It hurts the accused, their families and the real abused victims.
This is sick since as who would believe the suffering of real domestic violence victims.

Our justice system is not being fair when a women can pick up a phone and call the police and claim domestic violence with lies and declare it to be the truth..
even when their spouse are not at home.

It is shame that a woman can lie and ruin a mans life.
Innocent until proven guilty...isn't that the American way?
I AM ONE WHO IS BEING FALSELY CHARGED FOR A DOMESTIC VIOLENCE THAT I DID NOT COMMITT . PLEASE UNDERSTAND THIS BILL NEEDS TO BE FORCED THEIR IS INNOCENT PEOPLE BEING ACCUSSED OF THIS AND THAT ARE INNOCENT. JAILS AND PRISON ARE SOON TO BE HAVING MORE INNOCENT PEOPLE . THIS IS WRONG AND DO TO THE PUBLIC DEFENDERS THEY FEEL WE HAVE COMMITTED THIS SO THEY HAVE NO REASON TO DEFEND US.. I HAVE NO MONEY TO HIRE A PRIVATE ATTORNEY SO I SIT HER WITH DEPRESSION HOPING I HAVE SOMEONE READ MY CASE AND SEE I AM INNOCENT TO HELP ME... THIS IS WRONG AND I HAVE NO WAY OF HAVING MY ATTORNEY FIGHT FOR ME SHE IS ACTUALLY HELPING THE STATE TO GO AGAINST ME... PLEASE SEE THIS CASE STATE OF ARIZONA VS. DEBORAH DELGADO ... MY AUNT IS THE VICTIM SHE HAS TRYED TO TELL THE STATE SHE WAS UPSET AND SAID THINGS THAT WHERE NOT TRUE THE STATE WILL NOT EXCEPT IT.. PLEASE HELP ME
specifically to gain entrance into the United States. It happens all to often. Arranged marriage's in India, wife stays until she says she is pregnant, gains entrance. the baby is born Oh and guess what? She won't let her husband touch or hold his new baby, after about 3 months she claims spousal abuse and has him arrested.....never has been arraigned. She runs away to another state and does not communicate with husband or his family who brought her here. Husband goes to court and requests a DNA test and what do you know? The baby is not his. Now this woman (if you can call her one) will bring her whole family who we will pay taxes for to live and have medical care. It's not right.
Granddaughter lied. was under the controw of 19 year old boyfriend who was having sex with her. She was 15. I spent 363 days in jail and to get out had to take a plea deal so I could fight it from the outside. The system is corrupt. Plea deal? No sex charges, no probation, no classes, no tag, no restricrtion at all. They hit me with Felony Battery. I am totally innocent of that charge as well. It was either take the plea or spend who knows how long in jail. The publis Pretenders, oops, Public Defenders were worthless. I will sue both in civil court and I will win. Take good notes of everything right after you are approached by the officer till the time you get out.
Please help stop people from making false accusations. It hurts the accused their families and the real abused victims.
My case is a little different, I am a mother of two children and I have been fusely accused of abusing my children so that my ex husband can gain full custody of the kids. Im signing this not only for myself but for other Men and women all over. This has got to stop. Not only has this messed up my life , its starting to take a toll on my children childhood.
I am a female going through this as of this date. My son is now dragged into this by being accused of molesting my daughter. These false allegations are one of many my ex has tried to use to prove that I am an unfit mother to my daughter so he can win his way in our current pending court case.
This petition needs to be addressed with a belief that no person should be allowed to do these things to another human being.
I do this for my son. He is young now but I have to make this right for when he is older..Our justice system is not being fair with it's people anyone can walk into a court room and fill out a piece of paper with lies and declare it truth...The travesty is when a judge issues a restraining order or harassment order..(only having heard one side.) Once that order is issued it immediately goes into record with Domestic Violence registry...all because Judges are worried for there own reputation... These orders should be based on facts and evidence...and only issued after a defendant has a chance to be there.. People play the Victim all the time. It's time perjurs be held accountable and True Justice is restored in our Court Rooms.
Having been a true victim of a violent man, it is absolutely disgusting to me that a woman would fraudulently use this system to take revenge on a man. It makes a mockery of the true pain and suffering that myself and other real victims have experienced.
My partner's ex wife, Sunday June 8, 2014, file false DV to prevent him from seeing his two boys on Father day. She is upset because he is asking the court to give him 50/50 time/sharing. The papers were served to her just prior. This abuse of our system needs to be stopped.
It is shame that a woman can lie and ruin a mans life. judges must listen to the man's side and look for proof, especially when the women have a history of mental illness.
Guilty until proven innocent is not American and should not be legal.
I am signing on behalf of my boyfriend, who is currently incarcerated due to his ex-wife's malicious use of false claims of abuse to harass him. This is the second time in the past 2 years since their divorce that she has engaged in this form of harassment against him. Even though it is glaringly apparent that her motive in making these claims is to prevent him from seeing his children, and sabotage any new romantic relationship he becomes involved in (the harassment begins when she finds out he has a girlfriend), the courts turn a blind eye to the fact that she is manipulating the system for the sole purpose of retaliating against him for ending their relationship. She has caused him to lose 2 jobs, lobbied to have him thrown in jail twice, and filed false abuse claims with child and family services. Her most recent campaign of lies has also caused me to lose my job, and be falsely labeled as a perpetrator of abuse/neglect against their children. The worst part of all this is that the accuser has an extensive history of playing this game (she did the same thing with her first husband), the courts refuse to consider the fact that she has a significant past history of false, questionably timed allegations, which are clearly intended to influence the outcome of custody or divorce proceedings. Despite the fact that psychiatric records obtained during the accuser's custody proceedings with her first husband suggest that the she suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder, no judge has been willing to hear evidence which could potentially discredit her claims. We have done everything we can think of to show that we are being targeted and harassed, but no one is willing to listen. The only advice anyone has been able to give us is to move out of state when he is released from jail, and just hope that she will eventually get tired of torturing him. It is my sincere hope that this legislation passes so that we can at least have hope that we may have some protection from her in the future and have some chance at a normal existence someday.
I have temp guardianship of my
grandson! This is because his
mother has a personality disorder!! This girl had lied about my son. Had him in court for restraining order. He has done nothing to her. He wanted to ask
why she was prosecuting me for
cashing in her suboxen prescription, which she ask me to do.. The thing that interested me was she was filing in court, and she yelled he's harassing me. Then he hit in places that no one could see. All false. Went before the judge they were going to give
a year restraining order on him. No she told the judge,she only needed 3 months. Gave it to her.
1week after it was up she called
him. She wanted to know how her son was doing? He now has
that on his record. And she still
going after me, I do nothing,as far she concerned. I am saving
my now grandson is 11 next month..it's been one lie after another.. The kicker is, while we were in probate court. My attorney found out that she stab her new boyfriend in the neck with a screw driver,AND HAD TO BE MEDI FLIGHTED OUT.OR HE WOULD OF BLED TO DEATH. SHE YELLS TO THE JUDGE,I prosecuted him. He is now in jail!!! Don't know for how long?Do not know him..Feel bad for his family because she had got pregnant. Has his baby, and
I'm sure she is using the baby
for the pawn just like she did to me...Do you think I don't know?
My stepson is in court lost his house to his 8month marriage.
She claims he hit her. So I'm glad to be a part of this.
I know someone being falsely accused. It could ruin his life. Make it stop. Tears don't mean anything, if there's no solid proof, there's no case. Learn it.
If you know of an organization that I can join for advocacy, or if you want to start one, please email me at jmcclain37@yahoo.com. My wife was the abuser. She threatened me hundreds of times in our 11 year marriage (still not divorced six years later) that if we ever got divorced, she would wait until she had bruises and tell everyone that I got drunk on whiskey all day and beat her up.
what can i say,just let us fight this injustice and make it completely a honest and unbiased investigation
Although I was a victim of false allegations which were found to be false by the court system and other professionals involved in my child custody case, my former spouse and her legal team engaged in and continue to engage in abusive tactics against me in an attempt to diminish my relationship with my daughter. Unfortunately, the government whether through the judiciary or the legislature shows no concern about the violation of my human rights and the several parents who are similarly situated to me in Washington State. I plead for my government to protect us.
This is what I came up with as I am a victim of order of protection abuse. FEEL LIKE RUINING SOMEONES LIFE TODAY? SOMEONE WHO YOU JUST WANT TO GET EVEN WITH OR JUST DON''T LIKE... ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS TO THE COURT,TELL THE JUDGE THAT PERSON THREATENDED YOUR LIFE AND YOU GET AN ORDER OF PROTECTION ON THEM.....ITS FAST, ITS EASY, AND IT WORKS.... THERE OUT OF THERE HOME, THEY CAN LOSE A JOB, THEY LOSE THEIR CIVIL RIGHTS, THEIR DIGNITY.....WHAT MORE CAN YOU ASK FOR!!!!

STOP THE LIES AND STOP
THE COURTS LETTING SOMEONE MISUSE THE LAW LIKE THIS..........
On the one hand we decry the societal impact of children growing up without a father figure in their lives and on the other hand we spend countless dollars and resources trying to do our best to remove loving fathers from their children's lives. How do we expect our sons to learn how to be good fathers if they have no male role model? How do we expect our daughters to learn about healthy male/female relationships if we constantly remove their fathers from their lives? This must stop!
Its not just men who get arrested! and the police are to blame as well! My ex filed false charges because he was using drugs and alcohol! Just after him being taken for observation for threatening to blow his brains out in front of me he text another woman an told her he was getting a divorce after knocking me around a while I called police and he ripped his earring out just before they got there and told them I did it. The police didn't ask me the first question and took me to jail! I intend to sue the county and the officers as well! This is bull S**it More people who have been falsely arrested in cases like this need to file suit as well!
Our children suffer. The true abusers in these cases are the mother and her attorney who game the system to gain leverage in the divorce and custody case. They deprive their children of a relationship with their father, increase child support, and in general, ruin the father's professional and community reputation. On the one hand we decry the societal impact of children growing up without a father figure in their lives and on the other hand we spend countless dollars and resources trying to do our best to remove loving fathers from their children's lives. How do we expect our sons to learn how to be good fathers if they have no male role model? How do we expect our daughters to learn about healthy male/female relationships if we constantly remove their fathers from their lives? This must stop!
is there nothing in the works of solving this problem or is it a lost cause??? also how have some of the victims delt with dealing with this problem and buncing there life back seeing im still in the process after 3yrs
Stop alienating kids from noncustodial parents! 2014
This has happened to two people close to me and now, myself. If there is a squabble or disagreement, the first person to call the Police wins and it doesn't matter your previous record (or lack of one, as the case may be). And, you are treated as though you are guilty. I have a clean record, don't drink, don't do drugs and am freakin' Polyanna, and was thrown around like a beach ball because my "friend" freaked because I gave her grief for not holding up her share of the living expenses, etc. So, the deadbeat with 6 DUIs, bipolar, ex-alcoholic, and a drug addict who was paying nothing for rent, food, etc. is left behind in my apartment with my dogs, belongings, etc. while I'm hauled off to jail. Ridiculous!
I am a victim of this. To date I have not been able to tell my side of the story.
My great-nephew was falsely accused to premeditated killing of one human being by another. Unfortunately, he is do not have the finances for proper legal representation. The real victim is free and living their life with no guilt. I requested an investigation from the U.S. Congressman to investigate. This law will protect victims facing false allegations like my great-nephew.
It would blow your mind if you knew what a Judge did to me!
Through my son's experience I realize how evil, vindictive and malicious people take advantage of the law while committing a felony in the process, which rarely, if ever, gets prosecuted. Filing a false police report is a felony, but the State takes no steps to prosecute the individuals who manipulate the system. my son who is has never had a criminal record, and is a hard working tax payer, is fighting the fight of his life, falsely accused by a vindictive ex wife and her mother, both have been on record for abuse in the past, this is a crime that should be punished or else we are going to continue to see case after case of false accusations, when is the law going to protect the victims of this hennas crime.
Somebody has to be accountable for the residual damage that occurs to the individual who is falsely accoused. There are no consequences for the liars. What is this saying about us as a society? Nobody wants someone to be hurt by actual violence. But when you are wrongly acccused it seeps into every part of your life and causes a domino effect of emotional, financial and pschological ruin. Aren't we supposed to be accountable for the wrong we do? Not for fairy tales told by a person who has an agenda with intent to harm.. The court system has to be challenged somehow. Is there a way to sue them? Is there a way to sue the accusers? I feel there should be some retribution fiancially and possibly with jail time. This is a mockery of people who are really suffering in the trenches of domestic violence. And the fact that it is about money in the courts is disgusting.
Give joint custody. It should be automatic if every man and woman is created equal under the law. Or is equal rights a lie? And if the have to right to control ones money and other things in ones right, they should at least have to respect and use the time to do checks. So many people are getting mantally and physically abused, and I want to know if they ( as congress) give a care about the man, espcally since they are so quick to call people for war and tell the they are fighting for freedom and the equality of all.

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