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This is being done more and more as a weapon for a failed relationship.
We live in an unfair world where our justice system seems to be a huge part of it. They say land of the FREE or of EQUAL opportunity. Unfortunately the values of equality, fairness, and justice in our government seem to be a myth. We live in a bias society where women can easily accuse men of egregious charges, ruin one's life, without having any evidence pertaining to the incident except Her word and that she's a Women. Where's the fairness or justice in that? It saddens me we live in a world of hypocrisy and unethical statutes that shouldn't be accountable
Florida Judges should not be able to enter a domestic violence injunction against someone when they were never arrested or charged with domestic violence by the police or States Attorney. The mother lies and gets the injunction, custody and child support.
My husband has been wrongfully accused of domestic violence.All because one child wanted to live with us. The mother lied made false allegation and my husband was arrested
The worst part is that the accusor continues the games of lies and themself is abusive. Hiding in the open and no one takes the time to see the truth!
I have been falsely accused of domestic violence by a family member completely out of her mind on valium. I had to face jail and am facing quite a bit more time due to a simple drug induced phone call. I was asleep at the time. Professionally ruined and stressed mentally beyond belief. I strongly believe in your cause. It is an injustice that must be stopped. I am from Tennessee and the laws are quite severe here. A bachelors degree and once successful career destroyed as well as my life. It should be a crime that one has so much power to make a simple phone call and destroy a persons life.
Indeed, the current laws, when applied, are like attempting to perform surgery with a chainsaw. This MUST CHANGE!
My brother is an innocent victim. Please help.
Bring back our constitutional rights. Stop the injustice!!!
False domestic abuse as well as sexual harassment allegations:
A few years ago my estranged wife came to my place of business, attacked me over a $20.00 misunderstanding regarding our then 10 year old son, she went to the police station gave a false report, stating that she came to me for money and I attempted to hit her by stretching my hand into her vehicle, Officer Shannon Walton of the Miami Dade Police department arrested and charged me with Burglary, Aggravated Assault with a Deadly Weapon and Battery. Believe me I did not touch that woman, instead I asked her repeatedly to leave the premises and she refused to do so:
But even if I had put my hand into the vehicle of which I did not ,I still cannot see how burglary charge come in the picture, as Florida is no fault State, which also means that my wife's vehicle belongs to both of us. Are they saying that I tried to burglarize my own vehicle? CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Or is it because I ‘m a male why these felony charges were applied?
Today I am on a mission to raise $100,000 for the establishment of a support group for men who are falsely accused of crimes against women:
What most men do not understand is that once you are accused of a crime against women, such as, domestic violence, sexual harassment, guilty or not your life is done, as 90% of men as well as women convict you as soon as a woman opens her mouth and says he did!
We men need to come together and demand that these wicked women who make false allegations against innocent men pay a heavy price:
On account of that one false allegation, I spent 3 months behind bars with no bond. I lost my job at Enterprise Rental Car, I lost my car, my apartment, I now suffer from high blood pressure and other health issues: Not to mention the effect it has on our child as well as my immigration status.
If there is one person out there who would like to support this cause? Please send your donations using my Paypal account:
Email address: (sellous@yahoo.com ) (deposit can also be made to my Wells-Fargo account:
Men if we don't do something now! Sooner or later every single male in the United States will have a record as a wife beater, sexual predator etc.
Let's condemn violence against men, women and children as well as animals,
Let us also demand that those who destroy the lives of men by making false allegations face the same stiff penalties that the allegations carry, had the accused found guilty. As you know in most cases the innocent man is made to pay, even when the prosecutors and even some judges see clearly that the woman is telling lies: This they do so as gather votes and to satisfy the blood thirst of these feminist groups:
Your financial support will certainly help in creating a website for this cause, as well as my internet radio program in support of the many men whose lives, character and finances are ruined by demon possessed women.
Those who might be doubtful of this mission or the charges as stated?
False domestic abuse as well as sexual harassment allegations:
A few years ago my estranged wife came to my place of business, attacked me over a $20.00 misunderstanding regarding our then 10 year old son, she went to the police station gave a false report, stating that she came to me for money and I attempted to hit her by stretching my hand into her vehicle, Officer Shannon Walton of the Miami Dade Police department arrested and charged me with Burglary, Aggravated Assault with a Deadly Weapon and Battery. Believe me I did not touch that woman, instead I asked her repeatedly to leave the premises and she refused to do so:
But even if I had put my hand into the vehicle of which I did not ,I still cannot see how burglary charge come in the picture, as Florida is no fault State, which also means that my wife's vehicle belongs to both of us. Are they saying that I tried to burglarize my own vehicle? CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Or is it because I ‘m a male why these felony charges were applied?
Today I am on a mission to raise $100,000 for the establishment of a support group for men who are falsely accused of crimes against women:
What most men do not understand is that once you are accused of a crime against women, such as, domestic violence, sexual harassment, guilty or not your life is done, as 90% of men as well as women convict you as soon as a woman opens her mouth and says he did!
We men need to come together and demand that these wicked women who make false allegations against innocent men pay a heavy price:
On account of that one false allegation, I spent 3 months behind bars with no bond. I lost my job at Enterprise Rental Car, I lost my car, my apartment, I now suffer from high blood pressure and other health issues: Not to mention the effect it has on our child as well as my immigration status.
If there is one person out there who would like to support this cause? Please send your donations using my Paypal account:
Email address: (sellous@yahoo.com ) (deposit can also be made to my Wells-Fargo account:
Men if we don't do something now! Sooner or later every single male in the United States will have a record as a wife beater, sexual predator etc.
Let's condemn violence against men, women and children as well as animals,
Let us also demand that those who destroy the lives of men by making false allegations face the same stiff penalties that the allegations carry, had the accused found guilty. As you know in most cases the innocent man is made to pay, even when the prosecutors and even some judges see clearly that the woman is telling lies: This they do so as gather votes and to satisfy the blood thirst of these feminist groups:
Your financial support will certainly help in creating a website for this cause, as well as my internet radio program in support of the many men whose lives, character and finances are ruined by demon possessed women.
Those who might be doubtful of this mission or the charges as stated?
Please enforce the laws that are in place for false allegations and put in place strict punishments for them! My brother is going through this right now and it is awful. She has managed to get orders of protection, ruin his good name, and manipulate the system to keep his son from him. No charges have been brought up on the mother, even after the judge dismissed the order because of the proof my brother has showing that she is not telling the truth. Proof or not the court still has a bad outlook on who my brother really is and it is so sad because he is a great father he loves his son and provides for him. The list is too long to type here of all the things she has said and done and got away with. It is not fair to the children!!
I have proof that my son's wife and boy friend lied and made false charges for my sons arrest. Once a judge dismissed the charges as invalid, once he was found not guilty but Judge Ellen McElvea of Cherokee County Superior Court in GA listened to these same charges and my son is in jail. The judge rulled if he ever contacts his exwifes new husband and his family which also mean his daughters that he will go to jail. There is no time limit. He can never contact them again. He has never been violent or accused of being violent. Calling to ask to see the daughters he has not seen in 5 years she considered harrassing. I can not send my grandaughters a birthday card or Christmas gift. This is considered a contact from my son. Make thses evil women stop. No man is safe, you might be the next victim.
I have proof that my son's wife and boy friend lied and made false charges for my sons arrest. Once a judge dismissed the charges as invalid, once he was found not guilty but Judge Ellen McElvea of Cherokee County Superior Court in GA listened to these same charges and my son is in jail. The judge rulled if he ever contacts his exwifes new husband and his family which also mean his daughters that he will go to jail. There is no time limit. He can never contact them again. He has never been violent or accused of being violent. Calling to ask to see the daughters he has not seen in 5 years she considered harrassing. I can not send my grandaughters a birthday card or Christmas gift. This is considered a contact from my son. Make thses evil women stop. No man is safe, you might be the next victim.
I am in the same situation here in UK but who care. My wife has alleged me of fake domestic violence and UK Law believes her. I asked for a FACT FINDING but who care?
I nearly lost my job, my home, and my freedom because of my exgirlfriend's false accusations. Even though I had evidence, the police and state's attorney refused to do anything. She's still free to do this to other people.
I nearly lost my job, my home, and my freedom because of my exgirlfriend's false accusations. Even though I had evidence, the police and state's attorney refused to do anything. She's still free to do this other people.
I nearly lost my job, my home, and my freedom because of my exgirlfriend's false accusations. Even though I had evidence, the police and state's attorney refused to do anything. She's still free to do this other people.
I nearly lost my job, my home, and my freedom because of my exgirlfriend's false accusations. Even though I had evidence, the police and state's attorney refused to do anything.
Going this this right now. Haven't seen the mother of my kids or her in a year because been ignoring me. finally had DNA testing and everything done which took forever. Then went down and filed for custody. Thereof after that she goes down and file a protection order against me. Accusing me of stuff when I havent been around in a year.

Lets these false allegations
My son is going through this right now. It's sad to think she may get away with it.
I was charged with domestic violence, charges where dropped but I still had to plead guilty to false imprisonment. I'm current still on probation because of this false accusation against me saying I was hearing her. Cops even told me that they have to take me in but the evidence is none.
Pam Geldart Repeat False Retaliatory Domestic Violence Charges Insults Legitimate Victims VAWA Laws Intended To Protect (Daytona Beach Florida)

5/10/2011 11pm Tuesday
Corky Bells restaurant owner generously provided security video of enraged, disorderly Pamela K. Geldart punching Barton Christner three times on the left of his head, while he sat calmly on a bench. Pam Geldart proceeded then to smash Mr. Christner's MacBook Pro and Cameras worth thousands. Putnam County Deputy Roberts overheard Pam Geldart screaming "Who are they gonna believe, he hit me!" but video forced her confession. Deputy Roberts charged Pamela K. Geldart for  Criminal Mischief (case# 11-3499).

5/11/2011 10am Wednesday
Pamela K. Geldart purchased at Best Buy, a $2300 replacement MacBook for Mr. Christner, successfully resulting in the Putnam Criminal charge against her, subsequently dropped.

5/12/2011 11pm Thursday
Ms. Pamela K. Geldart drunken, retaliated, malicious and vindictive, 8 minutes ranted "It's ******** I had to buy you a computer!" and to 911 dispatch (from actual transcript) "two days ago he filed charges against me, when really he hit me, broke windows, knifed my car, pushed me, threw me on ground, threw me off a four inch step." Dispatch asked her are you injured? Ms. Geldart says, "No." Why he'd do this were you fighting? Ms. Pam Geldart responds, "No." Dispatch asks, what were you arguing about? Ms. Pam Geldart hesitates, answers literally, "Quite frankly I can't recollect," and continues, "I want an officer here to see I'm a 94 pound hamster and he's a 220 pound Daddy, I couldn't possibly hit him, he hits me!" Volusia County officers arrived, cited "zero tolerance" without evidence, injury, interest in Putnam, video surveillance, but just because she called, "we have to incarcerate one of you for 24 hours." Mr. Christner was promptly arrested by Pam Geldart's vindictive, malicious, retaliatory false Domestic Battery charge (case# 110-821-MMAES).

State's Attorney Diaz later reviewed Ms. Pam Geldart's antics on video, all 911 transcripts, Pamela K. Geldart's Criminal Charges, experienced her inconsistent, persistent outright lies, even reprimanded her for perjury, and DISMISSED everything she alleged as "NO INFO" (legalese for "she lied"). 

"James Geldart" (Palm Coast case# 2009-1838),  "John Korchinsky" (Delray Beach) Pamela K. Geldart's ex husband and her ex-boyfriends were also arrested for Domestic Battery charges not long after they filed separate restraining orders against Ms. Pam Geldart in two jurisdictions respectively.

May 2013 Ms. Pamela K. Geldart finally writes, "B- Long overdue, I know. Things got out of hand a few years back and I went too far. I admit had much to much wine and Bacardi. I was afraid to try and stop it all once I'd made that vary vary horrible ten minute 911 rant! I really see mug pictures and stuff online what it is I put you thru now that I lost my job at Barrett! I did met a guy lots like you. He's not y
Does anyone know of any awareness activities in place in Missouri? We sure need to get it going!
My wife has bi-polar disease, on top of that she is addicted to METH and HEROIN. She held a knife to her throat and I grabbed the kids and left the situation. She then pushed me down a flight of stairs in front of my children. She was asked to leave and not to return. I filed for divorce because I couldn't control her behavior. 3 days later she assaulted a minor child and was sent to jail for Measure 11 Assault charges(OREGON). After she was released from jail, she went right back to using METH and HEROIN. The dissolution of marriage papers were all ready to sign when all hell broke lose. She filed a restraining to control the house and force the kids and I out and moved in her new drug dealer boyfriend and junkie sister. The restraining order accused me of things that I did while she was in jail. The police even knew she was lying but will not do anything. She hasn't contacted her children and has lied to the same police that states I violated the restraining order claiming she is a victim of DV and has me thrown in jail twice. I am a hard working father with two amazing kid and will do anything I can to prove that my children and myself are the real victims. Hope the state see's that or they will have a lawsuit on their hands. We all need to fight this epidemic.
father in law hit me first, I defended myself, wife pulled me off him, and she was holding me, got out her grip, hand accidentally got her in eye, she bruises easily...bam, I get charged with assault, and dv.. had to plead no contest just to get out of jail.
I was accused of DV by my now ex wife. I had audio/video tapes of her hitting me, bruises on my body...etc. The court did nothing to her for filing multiple false DV cases against me, even after I gave them the tapes.
It's as if the author of the "Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence" knew this vindictive previous girlfriend of my son and now the mother of their two sons. Incredible! Something has to be done!
I had someone put in jail for a false CVD charge because I have severe Bi-Polar Disorder and I lied to the cops and told them that he tried to choke me, he never put his hands on me and "jail" never entered my mind, due to the fact that I was MANIC and manic bi-polar people lie, over exaggerate, have fits of rage, reckless behavior, and crave attention, among lots of other triggers, when we went to court I had them empty the courtroom before they heard our case because I didn't want anyone in the courtroom to know I was Bi-Polar, just in case there was someone in there I may have known, I wrote a statement, it was submitted under oath, and the Judge said she believed what I wrote. It stated that I lied and what exactly happened, the Judge said that she believed me, but the cops in the case (well one in particular) would not let this go, like he had some vendetta against him or something, because he insist on pushing this case all the way even though I confessed to lying under oath. He has not been convicted yet, their wanting him to go to group therapy (which is hard for him to be in front of a group because of his severe anxiety!) He has to go for 26 weeks, he did this to keep me from having to go through a jury trial, because of the stress it will put on me, now does that sound like someone who wants to "STRANGLE" someone, that was the word the cop used to describe the incident (I have never used the word Strangle in my life, it's not in my vocabulary!) Anyway I lied and I sent this man to jail and now he has 26 weeks of therapy, if he can handle it. If not we're gonna have to go through a jury trial and I don't think we're gonna be able to handle the stress of a trial. So real people do lie and CDV people are innocent. So don't believe everything you hear or read, because it may not be true!!!
I had someone put in jail for a false CVD charge because I have severe Bi-Polar Disorder and I lied to the cops and told them that he tried to choke me, he never put his hands on me and "jail" never entered my mind, due to the fact that I was MANIC and manic bi-polar people lie, over exaggerate, have fits of rage, reckless behavior, and crave attention, among lots of other triggers, when we went to court I had them empty the courtroom before they heard our case because I didn't want anyone in the courtroom to know I was Bi-Polar, just in case there was someone in there I may have known, I wrote a statement, it was submitted under oath, and the Judge said she believed what I wrote. It stated that I lied and what exactly happened, the Judge said that she believed me, but the cops in the case (well one in particular) would not let this go, like he had some vendetta against him or something, because he insist on pushing this case all the way even though I confessed to lying under oath. He has not been convicted yet, their wanting him to go to group therapy (which is hard for him to be in front of a group because of his severe anxiety!) He has to go for 26 weeks, he did this to keep me from having to go through a jury trial, because of the stress it will put on me, now does that sound like someone who wants to "STRANGLE" someone, that was the word the cop used to describe the incident (I have never used the word Strangle in my life, it's not in my vocabulary!) Anyway I lied and I sent this man to jail and now he has 26 weeks of therapy, if he can handle it. If not we're gonna have to go through a jury trial and I don't think we're gonna be able to handle the stress of a trial. So real people do lie and CDV people are innocent. So don't believe everything you hear or read, because it may not be true!!!
I have a family member who is going through this hellish nightmare right now and I am in the fight of my life to get custody of my grandchild and save my family member from going to jail. I would like to hear from everyone here so I can tell your story. These nightmares need to stop! I can be reached at: alexander@theamericandialogue.org
As a current victon of false alligations, I have not seen my kids in over a month and have spent thousands. Once me and my boys see the counslor this shold end, but it has been a nightmare for us... it MUST stop.
This needs to STOP!!
I have had this just happen my dad called law drove twenty miles to where I was to make complaint come on I went direct to jail this case makes no sense waste of money on my part and slander to my name
My brother is a victim. US Laws and tax payers' money are being misused by his wife in a vindictive and cunning way. His wife met an attorney friend who coached her how to manipulate the system (3,381 text messages, 348 calls and 2,797 call minutes in 3 months exchanged between his wife and this individual prior to the alleged incident). Now she has filed for divorce and is represented by free attorneys provided by her local Domestic Violence Agency. Laws are designed to protect those who truly needs it and it's a shame that they are being misused by so many. Something has to be done to stop this from happening over and over again.
These false allegations of Domestic Violence is one form of parental alienation and equates to CHILD ABUSE. Please stop this for GOD's sake and for our CHILDREN's sake.
These false allegations of Domestic Violence is one form of parental alienation and equates to CHILD ABUSE. Please stop this for GOD's sake and for our CHILDREN's sake.
I have been falsely accused and it was later discovered that the accuser was suffering from depression or mental imbalance and later committed suicide (self inflicted injury).
My bloodline is in the history books of America, The Alamo, Space Shuttle Program. And I married a Belorussian that took my money, our child and all of my civil rights and all on coaching from women's shelter, Help in Crisis, I have hundreds of documents, I was cleared by the state Attorney General's office and due to false abuse and stalking, I have lost what my bloodline had fought in several wars to defend. Make all Russian claims of abuse only acceptable with "Prima Facie" evidence. Now I am fighting legally to stop her from abducting our Oklahoman son to the Republic of Belarus, She takes private Facebook posts and pastes them into G-mail format and reports them as protective order violations, and none are threatening?!?!?! Stop this madness!!!!! Please!
I support this reform 100%. My life has had many negative things happen at the hands of family court. Criminal it seems more like a execution than a court hearing in south carolina. And in Florida much better but the mom is held accountable for nothing she does. free rain in most states.
I have been there. Falsely accused. And now is on my record.
I think guilt should be proven before charges are filed. Its innocent until proven guilty, not guilty until you run yourself broke trying to get to trial.
Please, take the time to read and sign.
My son's ex, the mother of 2 of his children, has filed false police reports in order to have him put in jail to prevent him from attending a hearing re: 1 of the children and for revenge that he is happily married with 3 children under the age of 2. The local police are aware of her mental health issues as she has made numerous false reports in the past and do not believe this occured but due to the DV laws they are forced to file the charges. The police did not even investigate due to the frequent false reports. My son has not seen her or the 2 older children for over 4 yrs due to her having filed a false report at that time, saying he sexually abused 1 child when she was 8 yrs old. That put him in jail for 7 months and again cost he and his family over $20,000, mental distress and health reprocussions. Because of this he and his family will have spent over 6 months without his presence and income. The total cost to him and his family will be over $20,000. During this time he missed the birth of twin sons, being there for a childs surgery, missing his anniversary, childs 2nd birthday, wife's birthday, mother's birthday, grandmother's 81st birthday and most likely Thanksgiving and possibly Christmas. I, his mother, was a victim of DV in the past. I worked at a DV councelling center. I am a true advocate for help for victims of DV but the ability of a woman with known behavior and mental issues to do this for the rest of her/his life has to be stopped. As it stands, she can continue to file false reports and have him put in jail anytime she wants with absolutely no reprocussions.
I know two guys that have been wrongfully accused! These women lie and put on some fake show and no matter what proof the guy has he is still penalized! This needs to stop!!!!
This is happening to me only by a delouse ex girlfriend of my husband she gets mad at him makes up lies about me and calls the law. And it doesn't matter if I had witness or anything I was falsely accused and she calls dcfs and everytime the case is unfounded

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