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This is a systemic issue. It desperately needs exposure on a larger level.
I am a victim of this domestic terrorism.
just as not every father is not a good dad, the same is true for NOT every woman who gives birth is a good MOM! Let's start looking at the truth, and not just at genders.
A woman can lie under oath and get away with anything! I would have NEVER believed it until I saw it happen! NO ONE should have to go through what my husband has. Nine years and counting, only 7 more to go. Those who lie and play victim to get what they want MUST be stopped. The Courts must also be held accountable for their actions, a law is a law no matter who breaks it! Oh ya, this is just the tip of the iceberg. The level of emotional abuse I've seen should be a criminal offense, Class A crime. The children who experience this level of abuse will most likely drop out of school, get into trouble and some will even commit suicide. I beg you to please help stop all of this abuse.
A woman can lie under oath and get away with anything! I would have NEVER believed it until I saw it happen! NO ONE should have to go through what my husband has. Nine years and counting. If she doesn't like the way the wind blows she makes up lies and gets a PA against us. Those who lie and play victim to get what they want MUST be stopped. The Courts must also be held accountable for their actions, a law is a law no matter who breaks it! Oh ya, this is just the tip of the iceberg. The level of emotional abuse I've seen should be a criminal offense.
Every time this happen to someone who has no history of violence, the Plaintiff should be evaluated and given a psychological test or lie detection test.
Announcement to all child abduction by parents is epidemic level in the United States. For all of you told terrible lies there is an injunction out for my children to be returned to my custody. Nely Almonte along with a North Conway Police Officer William Strong and Michelle Strong has falsified countless federal forms and affidavits filled with lies in the state of NH. Anyone can go to the Bexar County Texas Courthouse website and look up the families names and see the case pending there. It is pending because Nely Almonte lied to his Texas Attorney and had him call into the intial hearing saying he had just been rushed to the hospital. To date the courthouse and my attorney as well as Mr. Almonte's has tried numerous times to re-schedule that hearing and the NH court and Mr. Almonte refuse. He filed a bogus affidavit in a NH Court stating that the Texas Case was dismissed. This is not true. There is a restraining order out against Mr. Almonte is not allowed near myself, Miranda Almonte, Andrew Almonte or Alicia Almonte. Countless affidavits, medical records, court records etc... sit with the court and attorney's while the Conway New Hampshire Court refuses to review evidence and only the falsified affidavits by criminals. He is also running from questioning from police prior to his kidnapping of drug induced rape, filing falsified information to the Texas Workforce to defraud them out of nearly ten thousand dollars by lying that he was an American Citizen while no valid green card or social security card, IRS fraud to get a large income tax return to pay off back child support from the first time he abandoned his children so he could get his green card and social security card again, he claims in 2011 he never lived in Connecticut but yet abandoned his children in Florida (Breard County Sherriff's department investigated and confirmed) while in Coneecticut he worked under the table at New Colony 5 Diner to avoid paying child support and tried to claim he was not sure of the patenity of the children. He personally went into the Connecticut Motor Vehicle Office now that the IRS paid his unpaid child support he was able to reinstate his license which was suspended again after numerous speeding tickets and DUI as well as it is the law they won't reinstate with unpaid child support he did this as a resident of Connecticut, he filed false information with the department of Immigration Connecticut with the help of his cousin Albert Collado claimed he was supporting his children and forgot to mention the domestic violence investigation he ran from as well as his other felonies and multiple issues with the IRS they gave him a new green card and allowed him to get a new social security card. He also registered with the department of Homeland Security with his Connecticut address as he was living with his sister Jackie Acosta. As many of you remember while we were broken up and he lived in Connecticut suddenly he wanted to come running home when he saw on
There are some sick people in this world, who use this domestic violence as a weapon to get what they want
I was falsely accused by my husband who have been charged with a felony 13 to 14 times, including fraud, swindling, arm- robbery and kidnapping. I have no criminal record or family violence history but he does. After he learned about me ending the marriage he filed a Publication Divorce to steal the estate. When that did not work, he moved it to a criminal matter to keep me from my personal and marital assets. I am be railroaded in the courtroom because you cannot get a fair trial with a Public Defender. The Judge ordered my husband an Attorney to advise him that there is a good chance he could incriminate himself as a witness but he did not care, he wants to testify. I am on a no contact order even though I am no threat to anyone. My husband has since moved to Alabama to attend ASU and is now leasing our home for $850.00. It is a shame that someone else has a right to my personal property and marital assets but I don't and the Judge knows it, the Solicitor knows it. My husband is using social security number to run up debt in my name and there is nothing I can do to stop it. I have been left homeless, with no clothes, and shoes, and no transportation. My 12 year old grand-daughter who lived with us for 10 years is facing the same pain, without clothes, shoes, ect. It is wrong!
I was falsely accused by my husband who have been charged with a felony 13 to 14 times, including fraud, swindling, arm- robbery and kidnapping. I have no criminal record or family violence history but he does. After he learned about me ending the marriage he filed a Publication Divorce to steal the estate. When that did not work, he moved it to a criminal matter to keep me from my personal and marital assets. I am be railroaded in the courtroom because you cannot get a fair trial with a Public Defender. The Judge ordered my husband an Attorney to advise him that there is a good chance he could incriminate himself as a witness but he did not care, he wants to testify. I am on a no contact order even though I am no threat to anyone. My husband has since moved to Alabama to attend ASU and is now leasing our home for $850.00. It is a shame that someone else has a right to my personal property and marital assets but I don't and the Judge knows it, the Solicitor knows it. My husband is using social security number to run up debt in my name and there is nothing I can do to stop it. I have been left homeless, with no clothes, and shoes, and no transportation. My 12 year old grand-daughter who lived with us for 10 years is facing the same pain, without clothes, shoes, ect. It is wrong!
This needs to be changed. My finance is dealing with this right now with his psychotic ex. She got a restraining order and his son taken away, when in reality she was the one trying to smash my car windows and reaching in trying to unlock the car. SO STRESSFUL AND RIDICULOUS!!! She lied to the officers and said he broke her arm!! He never touched her!!!! SOMEONE please fix this law!!! MEN NEED PROTECTION TOO!!!!!!!!
Done to me by my severely disturbed abuser who has brainwashed my son and daughter-in-law to collude in his evil games of torturing me. The court ignored all evidence I had and they had none, just a good performance.
the standard of proof needs to be changed, so that a mere allegation is not enough. otherwise this evil will continue
I had been there once. We need this. Stop the abuse and injusted.
A woman can be mentally ill, on medication, known by friends and family to have been violent and abusive to the accused and others in the past, and still, the law will support and protect her. She can even admit that she has lied, exaggerated circumstances, and even made up stuff to get the accused in trouble or to teach him a lesson. None of this makes any difference to the law or the courts. It is a travesty of justice and needs to be corrected. Innocent men are being jailed and put through hell just because the courts see the woman as the victim even when she is the aggressor! The law has to be changed to protect males as well as females. Too many good men are being falsely accused and sent off to jail because of this Family Violence Act which protects only woman even when they are dead wrong and the man is right. This is soooo wrong!
It is so sad to see this happening to innocent men & women. I'm praying for my brother in his current situation. Lured by false love and then to only have fallen victim to false accusations. I feel that there is much injustice in our judicial system it is a shame. I pray for those who are actually going through domestic violence. And, my heart goes out to those who are being falsely accused. I hope this petition is taken seriously and the proper steps are made. So that the law can actually protect those who are truly in this situation.
My brother is going through the same thing!!! And we have so much evidence of her sending mean things all the time to him. He may need help...any advice can be great. We got him an attorney and I am studying law as well and trying to help as much as I can by doing research like this. Something like this has never happened to our family, so we are unsure. Wish us luck and I hope this petition works!
I am currently witnessing a family member be destroyed both, financially and emotionally over a false and fraudulent filing of
“order of protection”, restraining order. Something has to be done to stop this “Abuse of Process” which many spouses are using to secure “absolute leverage” in
a divorce.
This is an extremely important issue that at least needs to be explored. Many use false allegations as a weapon and they end up harming those they are meant to protect. If nothing else, there should be some clear criteria for addressing false claims.
What ever happened to "innocent until proven guilty"? Charges should NOT be allowed to be filed, without evidence of a crime. I understand that this law was put into place for "real" victims, but people, men and women, are ABUSING the system and innocent people's lives are being ruined. Current jobs are being lost and people are forced to "settle" for a "disorderly conduct" in order to not ruin their chances of future employment. WHERE IS THE JUSTICE FOR THE INNOCENT, THAT HAVE BEEN FALSELY ACCUSED?
I was falsely accused of domestic violence and child abuse by my XGF, currently trying to prove my innocence in court, and hopefully can get custody of my daughter. I never thought something like this would happen to me, and I feel for all of the other men and women who this has happened to.
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My ex wife was impossible to have conflict with; she would use the most immature and confusing tactics. If she was not getting her way she would simply move the target to another grievance. Once during a conflict I believed she was being manipulative, but called the behavior "tyrannical". She said it was name calling. Another time she said she had "never been more betrayed in her life" over a minor (really!) incident and when I tried to put it into perspective she said I was minimizing her feelings. She had been seeing a counselor and reading books on verbal abuse, so she summed up my behavior in conflict as verbally abusive. She now goes around telling her friends she is a survivor of domestic abuse. I am just so thankful she never pressed charges nor got a restraining order for it. I knew it had been totally blown out of proportion but a judge would have hit me with the book based on the way she framed things.
My ex wife was impossible to have conflict with; she would use the most immature and confusing tactics. If she was not getting her way she would simply move the target to another grievance. Once during a conflict I believed she was being manipulative, but called the behavior "tyrannical". She said it was name calling. Another time she said she had "never been more betrayed in her life" over a minor (really!) incident and when I tried to put it into perspective she said I was minimizing her feelings. She had been seeing a counselor and reading books on verbal abuse, so she summed up my behavior in conflict as verbally abusive. She now goes around telling her friends she is a survivor of domestic abuse. I am just so thankful she never pressed charges nor got a restraining order for it. I knew it had been totally blown out of proportion but a judge would have hit me with the book based on the way she framed things.
My ex wife was impossible to have conflict with; she would use the most immature and confusing tactics. If she was not getting her way she would simply move the target to another grievance. Once during a conflict I believed she was being manipulative, but called the behavior "tyrannical". She said it was name calling. Another time she said she had "never been more betrayed in her life" over a minor (really!) incident and when I tried to put it into perspective she said I was minimizing her feelings. She had been seeing a counselor and reading books on verbal abuse, so she summed up my behavior in conflict as verbally abusive. She now goes around telling her friends she is a survivor of domestic abuse. I am just so thankful she never pressed charges nor got a restraining order for it. I knew it had been totally blown out of proportion but a judge would have hit me with the book based on the way she framed things.
My ex wife was impossible to have conflict with; she would use the most immature and confusing tactics. If she was not getting her way she would simply move the target to another grievance. Once during a conflict I believed she was being manipulative, but called the behavior "tyrannical". She said it was name calling. Another time she said she had "never been more betrayed in her life" over a minor (really!) incident and when I tried to put it into perspective she said I was minimizing her feelings. She had been seeing a counselor and reading books on verbal abuse, so she summed up my behavior in conflict as verbally abusive. She now goes around telling her friends she is a survivor of domestic abuse. I am just so thankful she never pressed charges nor got a restraining order for it. I knew it had been totally blown out of proportion but a judge would have hit me with the book based on the way she framed things.
Why is it that just because you wear a military uniform and assault your wife physically and emotionally and your son by your first wife disowns his dad because he can't stand him, everyone feels sorry for you and knowing you committed those crimes against your wife, the military does not and will not stand up for family. Not everyone on here is lying about abuse from their military spouses. The judicial system turns a blind eye against the military members spouses. I guess it is true in the military you F up you Move up. And the more of a bad soldier you are the more they bend over to destroy the family members being abused and help the person that is committing the crime.
Our judicial system often turns a blind eye and is immediately biased in considering that the accused might actually be the true victim of those who abuse the system to simply gain an advantage. Those who misuse the system make an embarrassment and mockery of the court showing no regard for true victims of abuse. Many innocent lives are wrecked by these vindictive and wicked actions. It's an injustice many refuse to see, sadly.
Guilty before proven innocent!!!!
Washington state is a WOMANS state and im a WOMAN!
I am a "victim"of domestic violence. My husband and I got into a heated argument that was going nowhere, so I decided it was in our best interest if I left... and of course he had to say something idiotic before I walked out the door, I was so upset and hurt that I threw my keys at him.. at that moment he lunged at me and put me in a head lock, and in the process of putting me in a headlock he accidentally bumped my nose and made it bleed (I get seasonal nosebleeds).. I was upset about him putting his hands on me, so I called the police hoping they would just make him leave so we could get our wits about us.and defuse the situation..(especially since we have two young children) little did I know that that call for help would be one of my biggest mistakes! He was immediately taken to jail. He had to stay the night there. The next day they tell us that a manditory "no contact"order has been put on the kids and I. Two weeks later is the first court date in which my husbands attorney failed to work in his best interest and advised him to admit to only restraining me with a bear hug.. so the judge advises my husband to take the matter to trial. My husband wanted to plead guilty because according to the law "domestic violence" is any kind of verbal or physical confrontation. There is no gray area.. I was treated and spoken to like a child. Like all of these people knew me and my husband better then we knew each other. They called the man I love, and the loving father of my children, a abuser. They involved CPS. And as if the two weeks weren't enough.. we had to wait another two weeks for the next trail.. no contact with my husband for a month. The damage that that caused my children is tragic. I became depressed and emotional. But they didn't care about me or my kids. After fighting super hard to get the no contact order dropped, we thought the worst was over... we could finally work on the actual problems that can fix our marriage and make us better parents.. but at sentencing yesterday, they decided that he need a year probation, community service, court appointed therapy, $1,070 fines, and last but certainly not least...10 days in jail... did I mention that this is his first offence?
Domestic violence is way to overblown. Spank your child and get charged??!!
The months are winding down as my protective order will soon be done for. However, I am greatly disappointed in the system. As the months have passed, and with the day soon approaching, I remember the feeling of being judged and never given the opportunity to be heard and understood. In the comfort of my own home, the accuser pushed her way in, not only embarrassing me, but frightening me to the point I lost vision and couldn't find my phone. Then to call the police on me when the only thing I did was scream for her to get out of my home. Apparent, per the cops, whoever calls first wins. How is that even possible when I am in my own home? Someone breaks into my home and causes a scene? I do not understand the law. And I am saddened this happened to me. Instead of going in front of a jury for assault, I plead to disorderly conduct and was allowed to keep my new found job. (Lost the old one I had been with for 8 years because I was a nervous reck after getting arrested). I say, change the law! I don't know how you can so it, but it needs to be taken a second look at. I would never in a million years guess that in the comfort of your own home, an intruder would get the winning end of a stick for calling the police first and falsely accusing someone of hitting them. I never touched anyone, I wouldn't hurt an animal, so why would I hurt another human being? It doesn't matter. What matters is: who calls the police first wins. Good job police, judges, and whoever else that let me down. I really believed in the law ): now I'm sad they didn't get the real bad guy( in this case girl) because who knows who her next victim will be!!!
I made the mistake of assuming my exwife would want an amicable divorce. As soon as she found out she would not be getting as much money as she thought, she fabricated allegations and got a restraining order on me. Then convinced got an appointed lawyer for battered women. Didn't matter that I never touched her and had been seeing family counseling with her for over a year with no record of abuse. She was a woman and I was a man. Never was I assumed innocent and there was no evidence to prove me guilty.
This is so wrong. I never thought about this problem untill it happened to me. Even know we did have an argument but I never assaulted anyone, yet I get arrested and held without bail and now dealing with emotional, financial problems as well as legal and I can't really do much about it. I feel for these men who been accused of dv and they sre not guilty. Its horrible and something must be done to fix this problem
This is so wrong. I never thought about this problem untill it happened to me. Even know we did have an argument but I never assaulted anyone, yet I get arrested and held without bail and now dealing with emotional, financial problems as well as legal and I can't really do much about it. I feel for these men who been accused of dv and they sre not guilty. Its horrible and something must be done to fix this problem
Dear Ken ,

It’s been more than a year since the letter of 2/12/12 and the apparent subsequent closing shortly thereafter of Glass Family Law. I understand he is now not promoting himself as uniquely blended in Psychology and Law but is at another firm doing probate work. Interestingly enough his resume at FMBK Law has claims of credentials I understand you believe are false based upon you direct written response from organizations Mr. Glass claims to be a member or associated with. Who does that reflect upon him or the diligence and propriety of the firm which now employs him?

It occurred to me that the complete contrast in our cases is almost deafening in the way it shouts hypocrisy, maleficent practices, and flat out perjuries within statements written under penalty of perjury and oral statements within hearings and written statements within submitted briefs screams of the manipulation of parents. This IMHO by attorney’s, the bench and minor’s councils within the family court system in CA at least. Given I was asked to waive my Fifth Amendment Rights in family court? And did so .The issuance of restraining orders on both of us within 3 weeks of my letter of the 12 of February under quote Justice Convey in your instance (“by the slimmest of margins”)one has to wonder at the coincidence…Right? Of course I was judged as having stalked by proxy because I hired a PI to prove my daughter was being housed with a felon (cultivating under a Federal Indictment),,, and the mother knew it.Indeed in your instance you were falsely accused of molestation by the mother of your son seven ( 7) times and then of stalking (8th)when the child was too old to falsely accuse the father of abuse .I note your minors council never interviewed your child even though Sammy was ten (10) . In your case no abuse took place yet you were put on monitored visitation and visitation reduced to police station pick-ups permanently. It would seem logical Ken that at some time you become a safe parent. When is that after your four (4th) parenting class? Or after the third 3rd interview with the District Attorney’s Office. How about after the 8th sheriff or 13th DCFS investigations. What grade gives you a pass? Or is it like our friend who ponied up a Million dollars.


In my case I alleged that the mother was negligent or deliberately sub parenting in a manner as was provocative .Lj was taken to UCLA med center at three & half (3 ˝) .and on morphine and intravenous feeding for 6 weeks after the neighbors call the police because they could hear her screaming. I had previously stated the mother did not have the skills or empathy and may have been suffering some mental distress.Then two (2) years later numerous blood noses (daddy don’t put sunscreen on …its very sore) and Minors counsel accused me of overreacting etc. Yet my daughter now is showing a scar across her nose as her face has grown. Also when the symptoms that caused the first hospitalization reoccurred I took Lj to t
my brother is claiming dv because I caught stealing from me on video and actually caught him in the act, So i kicked his butt. He filed dv on me and is now receiving $3800 for his suffering from a fv group.
So many men have been ripped away from their children and so many families have been destroyed. Courts have essentially made it legal to commit perjury for abuse accusations. If we didn't punish those that attempt to rob banks, you'd see a line of people waiting to do just that since there is only financial reward and no risk for failing. Same with falsely accusing partners of abuse.
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