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It's not just about innocent men but innocent women as well and the family in which it destroyed
It's not just about innocent men but innocent women as well and the family in which it destroyed
Disgusting!! A slap in the face to the real domestic violence victims out there!!!!!
I was reading your tragedy section and it made me cry for I can relate for I two have thought about taking my own life because of the inhumane actions of child support. I have two children from two different women. I pay child support to both women and have recently been incarcerated for child support and the jail was a HELL. The judge told me that If I didn't pay 700 by the end 2/28/2015 I had to got back to jail but I still don't have the money but I did obtain a job. My first day is this Tuesday. I praying that the judge allows me to work this job to pay my child support but I am afraid he is going to lock me up and say its to late for he has already showed signs that he cares for the women more then the men. What he doesn't know is that the two women who have me on child support conspired and committed false allegations of domestic violence against me with minor child together. The women called me on a threeway conversation and said that if I did not leave my girlfriend Angela then I would never see my kids again. I said that I was going for visitation rights and they said we will see about that then I hung up the phone. Two days later I had cops at my door with domestic violence injuction with minor child papers agaist me and then the very next day after that I had injunction papers from the other mother, then the very next day injunction papers for minor child. 3 different officers 3days in a row. Case numbers 2010 DR 001654, 2010 DR 001699, 2010 DR 001700. On the second mothers statement she even said that I filed charges and the mother of his oldest daughter did aswell. At court for the first case I tried to tell the judge of the 3way call and threat from the women and that there was another women pressing charges aswell and I held up the paper work for him to look at and when he reached for it the mother said objection your honor that has nothing to do with me. The judge stopped the balif and asked me if her name was on this paper I said yes because it is but she said no and he said that he was not going to review my evidence. I was shocked. The mother claimed that I pushed her and my daughter into a bathroom and other lies. Her mother was there and told my mother and I that her daughter was mentally ill and has to take anti psychotic meds daily to function normally of be baker acted. She told my mother and I that five days before she gave birth to your daughter she called the cops lied and said that I/her mother had pushed her through a glass table and kicked her in her pregnant stomach and they locked me up but released me after the mother admitted shed lied. She said she lied on me because I wouldn't take her to see you so we argued and she broke the table and called the cops. She went on to tell us that her daughter lost custody of my daughter due to child abuse and neglect and had to take parenting classes to regain custody of my daughter. I am now paying back child support for years in which she didn't even have custody of my child
Within one week of my girlfriend moving into my home she was drinking and started a fight as she has had very violent fights in past relationships and when drinking becomes violent runs out house saying she calling police and neighbors do and I was taken to jail awaiting my conviction as she changes her address and lives in my home cheating and running back to her old abusive relationship why is the man always taken to jail? One month prior she hits me with bat and I get stitches I never retaliated against her but how can this be fair after telling police she lies etc police tell her she can stay at house she never changed her address but lied she lived there. Grew up beating and scrapping and an assault on officer but they take me?
I was falsely accused and found not guilty. Now i may not be able to adopt, 12 years later, even with an expungement. Any "history" regardless of conviction may deem you unfit to adopt.
I am going through a divorce where my spouse is accusing me of mental abuse and domestic violence. While our arguments were sometimes heated, in no way was she ever harmed or threatened. I'm devastated by these accusations, especially since there is no credible evidence to support her claims.
I have no history of violence, love my daughter beyond words and even through this, I still care for my spouses well being.
I urge congress to address this because it is becoming an epidemic in our country, and is insulting to those who are true victims of this deplorable crime.
Janice Nagle is falsely accusing her husband of beating her because he wants a divorce
We must stop false allegations of all kinds including DV
this insanity cannot be allowed to persist
falsed accused of domestic sexual etc etc for 6 years my child was used and abused with the courts and dcf consent
i was also a victim of false domestic violence accusations. Lost my CPA job, lost everything and access to my daughter, but I defended my self rigorously,if not, i would have ended up in jail.
Happened to me and even with all evidence against her, I still cannot see my babies after almost 2 years. They sure don't mind letting me be with my oldest daughter from my first marriage.
I'm divorced with full costody of my 2 sons since 2011. In the begging of the divorce 2007 my x-wife lied in order to get a stay away order and move her criminal boyfriend into my house. I had 14 arrest due to her simply picking up the phone. It took 4 years and ALOT of money for my freedom. There's nothing worse then a upset women. Reform is needed here
When false allagations are used children suffer in family courts. Justice is served when proof or history of said allegation is proven otherwise its hearsay? This should be punishable with fines and or jail time in the best interest of children to be with a parent who does not do this!!
False allegations need to be addressed.
A old friend has filed stalking I had video showing she was liring judge would not watch how do I end thid
My 80 year old father was thrown in jail because my mom went to a neighbors house ( who happened to be a cop )and claimed he pushed her into a table and hurt her toe during an argument .
My son also has been accused by a very intoxicated girlfriend that is also a pathological liar of committing the same terrible act that she had accused her ex-husband of . He was arrested and considered a threat and has had a lot of his personal belongings kept by this psychotic woman. He still is going through a court battle as she continues to lie and take advantage of the situation . She has gone as far as socially expressing that my wife and I are trying to kill her and how she is stalked constantly . The sad thing is that my son who has never been in any kind of trouble other than a speeding ticket , is being deemed guilty until proven innocent . This is at great cost to our family financially but also tarnishing his name and future . While she is allowed to spit venomous lies and steal his belongings we have to sit silent .
I think that the people who lie about domestic violence should be as guilty as the ones that commit it . Shame on them for getting sympathy and taking advantage of the REAL cases of abuse !
My wife is an alcoholic with mental issues. She's on her second DUI, and in a deferral program. She got really drunk at work and passed out. Her boss called the Emts and me thinking something was medically wrong. When I arrived she was very inebriated and freaking out. The Emts called police who then came and took me out of the room. My wife conjured up a story about us fighting the night before and me punching her in the ribs. Likely to try and throw them off her trail for breaking the rules of her deferral program. Apparently she had a bruise there from the night before when she came home stumbling drunk and fell into the banister. The police then questioned me about the incident. I was baffled and shocked as I am not a violent man. I gave my sober side of the story for the previous night, and then they arrested me. Later my wife, sobered up in the middle if the night and realized what she had done. She tried calling everyone she could to for weeks to try and get things dropped. The only response she got was the prosecutor threatening to charge her with false allegations with a three year sentence if she didn't desist. So here we are, still separated by a no contact order keeping me from going home or seeing my wife who according to her family is deeply struggling to keep herself together. I'm 36 and staying with my parents. We are losing money left and right with lawyers and various other now necessary expenses. All either of us wants is for this joke of a case to be dropped and to be able to start repairing our relationship. But the legal system has decided I'm guilty. I have been treated as guilty by everyone in the legal system. Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? My lawyer is hopeful they will drop the case right before the trial because it is so weak. But, that's over two months of this mistake damaging our lives. (Note: all info from my wife's side comes from her family members venting to me, I have not broken my no contact order)
My wife is an alcoholic with mental issues. She's on her second DUI, and in a deferral program. She got really drunk at work and passed out. Her boss called the Emts and me thinking something was medically wrong. When I arrived she was very inebriated and freaking out. The Emts called police who then came and took me out of the room. My wife conjured up a story about us fighting the night before and me punching her in the ribs. Likely to try and throw them off her trail for breaking the rules of her deferral program. Apparently she had a bruise there from the night before when she came home stumbling drunk and fell into the banister. The police then questioned me about the incident. I was baffled and shocked as I am not a violent man. I gave my sober side of the story for the previous night, and then they arrested me. Later my wife, sobered up in the middle if the night and realized what she had done. She tried calling everyone she could to for weeks to try and get things dropped. The only response she got was the prosecutor threatening to charge her with false allegations with a three year sentence if she didn't desist. So here we are, still separated by a no contact order keeping me from going home or seeing my wife who according to her family is deeply struggling to keep herself together. I'm 36 and staying with my parents. We are losing money left and right with lawyers and various other now necessary expenses. All either of us wants is for this joke of a case to be dropped and to be able to start repairing our relationship. But the legal system has decided I'm guilty. I have been treated as guilty by everyone in the legal system. Whatever happened to innocent until proven guilty? My lawyer is hopeful they will drop the case right before the trial because it is so weak. But, that's over two months of this mistake damaging our lives. (Note: all info from my wife's side comes from her family members venting to me, I have not broken my no contact order)
I'm victim of false accusation where my ex fabricated story based on 100% lie to just take revenge from me when we broke up. In result police arrested me without even asking a simple question or letting me speak a single word. I was kept in jail for 5 days without bond
Four police reports and a prior deposition documenting her as the abuser was no match for her false testimony with in court.
I need help please I did make false statements on my boyfriend to cover up my dad doing the abuse now I'm about to go turn myself in because I'm not ok with my boyfriend going to prison fir crimes he didn't do I feel awful but I really didn't no what to do because my parents threatened to have my child taken from me and I'll never see her again and I'll be put out if I didn't do it and I was scared please help me I want them to let my baby to come home if the want to send someone their they can send the real abuser
Happening to my brother. Never a domestic disturbance at their home. She controlled all the money and him. She had 2 more children after she says she shut down 6 yrs. ago. Now 4 kids 2,3,8 and 14. This narcissistic woman had him getting the kids ready ( fed and dressed every morning) so she could exercise before he went to work.mAnd he was mandated to get the kids ready for bed. She had been threatening him with this pfa so he would leave. She had been on match.com looking for men. When he went to see a lawyer about his rights and starting having a separate bank acct. and used money for a retainer to the lawyer she was nice to him and got him to put money back in their acct. He lost his job due to inability to concentrate on job. she went to police cause they were fighting he hugged her to get her to stop *****ing and fighting. She said she knew what he was trying to do. So she said she was going to store and instead went to police with the little kids and said she was afraid of him. He was removed from the home and she has control of everything. Right after he was made to leave she went trick or treating. She didnt miss a beat. After 15 yrs he is left with nothing. Has to completely start over. She has teenage daughter against him, but still wants him to take little ones on weekends so she can have her boyfriends. Already has a guy over with his dog only been 3 months. It's a mess and she is trying to assassinate his character. Keeps yanking his chain at her whim. She even offered to drop pfa for $1000. I mean that's blackmail. She would take money and never drop it cause this is her way to yield control over the whole situation. Hey people wake up this can happen to your kids. It's terrible to live in America and to not be able to have your due process.....He may not even take his little kids anymore cause she now seems to have permanent boyfriend and wants to damage my brother as much as she can. He can be incarcerated at her will. The courts need to wake up. And now in PA the laws have change to make it easier for a pfa order. THIS IS ABUSE OF THESE LAWS. THERE ARE PEOPLE OUT THERE WHO REALLY NEED THESE LAWS BUT YOU CAN'T CAST EVERYONE ONTO ONE BIG LUMP!
I hope that these lawmakers have this happen to there kids then the laws would be fixed FAST!
same thing happened to me and ruined my life for the last 13yrs for a crime I never did
I have police officers that I called for help watch and laugh as I was being assaulted, and refuse to help.
I've been a victim of this and it sucks.
Not only was I charged with a no evidence case, this is something that I will never recover from mentally. It has been six years since the false police report was filed and I never have a good day.
VAWA is being misused.
the madness has to stop , our children are being harmed by our family court systems,
Make it punishable!

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