Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We have a young man who has been living with our family for over a year now. On July 25, a female friend of his who wanted to be more than just a friend file a domestic violence charge against him. She made false accusations against him, Under Michigan Law these charges should have never been filed, as I have it in writing from her that they were not involved romantically, but yet she told the cops 3 months later that they had been dating for 7 month. Why did this young man go to jail, because this woman did it to punish him for not being in a dating relationship with her.
I have been a victim and it needs to STOP NOW!!!!!
My ex regularly got angry at me for no reason and used all sorts of vulgar language when I met her to pick up my son. I started recording her during the exchanges in an effort to keep her from acting up in front of our son. She filed for a restraining order on the basis that my recording of her was harrasment, and the judge granted it. The judge refused entry of the recordings of her screaming and swearing into evidence. As a lawyer, the shear absurdity of the process for granting protective orders is shocking. The fact that domestic violence occurs in some cases should not serve to deprive innocent people of the their due process rights.
Quality of life isnt worth this messed up system. Damn feminist agenda needs to be destroyed. What happened to the Bill of Rights?
Do I need to say more. I also was falsely accused. It is terrible that Liars mis-use a system for those truely in need. I started a website, join me there and tell your story so all can learn.
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My ex-girlfriend after one year telling me through emails I had shown her a gun to obtain sole custody of our children, told children and families I had pulled a gun on her. Then she started sending emails saying that I had assaulted her with a gun. Then every time we would meet to pick up our kids, we would verbally abuse me to provoke confrontation. I told her I would start recording her, once I recorded her been abusive, she went and filed for an injunction (which was denied) and then she said, she had not gone to the police previously because I had her intimidated to kill her if she was to go to the police. Nevertheless, she went to the court one year latter to get an injunction.
Police officers who respond to DV calls need to get both sides of the story. I called the police on my husband after an argument and no questions were asked about what happened. I was told it was out of my hands and the state of NH was pressing charges, even though I told police I did not want my husband arrested or charged. At the time of the alleged incident, I was on anti-depressant medication that was causing me to have some very negative side effects. My husband did not abuse me in any way! We had an argument. If they had taken the time to talk to us and ask some questions, they would have realized that no abuse had taken place and my husband wouldn't have been arrested and be serving a 2 year suspended sentence for nothing! I deeply regret making that phone call and truly believe that the laws surrounding DV need to be revisited and revised to better protect the falsely accused.
Domestic violence is a serious problem and a serious charge. To ensure the best outcome for domestic violence cases, it is essential that every case is handled according to the law and that due process is followed. Failing to do so damages the credibility of all involved in the eyes of the public and also serves to trivialize the charge. This cannot be allowed to occur.
Sexism in the court of law is not only inappropriate, but down right dangerous. As someone who has experience in violence in the home, only to be told mothers don't do that, I feel that this needs to be looked at very carefully.
Do not appreciate false accusation of abuse when all I did was hold her by the shoulders so the wife can stop coming at me. I released her once she calmed down and said he was going to call the cops which I said she can with her choice. I chose not to make a claim or press charges due to the non severity of the argument and because of our 15 month old. I am familiar with the results from something like this due to a sibling encountering the same thing.
I am another victim. This has got to stop. Who can afford to have an attorney on retainer constantly.
Not once but twice I was falsely accused by my ex of domestic violence. I lost a careerover it and suffered numerous legal fees. Both times the charges were thrown out when I would not plea anything and swore to a fair trial and ccompensation from all parties when found innocent. Now both charges with no conviction sit on my record for life, making me look like a bad guy... very unfair..
I have been a victim of this myself. I moved to a different state only to have to go through this again, she said I drove to her state and abused her.when evidence showed me on video 7 hours away at the time she said I was abusing her. She also only calls the police days later to say Ive abused her. I ve been arrested, lost my job, my home, my kids. I ve proved time and time again I have done nothing yet she still gets away with it. Where does it end.
The arrest records of men who have been wrongfully accused of domestic violence should be expunged so that police do not harass them. The liars who accuse them should be prosecuted. Justice is not done for any one - not the women nor the men - when a liar gets away with destroying a man's life and his and his family's belief in the integrity of the justice system.
The lawmakers of this country have caved to the feminist lobby to create crimes of perception. In the blink of an eye, intimacy can become rape and well justified anger conveniently interpreted as the threat of bodily harm. No wonder we lead the world in incarcerations! Please stop and reverse the carnage.
my life has been destroyed by this system!
I am a victim of a former girlfriend filing false charges. She committed purgery, and I have no legal recourse. There needs to be a penalty for anyone found guilty of lying under oath.
my ex-husband made up a lie to police saying that I threatened him with a knife. I got arrested and now have an arrest record.
I myself was a victim of this misjjustice by a former girlfriend. Once the facts were brought forward that all the charges were lies she fabricated just to "try to get even me", the judge dismissed the case. I tried to pursue charges of purgery to be brought against her, but nothing was ever done. This misuse of justice needs to have serious reprecussions for people who are found guilty of it.
My stepson is currently fighting this unfair fight. He was awarded several purple hearts and the Bronze Star for his bravery and service in our recent wars. Now he's asked for a divorce & his soon-to-be ex-wife is making false claims to steal his children and defame his character. We should all be infuriated by this epidemic against good men and women. This not only harms them but ultimately degrades the plight of TRUE victims of domestic violence.
To speak for those who can not speak for themselves!
unfortunately thanks to the glorification of idiots like snooky of jersey shore lots of females feel that aggression can get them some attention...
Westchester Supreme Judge gave me sole custody only to be bribed to overrule himself with out any reason and gives custody to an abusive mentally ill mother who now failed to obay court orders for over 3years to grant me visitation with our children who I have not seen over 3 years and are being abused brainwashed by their mother
My daughter is being accused of domestic violence by her ex-boyfriend. After she broke up with him he also pressed charges against her for back rent and utilities after she left him. The local judge sided with him. He is unemplyed and has been since months before they broke up. She is working and is trying to keep her job, but feels it is threatened by all of the court appearances she must make.
False Allegations ultimately are child abuse. Women need to understand that.
Domestic violence and Terrorizing charges against families is way over done. It is In-Justice. It is being mis-used by women, children, and Legal system as a tool for financial gain, and to punish INNOCENT men. This program is a crime in itself. Please stop all this.
Am in the middle of this DV Lies lies and more lies. A woman can beat a man up and he tries to leave and has to be physical to escape and next thing he is he is arrested. Doesn't matter the wounds she inflicts
on him , n o one cares, no truth,no investagation, just jail!!! Who are we America????
It is wrong to issue temporary order of protection and ruin a man's life for "just in case". Well, many women do this to ensure they get custody. It is a ploy - an actual strategy because if one has been found in violation of the family violence act, they automatically lose custody. And a temporary order of protection is a violation of the family violence act. It is a twisted game people play, at the cost of taxpayers! It really needs to stop NOW.
I was wrongly charged and convicted after being in jail 124 days of domestic violence. While in Jail she gave away my three boats, my house was foreclosed, lost my truck and she even put my dog to sleep
innocent families are being destroyed, please look at each case independently and let there be a fair trial.
GOD help us!

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