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Going throught this horrible situation now all because my wife wanted to go to vegas and she ran off with my children to arizona and i have no way to contact them and cant do anything about it
This is scary and just plain crazy. How many innocent men's lives must be ruined before a change is made?
I'm a male who is the victim in abuse, charged with the crime. Arrested falsely.
I'm a male who is the victim in abuse, charged with the crime. Arrested falsely.
Allowing this to happen undermines every shred of confidence in the judicial system of this country. Unlike political problems this is a people problem. Unlike racism, this is all inclusive. It wont simmer too long.
America is a dirty country pressuring the pure and innocent to lead guilty to unreal crazy woman domestic violence charges
In the Blink of an eye.....Everything I invested and LOVED was taken from me...
My ex girlfriend broke a glass coffee table in my house and called police on me and said I put her hand thru table.I have no marks on my hands or anywhere and police still arrested me.She has 4 cm cut on her hand so cops thought I put hand thru. I broke up with her earlier that day and that was her revenge. Now i have court case and a protection order to deal with. I thought u need proof of a crime to be arrested but was I wrong. They need to change laws.
I had a verbal argument with my girlfriend earlier this year in which she called the police and said I was beating her.I never touched her.The police found no signs of abuse and left.She went to magistrates office and filed a restraining order against me.The next day I was evicted from the apartment.I had to live in my car for 8 days.Now I have a restraining order in place for a year for doing nothing.She jokes about it now saying she will call the police again if I dont do what she says.Please stop this madness.Women like this need to be put in jail.
My partner has not seen his children in 16 years after their mother made false allegations of domestic violence and then abducted them. She even perjured herself in court that she saw him molesting the children. These kind of false accusers need to be held accountable for the harm they cause not only the falsely accused parent, but the affected children too who have been brainwashed to believe things happened to them that never occurred.
Judges often tolerate false accusations instead of dealing with the crime of perjury. False testimony is perjury.
Too easily given to all the lying and malicious people out there.
This is the saddest experience to go through for any loving father. JS
The use of fraudulent restraining orders to force a child away from a loving parent almost always the Father), steal the Father's property, disgrace the Father, deem the Father an unfit and angry man in the anti-family, unconstitutional, kangaroo court proceedings, is obscene at the least, and inhuman at the most. Evidentiary based laws and rules (the rules of evidence) must always apply when dealing with these matters. In these cases, "If it don't fit (and you can't prove it based on facts and evidence), you must surely acquit!" Out of the 3 million restraining orders filed annually, more than one million are fraudulent. Most of those fraudulent restraining orders are filed in child custody cases. A "fraudulent" restraining order is called the first assault weapon, or the nuclear assault weapon in family court cases, as the liar-for-hire attorney for the woman, files it knowing that it will do maximum damage and haunt the innocent Father for a long time to come. I am not talking about men that beat women, etc., etc. And even then, some of those claims are suspect because the laws are clearly tilted to benefit the women via extreme gender bias in the courts. Hmm! See pattern and practice there? Well you should. Judges and attorneys are trained by WEAVE and other men and Father hating groups in how to get restraining orders, et. al. In California, they used to do it at the courthouse until a lawsuit was filed and now they just do it at places like WEAVE. Shame on them. Fraudulent restraining orders are part of a practice to separate children from their loving Fathers. It is a form of parental alienation and isolation. It is child abuse and soul murder. Anyone perpetrating such behaviors and actions should be charged with a crime, including perjury, fraud, filing a false report (police, court and otherwise), attorneys should be prosecuted, along with miscreant judges, court minions, d.a.'s and other scum. Stop the war on Fathers and children NOW!!!
me and my now ex-girlfriend was on the verge of breaking up i was leaving forcompany paid truck driving school she said you are going to leave me my nephew was staying with us and she got mad and starting arguing at me and then she call the police and told them i threaten to kill her i never had a domestic violence case ever im 48 years old and i went to jail i need help this case is still open i have a public defender and they want to to plead-put on something i did do or stay
Since my ex-wife had falsely accused me, i was guilty until proven innocent. It has been 6 months since I have seen or talked to my children. They do not even call me Daddy anymore. She has had 5 different men in my home around my children. This has to stop.
I am a mother of 2 young children. I had them ripped away from me, by my narcosis ex after I left an abusive marriage. I am willing to go to the media or do whatever it takes to stop this madness for all! There's strength in numbers! Please contact me to make a difference together!
This is a huge problem, families are being torn apart by false allegations!! Please take this seriously...this has to change!!
Something things to change!
The charges against me were dropped, but I did not see my kids for 4 months in the meantime. It is despicable that a person can lie about another and have the entire legal system descend on them.
There needs to be grand parents rights to.I'm A tulalip tribal member from tulalip Washington my husband and I got screwed over from A tribal member who's grandpa was on the board of directors of are tribe and used there authority in our courts . Are granddaughter is 9 years old now haven't seen her since she was 5yrs old and before that a few times since she was 1yrs old . It hurts real bad we don't get to be in her life.
There needs to be grand parents rights to.I'm A tulalip tribal member from tulalip Washington my husband and I got screwed over from A tribal member who's grandpa was on the board of directors of are tribe and used there authority in our courts . Are granddaughter is 9 years old now haven't seen her since she was 5yrs old and before that a few times since she was 1yrs old . It hurts real bad we don't get to be in her life.
There needs to be grand parents rights to.I'm A tulalip tribal member from tulalip Washington my husband and I got screwed over from A tribal member who's grandpa was on the board of directors of are tribe and used there authority in our courts . Are granddaughter is 9 years old now haven't seen her since she was 5yrs old and before that a few times since she was 1yrs old . It hurts real bad we don't get to be in her life.
My husband and his kids lied to the police and I was arrested. Everything done for the last 8 months (and I'm still waiting for trial) has been from the point I am guilty before innoncent. If anybody can help me change dv laws and help get civil action against the police department I would appreciate it!!
This needs to stop now. Men are constantly being viewed as guilty until proven innocent and even then there reputation has been scarred.
These false abuse allegations are ruining those people's lives that are decent individuals. All it takes is for a woman to say they were abused (no proof or no signs of abuse) and the man is arrested and charged with DV. This is against our Constitutional Rights and I will always fight it as such!
this too has happened to me and i am a woman
Washington State has a HUGE bias against men, and it is affecting the children who are being torn from their fathers!
Stop these women
sad, this is happening this just happened to me, custody hearing the kids mother filed against me hoping I would land in jail so that she could regain custody of her children.
This happens to women too. My abusive ex turned it around to make himself look like a victim and had me arrested for stalking, harassment, and domestic violence. The charges are false and I am going to have to pay a ton of money to a lawyer to defend myself. The system has offered me no protection and no way to defend myself so far. I am terrified.
I know of a guy that life might be ruined becasue of an irresponsible scorned lover and something has to be done to stop women that falsely accuse males of abuse. More rights for men in this department.
My Name is Tatiana, I was married to my husband for 8 years and we were both bless with three children living together as family until 2011 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 5 months after, he started behaving strange and don't even come home sometimes pretending that his new job is so tight. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. Since that day, when i called him, he don't longer pickup my calls. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to this priest. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has no negative effect. She gave me the spell caster's e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, he told me the requirement after the spell has worked so i decided to work with him. I was very shocked when my husband came home on the third day and started begging for all that he has done wrong to me and our children. This testimony is just the price i have to pay for the good work that this great priest has done in my marriage. This man is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail address templeofpermanenthealing@hotmail.com
5/10/2011 11pm Tuesday
Corky Bells restaurant owner generously provided security video of enraged, disorderly Pamela K. Geldart punching Barton Christner three times on the left of his head, while he sat calmly on a bench. Pam Geldart proceeded then to smash Mr. Christner's MacBook Pro and Cameras worth thousands. Putnam County Deputy Roberts overheard Pam Geldart screaming "Who are they gonna believe, he hit me!" but video forced her confession. Deputy Roberts charged Pamela K. Geldart for  Criminal Mischief (case# 11-3499).

5/11/2011 10am Wednesday
Pamela K. Geldart purchased at Best Buy, a $2300 replacement MacBook for Mr. Christner, to subsequently have dropped her Putnam Criminal charge against her.

5/12/2011 11pm Thursday
Ms. Pamela K. Geldart drunken, retaliated, malicious and vindictive, 8 minutes ranted to 911 dispatch (from actual transcript) "two days ago he filed charges against me, when really he hit me, broke windows, knifed my car, pushed me, threw me on ground, threw me off a four inch step." Dispatch asked her are you injured? Ms. Geldart says, "No." Why he'd do this were you fighting? Ms. Pam Geldart responds, "No." Dispatch asks, what were you arguing about? Ms. Pam Geldart hesitates, answers literally, "Quite frankly I can't recollect," and continues, "I want an officer here to see I'm a 94 pound hamster and he's a 220 pound Daddy, I couldn't possibly hit him, he hits me!" Volusia County officers arrived, cited "zero tolerance" without evidence, injury, interest in Putnam, video surveillance, but just because she called, "we have to incarcerate one of you for 24 hours." Mr. Christner was promptly arrested by Pam Geldart's vindictive, malicious, retaliatory false Domestic Battery charge (case# 110-821-MMAES).

State's Attorney Diaz later reviewed Ms. Pam Geldart's antics on video, all 911 transcripts, Pamela K. Geldart's Criminal Charges, experienced her inconsistent, persistent outright lies, even reprimanded her for perjury, and DISMISSED everything she alleged as "NO INFO" (legalese for "she lied"). 

Mr. Christner had been 24 hours jailed, spent thousands in legal defense, six weeks by law required to pee on-site in a cup weekly, restrained from leaving the county, and dozens of different mugshot industry websites have since screen-scraped his booking photo from county records, extorting over $400 avg. each instance for s "mugshot unpublish" service or Google unethicaly results to family, friends, prospective employers the derogatory, misleading inmate records when a name his searched on Google!

"James Geldart" (Palm Coast case# 2009-1838),  "John Korchinsky" (Delray Beach) and "Armando Mustiga" (palm Coast) Pamela K. Geldart's ex husband and her ex-boyfriends were also arrested for Domestic Battery charges not long after they filed separate restraining orders against Ms. Pam Geldart in both jurisdictions respectively.

May 2013 Ms. Pamela K. Geldart finally writes, "B- Long overdue, I know. Things got out
I have witnessed this TOO MANY Times Because I AM A MAN!! WHO HAS A VOICE!!!
I am being accused because my bipolar wife had a manic episode and believes me trying to stop her from scratching at herself was assault the police took pics of self inflicted injuries and I lost my step-kids, my wife, my home, and my job. She has a history of self inflicting under stress even her mother said so.
Atleast make the accuser show some signs of sbuse. IE: Bruises, Cuts, Scrapes, Red Marks, something...........
Truth matter not less but more in the cases of all our vulnerable children growing up in harms way. In two weeks time---What does one say to vulnerable children say "sometimes my mom lies to get her way" After their daddy is falsely accused and arrested (if you succeed try try again and again). Many PD calls followed. I myself has had my meranda rights read as well as my other DILaw over lies....Many False Cries are on record. We as Grandparents have no rights in
WA state... Even when the Unjust courts are aware of the many other abuses.

What does one say to a teen? while threats of suicide says "the judge ruinded 100 lives-well not that many but a lot"

MORE--The kids have lost BIG TIME!!!
It is sickening to think an individual collecting a paycheck from the county office of education and supposedly has an teaching degree would purposely subject our own children to this type of abuse. the local bar association is all to eager to facilitate P/A for the financial gains of Title IVc funds... The whole system is begging for a class action lawsuit. Need to find a lawyer with the balls to take on Fresno County and the rest of Calif Bar Assoc.
The cops knew my ex and her adult criminal childern were all liars. They'd try to get them to leave town many times, before I moved into her home. Call after call to 911 before I ever got there. This abuse of law has to stop. And the fraudulent revenues.
could not agree more! I was involved with a sociopath. She lived in my apartment, I ended the relationship after she slapped me, and I told her she had to leave, and it was over. She tossed a restraining order on me, and put me in court. She ended up getting evicted, but the restraining order is for 9 months. Luckly I didnt go to jail because the cops kind of saw threw her, but I was very lucky. I had a really good lawyer who advised me not to fight even tho she is guilty. Glad I didnt. Take the high road and she will get tired of swinging. $5,000 later paid for my freedom and sanity. Now I know the signs and am much more confident.
This law has ruined my life. If a woman can lie and cry on cue you don't have a change in hell at defending yourself against this law. You will loose your home, your children, your job and your right to own any fire arms for the rest of your life.
My wife hit me a pushed her away and got away from her she call Grand Rapids mich police I heard her tell them that she hit me first and they still arrested me and would you believe this the police report says I hit her first wow do you smell a lawsuit here I now am on per trial probation put out of my own home and sleeping on parents couch. This has to stop and its the system and crooked cops that are to blame ! Does anyone got a good lawyer that's not afraid to sue this city
I also agree with Nicole I know several men who have been victimized by false reports like this. One of them was accused of rape. For four years he was victimized by the justice system believing her side with no credible proof. After four years when his case was FINALLY brought to court due to sooo many delays, she stood on the stand and told the truth that she had lied. No charges were filled against her and he was released but never lost the title of sex offender. It follows him to this day. He still gets harassed by the police as a sex offender because it has not ever been wiped clear of his record. Amazing how easy it is to tack that onto someone's name. But almost 22yrs later he still cannot shake the title they labeled him with and he's in a whole new state. There should be real punishment for lying. Worst thing in all this what his family went through. They were chased out of every town they lived in. His father had to go through shock therapy till he didn't know his own name or the year it was. I didn't even know they did that till I saw it. Hypocracynis common place in washington but this is still a country for the people and by the people. Hear our voicea and know our stories.
I also agree with Nicole I know several men who have been victimized by false reports like this. One of them was accused of rape. For four years he was victimized by the justice system believing her side with no credible proof. After four years when his case was FINALLY brought to court due to sooo many delays, she stood on the stand and told the truth that she had lied. No charges were filled against her and he was released but never lost the title of sex offender. It follows him to this day. He still gets harassed by the police as a sex offender because it has not ever been wiped clear of his record. Amazing how easy it is to tack that onto someone's name. But almost 22yrs later he still cannot shake the title they labeled him with and he's in a whole new state. There should be real punishment for lying. Worst thing in all this what his family went through. They were chased out of every town they lived in. His father had to go through shock therapy till he didn't know his own name or the year it was. I didn't even know they did that till I saw it. Hypocracynis common place in washington but this is still a country for the people and by the people. Hear our voicea and know our stories.
Things have changed and there are many men being abused by woman and then making false reports. These men are hard workers, take care of their kids, bills, house etc and now the woman are making false reports and ruining the guys lives. It time for the law to change. I have seen this happen to a few of my guy friends were the woman are mentally and physically abusing them and it breaks my heart to see this happen to the guys and these woman put pulse claims in and just laugh because some have been able to get what they want from the court. The law needs to change NOW!!!! Filling a false PFA claim against someone should be made a felony in ALL states. Everyone needs to sign this and pass it around.
My wife filed a false report with police and then filed for a protective order. I was arrested, held without bond for three months until my trail. I was found not guilty on all counts. However; being incarcerated for three months I lost everything...my job, my home. After being released I have nothing. I am homeless with no job. The time I spent in jail accounts for nothing. No apology from anyone and I have to start from nothing as a 40 year old. I have wanted to file charges against my wife for making false statements to police, but the prosecutors/commisioners do not want to persue the case. My wife was not an abused woman, she was a woman I loved until she lied and used the system to destroy me.
filing a false pfa claim should be made a felony in all states.
Men are not the only people that are arrested on false charges. Anytime someone uses the police to enforce power and control over their victim ANYONE is at risk!
I am a victim of this myself. After getting out of the hospital from a bad car accident while riding with a friend. I had a fractured sternum and leg. And my sister who has her whole life always had violent outbursts decided to throw heavy objects at me. It started because I would not lend her my car. I was in bad shape so I called the police thinking I would be helped. But instead I was thrown to the ground and taken to jail. I was there injured even worse without my meds and had to sleep on a hard floor next to dangerous felons.
Wife told police she hit me first they took me anyway. The police, prosecutors and courts should be liable for such acts of malicious prosecution ! She there asses!
Everyone suffers under this harmful ruse to "hurt, get even and drain financially" fathers. Not to mention it Harms those men and women who are true victims of abuse. Shame on the corrupt cops who use this for their own gain because they are tired or stressed or angry. Apache Junction AZ to be exact. What good does it do to the accused to have a verbal confession of lying when the prosecutor in AJ had her own agenda. So much for wasting tax payer $

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