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My girlfriend is an abusive alcoholic. When she is drunk, she will hit me, then call the cops and falsely accuse me of beating her.
I think fasle domestic violence claims are unconstitutional and there needs to be a clause that puts penalties on anyone who makes a false claim. I am a victim of a false order of protection claim which has hindered my right to visitation with my son. Due to this I haven't seen him for almost 4 years.
Alas, this happened to me, too. I am soldier on active duty, with immaculate record: no misconduct whatsoever, both on the military and the civilian side.

My wife made a false police report out of malice, and my life has been turned upside down in a blink of an eye. She did it knowing well enough how ruthless the military is about domestic violence... But now she plays innocent, while still harassing me with endless texts and emails.

I have been homeless for months because of this, but she still gets to live in my house and drive my car. I've had to fight an uphill battle and lost all of my savings. And there is no end in sight to all of this. Better yet, she plans to drag out the divorce to make everything even harder on me.

Life is just great because someone lied about me and I have no recourse against her. She wanted to ruin my life, and as far as I can tell, she won. Congrats.
It's time to put an end to this madness. We must stop this evil before another child gets hurt.
My ex-wife went to NC and made a false accusation against me. I went to the magistrate to get served and was told that I would be spending the night in jail. I spent the whole night and next day in jail awaiting for my bail to be set. I was not guilty of anything she had said and was trying to get child custody and me fired from my job. In court the district attorney realizes that she had written two different things down on separate papers. The D.A. Dismissed the charges. I shouldn't have been jailed! I am sure this happens very often and it is a huge deal that could ruin someone's life, as it almost did mine! Our legislation needs to look and fix this problem!
My ex-wife went to NC and made a false accusation against me. I went to the magistrate to get served and was told that I would be spending the night in jail. I spent the whole night and next day in jail awaiting for my bail to be set. I was not guilty of anything she had said and was trying to get child custody and me fired from my job. In court the district attorney realizes that she had written two different things down on separate papers. The D.A. Dismissed the charges. I shouldn't have been jailed! I am sure this happens very often and it is a huge deal that could ruin someone's life, as it almost did mine! Our legislation needs to look and fix this problem!
This is extremely important as the idea that a woman is above reproach is rediculous, as the old saying "hell hasth no fury like a woman scorned".
I am from a small town and I personally know of many false accusations and threats of accusations that girlfriends and wives have made against their partners.
I think the fact that a person can absolutely ruin another persons life without proof and even worse the lazy lawyers who also abuse the system to lead the real victim to the slaughter. I think those people should have to walk in the shoes of the falsely accused for the durration of their lives.
System needs help when innocent men are put out of there home on false accusations .
Going throught this horrible situation now all because my wife wanted to go to vegas and she ran off with my children to arizona and i have no way to contact them and cant do anything about it
This is scary and just plain crazy. How many innocent men's lives must be ruined before a change is made?
I'm a male who is the victim in abuse, charged with the crime. Arrested falsely.
I'm a male who is the victim in abuse, charged with the crime. Arrested falsely.
Allowing this to happen undermines every shred of confidence in the judicial system of this country. Unlike political problems this is a people problem. Unlike racism, this is all inclusive. It wont simmer too long.
America is a dirty country pressuring the pure and innocent to lead guilty to unreal crazy woman domestic violence charges
In the Blink of an eye.....Everything I invested and LOVED was taken from me...
My ex girlfriend broke a glass coffee table in my house and called police on me and said I put her hand thru table.I have no marks on my hands or anywhere and police still arrested me.She has 4 cm cut on her hand so cops thought I put hand thru. I broke up with her earlier that day and that was her revenge. Now i have court case and a protection order to deal with. I thought u need proof of a crime to be arrested but was I wrong. They need to change laws.
I had a verbal argument with my girlfriend earlier this year in which she called the police and said I was beating her.I never touched her.The police found no signs of abuse and left.She went to magistrates office and filed a restraining order against me.The next day I was evicted from the apartment.I had to live in my car for 8 days.Now I have a restraining order in place for a year for doing nothing.She jokes about it now saying she will call the police again if I dont do what she says.Please stop this madness.Women like this need to be put in jail.
My partner has not seen his children in 16 years after their mother made false allegations of domestic violence and then abducted them. She even perjured herself in court that she saw him molesting the children. These kind of false accusers need to be held accountable for the harm they cause not only the falsely accused parent, but the affected children too who have been brainwashed to believe things happened to them that never occurred.
Judges often tolerate false accusations instead of dealing with the crime of perjury. False testimony is perjury.
Too easily given to all the lying and malicious people out there.
This is the saddest experience to go through for any loving father. JS
The use of fraudulent restraining orders to force a child away from a loving parent almost always the Father), steal the Father's property, disgrace the Father, deem the Father an unfit and angry man in the anti-family, unconstitutional, kangaroo court proceedings, is obscene at the least, and inhuman at the most. Evidentiary based laws and rules (the rules of evidence) must always apply when dealing with these matters. In these cases, "If it don't fit (and you can't prove it based on facts and evidence), you must surely acquit!" Out of the 3 million restraining orders filed annually, more than one million are fraudulent. Most of those fraudulent restraining orders are filed in child custody cases. A "fraudulent" restraining order is called the first assault weapon, or the nuclear assault weapon in family court cases, as the liar-for-hire attorney for the woman, files it knowing that it will do maximum damage and haunt the innocent Father for a long time to come. I am not talking about men that beat women, etc., etc. And even then, some of those claims are suspect because the laws are clearly tilted to benefit the women via extreme gender bias in the courts. Hmm! See pattern and practice there? Well you should. Judges and attorneys are trained by WEAVE and other men and Father hating groups in how to get restraining orders, et. al. In California, they used to do it at the courthouse until a lawsuit was filed and now they just do it at places like WEAVE. Shame on them. Fraudulent restraining orders are part of a practice to separate children from their loving Fathers. It is a form of parental alienation and isolation. It is child abuse and soul murder. Anyone perpetrating such behaviors and actions should be charged with a crime, including perjury, fraud, filing a false report (police, court and otherwise), attorneys should be prosecuted, along with miscreant judges, court minions, d.a.'s and other scum. Stop the war on Fathers and children NOW!!!
me and my now ex-girlfriend was on the verge of breaking up i was leaving forcompany paid truck driving school she said you are going to leave me my nephew was staying with us and she got mad and starting arguing at me and then she call the police and told them i threaten to kill her i never had a domestic violence case ever im 48 years old and i went to jail i need help this case is still open i have a public defender and they want to to plead-put on something i did do or stay
Since my ex-wife had falsely accused me, i was guilty until proven innocent. It has been 6 months since I have seen or talked to my children. They do not even call me Daddy anymore. She has had 5 different men in my home around my children. This has to stop.
I am a mother of 2 young children. I had them ripped away from me, by my narcosis ex after I left an abusive marriage. I am willing to go to the media or do whatever it takes to stop this madness for all! There's strength in numbers! Please contact me to make a difference together!
This is a huge problem, families are being torn apart by false allegations!! Please take this seriously...this has to change!!
Something things to change!
The charges against me were dropped, but I did not see my kids for 4 months in the meantime. It is despicable that a person can lie about another and have the entire legal system descend on them.
There needs to be grand parents rights to.I'm A tulalip tribal member from tulalip Washington my husband and I got screwed over from A tribal member who's grandpa was on the board of directors of are tribe and used there authority in our courts . Are granddaughter is 9 years old now haven't seen her since she was 5yrs old and before that a few times since she was 1yrs old . It hurts real bad we don't get to be in her life.
There needs to be grand parents rights to.I'm A tulalip tribal member from tulalip Washington my husband and I got screwed over from A tribal member who's grandpa was on the board of directors of are tribe and used there authority in our courts . Are granddaughter is 9 years old now haven't seen her since she was 5yrs old and before that a few times since she was 1yrs old . It hurts real bad we don't get to be in her life.
There needs to be grand parents rights to.I'm A tulalip tribal member from tulalip Washington my husband and I got screwed over from A tribal member who's grandpa was on the board of directors of are tribe and used there authority in our courts . Are granddaughter is 9 years old now haven't seen her since she was 5yrs old and before that a few times since she was 1yrs old . It hurts real bad we don't get to be in her life.
My husband and his kids lied to the police and I was arrested. Everything done for the last 8 months (and I'm still waiting for trial) has been from the point I am guilty before innoncent. If anybody can help me change dv laws and help get civil action against the police department I would appreciate it!!
This needs to stop now. Men are constantly being viewed as guilty until proven innocent and even then there reputation has been scarred.
These false abuse allegations are ruining those people's lives that are decent individuals. All it takes is for a woman to say they were abused (no proof or no signs of abuse) and the man is arrested and charged with DV. This is against our Constitutional Rights and I will always fight it as such!
this too has happened to me and i am a woman
Washington State has a HUGE bias against men, and it is affecting the children who are being torn from their fathers!
Stop these women
sad, this is happening this just happened to me, custody hearing the kids mother filed against me hoping I would land in jail so that she could regain custody of her children.
This happens to women too. My abusive ex turned it around to make himself look like a victim and had me arrested for stalking, harassment, and domestic violence. The charges are false and I am going to have to pay a ton of money to a lawyer to defend myself. The system has offered me no protection and no way to defend myself so far. I am terrified.
I know of a guy that life might be ruined becasue of an irresponsible scorned lover and something has to be done to stop women that falsely accuse males of abuse. More rights for men in this department.
My Name is Tatiana, I was married to my husband for 8 years and we were both bless with three children living together as family until 2011 when things was no longer the way the was [when he lost his job]. But when he later gets a new job 5 months after, he started behaving strange and don't even come home sometimes pretending that his new job is so tight. Only for me to find out that he was having an affair with the lady that gave him the job. Since that day, when i called him, he don't longer pickup my calls. Yet my husbands just still keep on seeing the lady. Until I met a very good friend of my who was also having a similar problem, who introduced me to this priest. But i told her that if it has to do with things that i am not interested, but she said that it has no negative effect. She gave me the spell caster's e-mail address and phone number. When i contacted him, he told me the requirement after the spell has worked so i decided to work with him. I was very shocked when my husband came home on the third day and started begging for all that he has done wrong to me and our children. This testimony is just the price i have to pay for the good work that this great priest has done in my marriage. This man is good and he is the author of my happiness. His e-mail address templeofpermanenthealing@hotmail.com
5/10/2011 11pm Tuesday
Corky Bells restaurant owner generously provided security video of enraged, disorderly Pamela K. Geldart punching Barton Christner three times on the left of his head, while he sat calmly on a bench. Pam Geldart proceeded then to smash Mr. Christner's MacBook Pro and Cameras worth thousands. Putnam County Deputy Roberts overheard Pam Geldart screaming "Who are they gonna believe, he hit me!" but video forced her confession. Deputy Roberts charged Pamela K. Geldart for  Criminal Mischief (case# 11-3499).

5/11/2011 10am Wednesday
Pamela K. Geldart purchased at Best Buy, a $2300 replacement MacBook for Mr. Christner, to subsequently have dropped her Putnam Criminal charge against her.

5/12/2011 11pm Thursday
Ms. Pamela K. Geldart drunken, retaliated, malicious and vindictive, 8 minutes ranted to 911 dispatch (from actual transcript) "two days ago he filed charges against me, when really he hit me, broke windows, knifed my car, pushed me, threw me on ground, threw me off a four inch step." Dispatch asked her are you injured? Ms. Geldart says, "No." Why he'd do this were you fighting? Ms. Pam Geldart responds, "No." Dispatch asks, what were you arguing about? Ms. Pam Geldart hesitates, answers literally, "Quite frankly I can't recollect," and continues, "I want an officer here to see I'm a 94 pound hamster and he's a 220 pound Daddy, I couldn't possibly hit him, he hits me!" Volusia County officers arrived, cited "zero tolerance" without evidence, injury, interest in Putnam, video surveillance, but just because she called, "we have to incarcerate one of you for 24 hours." Mr. Christner was promptly arrested by Pam Geldart's vindictive, malicious, retaliatory false Domestic Battery charge (case# 110-821-MMAES).

State's Attorney Diaz later reviewed Ms. Pam Geldart's antics on video, all 911 transcripts, Pamela K. Geldart's Criminal Charges, experienced her inconsistent, persistent outright lies, even reprimanded her for perjury, and DISMISSED everything she alleged as "NO INFO" (legalese for "she lied"). 

Mr. Christner had been 24 hours jailed, spent thousands in legal defense, six weeks by law required to pee on-site in a cup weekly, restrained from leaving the county, and dozens of different mugshot industry websites have since screen-scraped his booking photo from county records, extorting over $400 avg. each instance for s "mugshot unpublish" service or Google unethicaly results to family, friends, prospective employers the derogatory, misleading inmate records when a name his searched on Google!

"James Geldart" (Palm Coast case# 2009-1838),  "John Korchinsky" (Delray Beach) and "Armando Mustiga" (palm Coast) Pamela K. Geldart's ex husband and her ex-boyfriends were also arrested for Domestic Battery charges not long after they filed separate restraining orders against Ms. Pam Geldart in both jurisdictions respectively.

May 2013 Ms. Pamela K. Geldart finally writes, "B- Long overdue, I know. Things got out
I have witnessed this TOO MANY Times Because I AM A MAN!! WHO HAS A VOICE!!!
I am being accused because my bipolar wife had a manic episode and believes me trying to stop her from scratching at herself was assault the police took pics of self inflicted injuries and I lost my step-kids, my wife, my home, and my job. She has a history of self inflicting under stress even her mother said so.
Atleast make the accuser show some signs of sbuse. IE: Bruises, Cuts, Scrapes, Red Marks, something...........
Truth matter not less but more in the cases of all our vulnerable children growing up in harms way. In two weeks time---What does one say to vulnerable children say "sometimes my mom lies to get her way" After their daddy is falsely accused and arrested (if you succeed try try again and again). Many PD calls followed. I myself has had my meranda rights read as well as my other DILaw over lies....Many False Cries are on record. We as Grandparents have no rights in
WA state... Even when the Unjust courts are aware of the many other abuses.

What does one say to a teen? while threats of suicide says "the judge ruinded 100 lives-well not that many but a lot"

MORE--The kids have lost BIG TIME!!!
It is sickening to think an individual collecting a paycheck from the county office of education and supposedly has an teaching degree would purposely subject our own children to this type of abuse. the local bar association is all to eager to facilitate P/A for the financial gains of Title IVc funds... The whole system is begging for a class action lawsuit. Need to find a lawyer with the balls to take on Fresno County and the rest of Calif Bar Assoc.

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