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In June of 2010 my wife left the home in Phila. with our 6 year old daughter. It wasn't till a week later that a letter was slipped into my front door indicating her were-about. The wife and my daughter were now living at her sisters home in Cherry Hill, NJ. My wife had been diagnosed with Parkinson's disease in 2006 but was still able to drive. Since the birth of our daughter she worked very little. My wife never contributed to the family. In fact when she did work she had her paycheck mailed to a friends house. After living with her sister a year she was asked to leave and took up residence in a nearby condominium the cost of which was subsidized by an out of state aunt. While living at this residence she was befriended by two strangers who lived below her. An Afro American male and a Caucasian female. I include their race for a reason as you will understand as you read further. The two of them saw an opportunity to prey on a person that already had difficulty making decisions due to her disease process. The two strangers led my wife by the hand to Phila child support court. The two of them led my wife to the social security office to apply for SSDI for the wife and SSI for our daughter. With all that in place the female, who is a notary, drafted a POA naming herself as the agent, using her husband (or friend) as a witness, forging the mother in laws name as she was not present and notarized the document herself. This gave her rights to all of my wife's belonging including a Jeep Grand Cherokee, her IRA, the support money being taken out of my pay and the SSI being collected for the wife and child. Upon finding out about this POA I immediately went to an attorney and filed to hold my support payments. When this was done The three of them kept my daughter from seeing me and calling me. In essence they were being held hostage as you will learn as this nightmare unfolds. The Caucasian female and the Afr American male were often heard in the background when I was able to speak with my daughter for 2 minutes a day if that saying you can see your daughter if you pay your child support. I continued working as a home care RN to pay the bills. I have been a home care RN for twenty years. This was only the beginning. Each night after work I would wait for the phone to ring hoping it was my daughter. But more times than not the phone would not ring. One evening there was a pounding at the door. It was the Sheriff from Camden NJ, serving the first accusation of spousal abuse. A TRO (temporary restraining order). I could not believe what I was reading. The accusations. I went to court and it was dismissed. My attorney drafted visitation orders that included picking up and returning my daughter at a police station. This went on for several weeks before again pounding on the door. What now ? Another attempt at a restraining order accusing me again of spousal abuse. Keep in mind I am in Phila and the wife is in Cherry Hill NJ. Back to court. This time withou
It is used to get child custody, support, house, attorney's fees.
In June of 2010 my wife left the home in Phila. with our 6 year old daughter. It wasn't till a week later that a letter was slipped into my front door indicating her were-about. The wife and my daughter were now living at her sisters home in Cherry Hill, NJ. My wife had been diagnosed with Parkinson's disease in 2006 but was still able to drive. Since the birth of our daughter she worked very little. My wife never contributed to the family. In fact when she did work she had her paycheck mailed to a friends house. After living with her sister a year she was asked to leave and took up residence in a nearby condominium the cost of which was subsidized by an out of state aunt. While living at this residence she was befriended by two strangers who lived below her. An Afro American male and a Caucasian female. I include their race for a reason as you will understand as you read further. The two of them saw an opportunity to prey on a person that already had difficulty making decisions due to her disease process. The two strangers led my wife by the hand to Phila child support court. The two of them led my wife to the social security office to apply for SSDI for the wife and SSI for our daughter. With all that in place the female, who is a notary, drafted a POA naming herself as the agent, using her husband (or friend) as a witness, forging the mother in laws name as she was not present and notarized the document herself. This gave her rights to all of my wife's belonging including a Jeep Grand Cherokee, her IRA, the support money being taken out of my pay and the SSI being collected for the wife and child. Upon finding out about this POA I immediately went to an attorney and filed to hold my support payments. When this was done The three of them kept my daughter from seeing me and calling me. In essence they were being held hostage as you will learn as this nightmare unfolds. The Caucasian female and the Afr American male were often heard in the background when I was able to speak with my daughter for 2 minutes a day if that saying you can see your daughter if you pay your child support. I continued working as a home care RN to pay the bills. I have been a home care RN for twenty years. This was only the beginning. Each night after work I would wait for the phone to ring hoping it was my daughter. But more times than not the phone would not ring. One evening there was a pounding at the door. It was the Sheriff from Camden NJ, serving the first accusation of spousal abuse. A TRO (temporary restraining order). I could not believe what I was reading. The accusations. I went to court and it was dismissed. My attorney drafted visitation orders that included picking up and returning my daughter at a police station. This went on for several weeks before again pounding on the door. What now ? Another attempt at a restraining order accusing me again of spousal abuse. Keep in mind I am in Phila and the wife is in Cherry Hill NJ. Back to court. This time withou
This is happening all too often by woman to gain possessions and wealth. While incarcerated half my home was taken. the only things she didn't take were things too heavy for her and her friends to carry.
I have been victim to this...and my wife was a cop so she new how to use the system. There needs to be so penalty for false accusations.
The sad thing is some men do this to woman to..i have heard of it to but most dads so get the bad end of it ...i think all domestic violence cases should be investigated more than they are in most states ..
STOP THE WAR AGAINST MEN AND FATHERS.
This is an epidemic.. People are losing children based on false allegations..
To congress. Let's be clear and bring back common sense into our world, whenever a so called person male or female and majority are females who calls the police and falsifying an allegation it's the police who are the primary investigators. It's the police who are the ones to make sure if there is probable cause and beyond the reasonable doubt before any arrests are made. If there is truth of the allegation with eye witnesses with good credibility and solid evidence then the arrest is granted .But, if it's not true the person who is falsifying the allegation should pay the consequences with prosecution to the fullest of the law. I know it would stop the future what I call falsefyers .After the O.J. Simpson's case in 1994. The words common sence was replaced with cover your ass. There are innocent men and women in prison today. The prosecutors must stop adding the trier of facts to juice up the story without the factual evidence. There are great actors and actresses who can win an oscar so, you can't just take their credibility in whole.There are Judges that are absolutely unfair . They must leave out their prejudice ,politics ,religion,race, ethnics and be what they need to be . The "Judge" of our "United States" and our " constitutional rights" the way it was stipulated and should not be amended in any way,shape or form.
This is happening to my son..this needs to stop..people should not be allowed to get away with it.
My kids mother is using false domestic violence allegations rightnow in a custody battle, haven't seen my kids in 8 months, got a daughter that dont even know who I am, and I have no volience in background especially not domestic abuse.
My kids mother is using false domestic violence allegations rightnow in a custody battle, haven't seen my kids in 8 months, got a daughter that dont even know who I am, and I have no volience in background especially not domestic abuse.
I've had to fight an order of protection twice. During the divorce she filed the OoP because I changed the home wifi password. This abuse of the law needs to stop.
My son has been accused of Domestic Violence. He didn't do anything. Police were called, but no arrests were made. He brought his wife from another country, she got her Citizenship and then accused him of abuse. I was a victim of Domestic Violence years ago. I know what DV is. I was beaten for 11 years. My son did none of this. He was unable to see his children for 4 months. This is just not right. Immigration laws should be looked at more closely. There is always 2 sides of a story. My hope is that you look at these stories with an open mind and heart. Innocent people are getting hurt by uninformed legislators.
Our Family Courts are corrupt to the core and in systemic failure.
I called the police because my wife was drank and beating me, my face was covered in blood and when police arrived they took me in custody for a misdemeanor...
4 months later and $1000s gone, including a polygraph test on me that supported my story, witnesses that had seen her beating me before etc, my case was dropped....now I still have to wait couple of years for my records to be clean....this is an absurd system and needs to be fixed.
My brother has had 3 injunctions filed against him. One he went to court with no lawyer not understanding the seriousness. 2nd she filed while in another state (he had not been near her), 3rd she file and again he has had no contact with her or her family for 4 months. How can they serve an injunction on someone, make them move from their home, because she left the state and now wants to live in the house again? She is using the legal system and being a woman as a way to get the home and their child. There is something wrong.
It's about time this was stopped, it's being used as a weapon against innocent men to obtain custody and to win favour in court.
Wake up America!!! This is a real disease that will turn into a cancer one day, and you know what cancer does to people-It Kills. The future of your sons and grandsons is at stake right now. Regardless if this site is just for publicity, I reckon millions finally realized what was hiding in a plain sight.
I’m also a victim of this disease and have the misfortune to be living in the most infested state in the Union-Washington. If you must, stay away!!! The court here will issue DV Protection order without a hearing. Sorry, we require no physical evidence here, just show up tell your fantastic tale. You think that is bad, she will call the police following day with her protection order in hand and use the same false allegations of domestic abuse. You are in jail soon after charged with DV and never questioned by the police, just because she has a protection order. That is what happened to me.
60-70% of divorce cases in this state have some form of false allegations of abuse. It is a well-established legal strategy that is being advocated by Family lawyers. It is being used as weapon to gain leverage during the divorce and custody proceeding. You will lose everything, your reputation, your kids your job, your lifesavings, and your house. If you are the unlucky once, you will also lose your freedom and your sanity. Trust me, soon or later, this disease will infect your family and the real victim is the kids-The once this law suppose protect…
My son mothers file false charges and dum state appointed attorney come with a plea deal and would not take it back.
My son mothers file false charges and dum state appointed attorney come with a plea deal and would not take it back.
The best defense is a psychologist. Their backing you on your mental health/parenting style etc., will trump lawyers, DCYS, and GAL's because they are the experts on whether you are mentally competent or redeemable if you did something wrong. There is a new Parental Rights Bill going through. Check it out. Write your Governor/Attorney General when there is misconduct in family court, I did and 3 weeks later all of the GAL's were fired off the budget for violating parental rights, the State can't attack you on the stand when you have no attorney afforded you and no jury. The family court is operating illegally, unconstitutionally as is with no pro bono's serving in family court. You can sue when they go beyond their field of expertise. Lawyers, GAL's, DCYS, Judges, are NOT ALLOWED to do psych evals on you! NO ONE can be accurately psych eval'ed during a traumatic event such as divorce, this is a fact in the field of psych. (Of course if you had a problematic history or did something too extreme, that may be an issue).Good luck everyone!
I spent $120,000 on legal fees so that I could see my children again. My lawyer who works for a large family law firm told me many times that she and her law firm had never seen anything so cruel and out of control. As well, she indicated many times as more and more evidence came in from substantial witnesses that she had never had so much evidence for one of her clients and against one of her opponents. I had been the children's primary care-giver for four years. By all accounts the kids were happy, healthy and well adjusted. Sadly, I ran out of money by the time the trial came and could not bring the evidence to bear. My children continue to express profound sadness and frustration. As my lawyer told many times my former wife and her lawyer leveraged the family laws in Minnesota to establish status quo during litigation and to run me out of money. The false allegations of domestic violence and many other false allegations ultimately proved false from the notes of her psychologist. The whole nightmare gave me a deep sense of powerlessness. Fundamentally, my kids have suffered the most with my daughter threatening suicide a year ago and both kids running away from their mother two years ago. I share so many men's stories of similar abuse of justice and my heart goes out to them.
Currently have a 6 month old baby with girlfriend. She constantly threatens to charge me with domestic violence if I leave her. I feel hopeless, especially since i have a clean record and currently in the hiring process to be a police officer. She knows she has my goal and dream in her hands. It all started when i didnt want to marry her anymore due to her manipulative personality, thus her plans of obtaining legal residency destroyed
Currently have a 6 month old baby with girlfriend. She constantly threatens to charge me with domestic violence if I leave her. I feel hopeless, especially since i have a clean record and currently in the hiring process to be a police officer. She knows she has my goal and dream in her hands. It all started when i didnt want to marry her anymore due to her manipulative personality, thus her plans of obtaining legal residency destroyed
Custodial parents, normally the mother, who allege such vile and heinous acts lose custody of their children immediately, if present.
As it is now innocent men are presumed guilty.
Im looking at 2-10 years in prison if false allegations are not cleared up. the above information is very true and very real.

I have 2 sons
I am attempting to launch a business and go back to school.

If you know of a Lawer who will assist in a false allegation case please contact me via email
Wegobeyond@gmail.com
Im looking at 2-10 years in prison if false allegations are not cleared up. the above information is very true and very real.

I have 2 sons
I am attempting to launch a business and go back to school.

If you know of a Lawer who will assist in a false allegation case please contact me via email
Wegobeyond@gmail.com
Im looking at 2-10 years in prison if false allegations are not cleared up. the above information is very true and very real.

I have 2 sons
I am attempting to launch a business and go back to school.

If you know of a Lawer who will assist in a false allegation case please contact me via email
Wegobeyond@gmail.com
this is shane again im pleadingfor some sort of help these people have got me painted up like im a monster and have had for years im a 37 year old i should have a family and job a life .over the years i feel like they have taken this away i try and be veryu positive liveing my life if you only knew what they have put me thrugh over the years and are still right now im liveing in the shed and alot of the time loked out my now xgirlfriend and i were but she got sick of being done like******on several occassions my now x ****ed in a butter bowl because my mother had company and would not let her in now does that sound like how a mothr should treat her sons girlfriend i have been putting up with this kinda stuff since as long as i remember this last time when i got arrested they had ooked and released me over my med- issues i had been dealing with when i came back here t get our things my whole family these people that are so scared of me had busted my door down and they all were takjeing whatever they wanted i got bak what they didnt take you would think a person would grow numb haveing delt with this kinda crap my whole life but i dont it blows me away every time right now im about to cry i just dont under stand how a person or peole can do another this way much less thereown blood and the system goes along with whatever they say please call me 417 8489959 or text
My daughter was aressted and held for 48 hours because of lies a man told about her
My daughter was aressted and held for 48 hours because of lies a man told about her
my brother and his little boy who is 2 are the victims of this. I am shocked and appalled that she was able to lie about abuse and continue to lie even after he showed proof of her abusing him physically the courts have done nothing to hold her accountable for her perjury and it has been 2 years of court waiting to go to trial Something needs to be done!!!! children are the ones who are hurting the most. A false accusers is a child abuser
Been there and doing it now
I echo all of the sentiments expressedin the formal statement.
This signature is on behalf of my brother Robert Malia, who has suffered a tremendous Mis justice by someone who was not born in this Country. The Suffolk county attorney as well as DSS did not not find ANY evidence of any type of abuse , but still was punished by the judge and now after many months he was able to see his girls under supervision. The Law guardian has not even visited with my brother and his girls together to see how much they love and miss him. He lost everything. The house that was his long before the marriage, all his belongings but most of all his girls. It is so not fair. He is a victim of not only Dup Citizianship but a victim of a corrupt judicial system. Let alone the cost of proving his innocence so he may be with his girls. Please Help My Brother. Robert Michael Malia.
People who make false accusations are only causing harm by shortchanging the true victims of domestic violence.

Im a 33 year old man who will speak from personal experience and say that they're alot of women who physically abuse men. Women can also be the aggressor in most cases trying to provoke a reaction or retaliation just to put the Man in jail.

Many people misuse these claims in order to cheat the system that was designed to protect them.

Hey if you find yourself in a heated situation with your partner i suggest that you both take sum space out of the home to kool down a bit & collect your thoughts because the worst thing i think could be done is making decisions when your in a heated situation with your partner.
Please People Walk Away and come back another day!!
People who make false accusations are only causing harm by shortchanging the true victims of domestic violence.

Im a 33 year old man who will speak from personal experience and say that they're alot of women who physically abuse men. Women can also be the aggressor in most cases trying to provoke a reaction or retaliation just to put the Man in jail.

Many people misuse these claims in order to cheat the system that was designed to protect them.

Hey if you find yourself in a heated situation with your partner i suggest that you both take sum space out of the home to kool down a bit & collect your thoughts because the worst thing i think could be done is making decisions when your in a heated situation with your partner.
Please People Walk Away and come back another day!!
It's happening to me right now. Crazy my state is 200 million in the hole. We are paying for it.
In personal experience through family and friends, the accuser should be evaluated for mental health disorders in cases where there is absolutely zero evidence to show any amount of abuse has occurred. The system has a huge flaw and its a shame to see honest people be brought down by such ridiculous standards.
The men and women who are using this serious accusation falsely - shame on you! Domestic violence is a serious matter not to be used as a vindictive vice!
will add at a later date
This is happening to my brother as of this date and even when the police find out she has cried wolf nothing is ever done to her for filing false information. He has spent $15,000 in legal fees. Money he does not have and has had to take out loans. She has a 3 year pfa on him and will not stop the lies until she has him lockup in jail when he has done nothing wrong.
i have been falsely acussed on several occassions of domestic violence on my parents i have never laid a hand on either of them i have brokenn objects but have never touched them i know that my rightss have been stripped from me to many times to count now this time its my older bro tell me how 3 people can come to my residence assualt me and i got stuck with 2nd degree w weopon there alot more to this stopry medical problems mine .....please iof there is anyone who can help me call 4178489959 my name is shane please im begging

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