Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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I have been falsely accused of dv, and it has taken away valuable time from my relationship with my daughter. the cops took her side.no.questions asked and no witnesses were interviewed. please put an end to this flaw in the justice system. thank you.
My grandson is not married to the mother of his child and that is the problem. She cannot accept that he doesn't want her, so she's been using my 4 year old great granddaughter to punish him for the last 4 years.

She is the one with the felony conviction for conspiracy to traffic cocaine, yet she has called the police falsely so many times it unbelievable. Her latest is DV .

The only way he has a chance at a possible life is if he gives up his daughter. And he will never agree to that.

Meanwhile this woman has her parents money to continue to destroy his life just because he doesn't want a relationship with her.
Current DV law is written to destroy the family and marriage. Few if any legislators know the law that they signed into effect on DV. We must now all live in fear and slavery because of the unwise actions of 500+ men and women legislators and one community organizer. To be able to make false accusation and get away with it with no accountability also destroys the rule of law. Courts no longer administer law but are now merely vehicles of political correctness. This statement is witnessed by the current nullification of the 4th and 5th amendments. There must be heavy financial and prison time penalties in place for those that make false accusation. The national legislators do not care or understand the plight of "We the People" in this matter. May God have mercy on us all.
I do believe that there are victims of legitimacy regarding DV but I do feel that the judicial system is grossly biased toward fathers and allow the mothers to act with impunity and without cause in excersising their cause in fabricated violence in a vast majority of claims that are born out of anger, envy, vindictiveness and without merit.
It's been almost 14 months now that I've been fighting this battle in court. Last year my soon to be ex wife made false allegations of DV, by use of an Ex-Parte hearing she was able to walk right into court and in minutes literally destroy my life. Without even the slightest bit of evidence (no police report, no marks, nothing, no argument between her and I!) King County court allowed her to flee the state of WA to TX with our then 4 month old daughter. Despite two DV evaluation proclaiming my incense of DV the court STILL continued the Temporary Order by use of sheer cunning tactics by her well pedigreed attorney. I have seen my baby girl all but a few time since that horrible day in May of 2012. Our divorce case is now scheduled for trial in a few month. I am left flat broke, the home I bought when I was just 22 is near foreclosure, my credit is destroyed, and worst of all my beautiful baby girl is growing up without her daddy. Please put a stop to this non-sense! Real people, real men, fathers are suffering because of these laws. Please help!
I havent seen my child in 5months because her mother lied to the police to have me arrested for a fight she started and i didnt even hit her.
emailed howard cobel office 2 times in 2 weeks- no response---nothing...thanks local leader
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I called the police to report I was being treaten and when the police came he talked to me and than left and went to talk the people that was treating me, came back and arrested me saying I hit a woman in the face and she had two wittnesses with was her family, and i did not even know the lady
After signing, send the link to everyone you know...it's about time for change.
I am 38 years old, and both of my parents have been deceased for quite a long time. My parents gave me all of the tools I would ever need in this world to be successful and to survive. Unfortunately they never gave me the one tool I need most in life, how to fight governmental corruption, lies, and CYS. I have now lost my 3 children, my life, to a system of corruption, where children are stolen and sold for the financial gain of state and federal monies to pad the pockets of our elected officials. America need MAJOR Reform...this is a PANDEMIC..and it needs to be stopped.
People have no Idea how this effect you the woe it brings on you an not just you but your immediate and extended family its killing me not been able to see my child while going thru this process its ridiculous an outrageous we news this issue address asap
my son is also accused of stalking. He lives over 600 miles away. He hasn't talked to his kids in over a month. The laws have to be changed. He is a good man and he loves his kids.
My son has been accused of stalking only because he has to call her phone to talk to his kids. He lives over 600 miles away and that is the only communication he has. How is that stalking. My son is a good Christian man and he would never do to her what she is doing to him. The judge is not looking at the whole picture. Laws have to be changed for fathers.
Why is it always assumed that it is the Man that commits the violence. " Hell hath no fury ,like a Woman Scorned " And what makes some judges think that they should get custody. I'll match my loyalty to my kids over my wife's , any day. And I'll take my Fidelity to my Marriage more than hers any day, as well. Some women are like little girls sucking a Lolipop in front of the Candy Store Window. They see the Licorice and drop the Sucker to run in for the Licorice Stick. They just grow older , but never grow up.
Was accused of molestation.
Was falsely arrested twice
Ended up in Psych Ward to learn how to ignore reality and live life in accordance to a clearly suffering mother unable to know the difference between dishonesty and truth .
I want to leave my wife due to her alcoholism, car wrecks while drunk and starting a house fire 3 feet outside my son's bedroom window. Putting cigarrettes out in a potted plant that smoldered into fire. Now she has made up allegations I kicked her in the stomach and throw baseballs at her head. My sons are in the house 100% of the time when we are at home and I sleep on a different floor. False accusations should be prosecuted with twice the penalty of a true complaint. I am my son's rock, she abandons them at baseball, leaves the park with them unattended etc. I am scared to fight her on this issue!!! Help the good men of this country!!
I've seen my nephew everyday in that thing on his ankle never goes anywhere and goes to work everyday so unfair with her false allegations
He only wanted to be there for the birth of his son and she stopped him with false allegations
She should have too do what he's been through for her false allegations
False domestic violence accusations happen everyday. Every time this happens a career is ruined which causes a company to lose strength and/or momentum, meaning our nation loses strength and/or momentum.
My husband and I both have false protective orders against from his ex wife and my ex husband. My husband has not seen his son in two years and I have not seen my daughter in 6 months. Both exes have gone to court together and lied under oath because they are both out for revenge and using our kids as weapons. My own lawyer is acting like he does not believe us because he has never had a case where both people have pos by both exes. This is sick and sad...where is the lie detector test? Oh I was told it wont be accepted in court..how convenient!!
My wife uses it so she can control the outcome of her shame marriage to obtain a greencard.
My girlfriend is an abusive alcoholic. When she is drunk, she will hit me, then call the cops and falsely accuse me of beating her.
I think fasle domestic violence claims are unconstitutional and there needs to be a clause that puts penalties on anyone who makes a false claim. I am a victim of a false order of protection claim which has hindered my right to visitation with my son. Due to this I haven't seen him for almost 4 years.
Alas, this happened to me, too. I am soldier on active duty, with immaculate record: no misconduct whatsoever, both on the military and the civilian side.

My wife made a false police report out of malice, and my life has been turned upside down in a blink of an eye. She did it knowing well enough how ruthless the military is about domestic violence... But now she plays innocent, while still harassing me with endless texts and emails.

I have been homeless for months because of this, but she still gets to live in my house and drive my car. I've had to fight an uphill battle and lost all of my savings. And there is no end in sight to all of this. Better yet, she plans to drag out the divorce to make everything even harder on me.

Life is just great because someone lied about me and I have no recourse against her. She wanted to ruin my life, and as far as I can tell, she won. Congrats.
It's time to put an end to this madness. We must stop this evil before another child gets hurt.
My ex-wife went to NC and made a false accusation against me. I went to the magistrate to get served and was told that I would be spending the night in jail. I spent the whole night and next day in jail awaiting for my bail to be set. I was not guilty of anything she had said and was trying to get child custody and me fired from my job. In court the district attorney realizes that she had written two different things down on separate papers. The D.A. Dismissed the charges. I shouldn't have been jailed! I am sure this happens very often and it is a huge deal that could ruin someone's life, as it almost did mine! Our legislation needs to look and fix this problem!
My ex-wife went to NC and made a false accusation against me. I went to the magistrate to get served and was told that I would be spending the night in jail. I spent the whole night and next day in jail awaiting for my bail to be set. I was not guilty of anything she had said and was trying to get child custody and me fired from my job. In court the district attorney realizes that she had written two different things down on separate papers. The D.A. Dismissed the charges. I shouldn't have been jailed! I am sure this happens very often and it is a huge deal that could ruin someone's life, as it almost did mine! Our legislation needs to look and fix this problem!
This is extremely important as the idea that a woman is above reproach is rediculous, as the old saying "hell hasth no fury like a woman scorned".
I am from a small town and I personally know of many false accusations and threats of accusations that girlfriends and wives have made against their partners.
I think the fact that a person can absolutely ruin another persons life without proof and even worse the lazy lawyers who also abuse the system to lead the real victim to the slaughter. I think those people should have to walk in the shoes of the falsely accused for the durration of their lives.

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