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My brother is going thru the same thing right now, with a women he didn't want to be with anymore claimed he abused her. It's a very costly game for my brother and the taxpayers
I know a man that was falsely accused of the worse charge of domestic violence there is and yet there was actually no such event, never happened, and no proof or evidence to support the charges. Police made up the charges. The woman was bipolar, mentally ill and never made any such statements or charges and did not want to leave. The police made up charges and destroyed both there lives. Then the state of MN forced her to work as a prostitute to support herself, taxed her and used the money to pay state employees. The man is being forced to take domestic abuse programs in which the people running these programs are making up lies about him to criminalize him further. Also, the DVI test is completely fraudulent. If you answer truthfully on the test it is rigged to make you appear a liar so they can lie and further criminalize you and force you to do their programs and make money. would like to hear more about the test, programs, and psychologist and social workers and their fradulent criminal activities. Would demand that all programs be investigated, more complaints against them, abolish testing and evaluations that are not honest anyway. And criminal charges for police, prosecutors, investigators, psychologist and so on who have operated above the law.
I was forced by a family member to make false accusations against my spouse/child's father because I lived in her home and it was her way to get rid of him because secretly she was trying to get custody of my daughter I never pressed charges or showed up to court we are still a couple but we are still fighting the case a year later and there is a restraining order that neither of us asked for I'm sorry for the mistake I made in a moment I was afraid I wouldn't have a place to stay I was being threatened I got him a lawyer now and god willing it will all be dismissed
I was forced by a family member to make false accusations against my spouse/child's father because I lived in her home and it was her way to get rid of him because secretly she was trying to get custody of my daughter I never pressed charges or showed up to court we are still a couple but we are still fighting the case a year later and there is a restraining order that neither of us asked for I'm sorry for the mistake I made in a moment I was afraid I wouldn't have a place to stay I was being threatened I got him a lawyer now and god willing it will all be dismissed
Don't think this can't happen to to you. It happened to one of my best friends yesterday. He has 3 witnesses and many more standing in line testify about each and every horrible thing she's done before this.Now he's in jail, the judge won't set bond and she's running around free threatening to do the same thing to us.I hope this never happens to you.
Don't think this can't happen to to you. It happened to one of my best friends yesterday. He has 3 witnesses and many more standing in line testify about each and every horrible thing she's done before this.Now he's in jail, the judge won't set bond and she's running around free threatening to do the same thing to us.I hope this never happens to you.
Malignant Narcarisstic women are intelligent actresses that know how to Pycholgically control the police and the therapist and judges,they will cry ,they will convince anybody that you are the aggressor...TO ALL MEN ,VIDEO RECORD YOUR SITUATIONS OF ABUSE AND SAFE IT FOR YOUR PROTECTION
I am a 27 year old women and mother and am so sick and tired of how fathers get treated in this country. I'm tired of crazy incompetent mothers getting all the rights and the fathers having zero. It's funny a women has the right to give her baby up for adoption, to abort her unborn child, and to decied what rights a father has. But a fathers only right is to loose their child and sit back and write the checks while the mother cashes them for her own personal use it's disgusting. I pray one day things will be equal for all the good, hard working, honest and loving dads who just want equal time with their child.
I am in Gilbert Az. and this letter is me.. I just had to do 40 days in Maricopa's tent city for false allegations of Domestic Violence where my wife accused me of hitting her with our phone, in which aspect she punched herself and cried wolf, then told police and prosecutors that her and my son are afraid of me and now I have no visitation rights with my son.
My wife coached my son to make false statements against me. My son told me this after I was being investigated. The Dist Atty told me to take him in to the police for a statement, after which he told his mother, and then they both accused me of threats with a gun (which I did not even own one). Seminole county Florida, 2 1/2 yr process, 4 day trial, and I lost my son and career. http://ireport.cnn.com/docs/DOC-766346. My son's recorded interviews proving my innocence were thrown out by the judge.
My ex-wife accused me of "pushing her on to a tile floor around 11:30 p.m." Dec. 20, 2012, causing bruises on her elbows.
She made the accusations the next day to police saying what provoked the argument was because she came home late from work. She testified I destroyed her cell phone and she could not get to the landline. I was arrested around 1:30 p.m. Dec. 21 without police giving me a chance to defend myself. I did, in fact, cause the bruising by inadvertently rolling her out of bed around 3 a.m. I was trying roll her over because of her snoring and didn't realize she so close to the edge of the bed.
I stayed in jail through Christmas; humiliating.
She was seeking divorce prior to the allegation and we'd been separated for several days beforehand. But she didn't come late from work and I wasn't at home at 11:30. I was in a bar and pulled credit card receipts from the business that showed I was there from 7 p.m. until midnight. I pulled a copy of her receipt as well. She went to the bar looking for me arriving only a couple of minutes after I had left. Her receipt showed her closing out at 1:08 a.m. Dec. 21. When she arrived, the bartenders said she had two packs of my kind of cigarettes and she was looking for me.
I pulled the phone records for the evening before and it showed someone on the phone four different times from 7:30 p.m. to around 11 p.m., all calls to friends of hers, ex-boyfriends and probably a new boyfriend.
The credit card receipts, witnesses putting me somewhere else at the time of the alleged crime, phone records showing conflict of her testimony. I was arrested again for violating a restraining order by talking to a mutual friend of our yet not mentioning her at all. His false testimony at her behest landed me in jail again.
She then tried to take all her false claims to my employer and have me fired.
Thousands of dollars later, scrutiny from my employer, divorce, no place to live, her abandoning the home she was given custody of, me having to pay her to pay the mortgage, which she is no longer doing as she has fled to another state with her new fiance.
There needs to be more proof allowed from the accused before the politically correct courts/law enforcement allow lies to ruin an innocent person's life.
My ex-wife accused me of "pushing her on to a tile floor around 11:30 p.m." Dec. 20, 2012, causing bruises on her elbows.
She made the accusations the next day to police saying what provoked the argument was because she came home late from work. She testified I destroyed her cell phone and she could not get to the landline. I was arrested around 1:30 p.m. Dec. 21 without police giving me a chance to defend myself.
I stayed in jail through Christmas; humiliating.
She was seeking divorce prior to the allegation and we'd been separated for several days beforehand. But she didn't come late from work and I wasn't at home at 11:30. I was in a bar and pulled credit card receipts from the business that showed I was there from 7 p.m. until midnight. I pulled a copy of her receipt as well. She went to the bar looking for me arriving only a couple of minutes after I had left. Her receipt showed her closing out at 1:08 a.m. Dec. 21. When she arrived, the bartenders said she had two packs of my kind of cigarettes and she was looking for me.
I pulled the phone records for the evening before and it showed someone on the phone four different times from 7:30 p.m. to around 11 p.m., all calls to friends of hers, ex-boyfriends and probably a new boyfriend.
The credit card receipts, witnesses putting me somewhere else at the time of the alleged crime, phone records showing conflict of her testimony. I was arrested again for violating a restraining order by talking to a mutual friend of our yet not mentioning her at all. His false testimony at her behest landed me in jail again.
She then tried to take all her false claims to my employer and have me fired.
Thousands of dollars later, scrutiny from my employer, divorce, no place to live, her abandoning the home she was given custody of, me having to pay her to pay the mortgage, which she is no longer doing as she has fled to another state with her new fiance.
There needs to be more proof allowed from the accused before the politically correct courts/law enforcement allow lies to ruin an innocent person's life.
When someone makes false accusations, they should be charged criminally and have to pay the all the attorney fees and court costs. The courts have gone to extremes to protect the woman just to protect themselves in case something did happen, but it's not fair to the man. You can't always assume the man is guilty just because the woman says so, it's just not right.
My wife Angela Kriebel has falsely accused me twice of threatening her to get a restraining order and kept my child away from me for months.
My wife Angela Kriebel has falsely accused me twice of threatening her to get a restraining order and kept my child away from me for months.
This in my opinion is the basis for improving all aspects of our lives.
I am dealing with this as we speak. She was on the verge of losing custody and said 'she discovered' signs abuse from almost two years ago.
My sister-in-law is a life-time anorexic who has decided my brother is the cause of her anorexia, though she suffered for years before they ever met. His attempts to help, and his lifetime of suffering through her irrational weight-related dementia have been turned, in her mind, into "domestic abuse" - emotional neglect, not physical abuse, but "non-support" as abuse. He tried to help her, but she wouldn't help herself, and has turned all of her self-loathing into victimization. She's turned him into a monster he simply isn't, and by joining victims groups she's determined she is one. He is the victim, and she's poised to take his children away. Just - - no.
I am one of these hated woman. I was on my third miscarriage dealing with postpartum deppression, alcoholism and taking pain killers given to me by the hospital for the miscarriages. My fiances' children's mother called and gloated that we couldn't have kids which sent me into a spiral of blackouts where I don't even remember going to the police. I have tried and pleaded with the states' attorneys office and the judges to let him out. However, they are holding him without bail because I had marks on me and let them take pictures. FYI the marks were from sex not violence but they just do not care. If anyone has any advice or recommends any lawyers in Maryland please help me. Oh yeah plus the judge order a no contact order, which we violated because I was told by the jail that there was not one.
I was arrested and charged with domestic violence crimes against my ex girlfriend with no proof. She also had an additional civil restaining order granted for the same bogus claims with no proof as well. She made up an elaborate story of years of abuse by me claiming I left her bruised and bloody. But she never called the police or sought medical attention. I have a stack of hand written letters from her proving that she's lying. My lawyer was able to question her at the R/O hearing and proved that she was lying but the R/O was still granted. The prosecutor is still pushing forward with a case against me even though she has been proven to be a liar and her credibility ruined. It's cost me thousands of dollars todefend myself and I could lose my job if my employer found out. This is a living nightmare.
Foreign Spouses using this tool to get United states Immigrations. Even when CPO allegation falsified against US Citizens and Voluntary dropped. We have prove how Court And Guardian helping criminals in Ohio.
Like several others dealing with this, my case was a first time offense. I had never been arrested before and was unaware of how to deal with the situation. Unfortunately, my attorney did not represent me well and suggested pleading no contest to a Class C Misdemeanor. I later find out that no one cares it is a misdemeanor if the description says Assault. I have since been denied apartment rentals and some job opportunities. Is this really what Texas intended for Class C Misdemeanors? As a Texas voter, I would like to see all people rally together and encourage our state and other representatives to make it illegal for businesses and employers to deny people with Misdemeanor offenses especially when a first time offense. It should not matter if the disposition included deferred adjudication or not. This is the lowest Class for a Misdemeanor and equal to a traffic ticket.. This should not have such a negative impact on people's lives especially after 2 years. Let's do what makes sense..
my husbands ex has done this 5 times and they are still allowing her to. there is no integrity in the justice system that allows this
My wife and I had an argument when she was caught cheating. Someone called the police and I was arrested immediately with no investigation or being asked my side of the story. It was later determined there was no evidence of assault and no injuries not even the supposed scratch the police claimed on her wrist. Background checks prevent me from renting an apartment after 6 years. I am researching how to file class action suit against the County for defamation of character and loss of job opportunities. My civil rights were violated. Maybe attorneys from The Innocence Project will be interested.
Please change this article to reflect the opposite gender offense. I was accused of domestic violence because I pinched my ex husband when he pinned me and my son between two trucks. He ruined my life.........
If we are truly an equal society then we need to dismiss that women are always victims.
I'm am going through this now. this is so awful how some woman use the system to alienate a parent from his family. so wrong
My friend is being threated that if he doesnt stay with this girl that she will call the cops and tell them he is beating her.
ARRESTED FOR A FELONY CRIME THAT i DIDNOT COMMIT DETECTIVE GOT WARRENT NEVER ALOWED ME TO SHOW PROF OF INNOCENCE
False allegations made against men is disgraceful and wrong. I would hope that this problem will not be ignored.
This happened to me and I am a woman. My ex husband told the police that I pushed him even though a witness had called the police on him for pushing me. He was completely drunk among other things but I got arrested instead. Right in front of my stunned family. Listen up, I did not even accuse him of anything, I never told what he did to me. My family and witness did. They did not take a statement from me. I weigh at least 50lbs less than him. But they sided with him for God only knows why. I never touched him ever. Neither one of us had marks on us. Men do it too! They lie to escape going to jail. I think that abusive manipulative people lie.
My brother is going through this. Its hard to believe in the justice system when they rake lies and go with it. All he wants is to do is move on and save his kids from a party goer mom
falsely accused of aggravated harassment. aggravated assault in the first degree.all by my ex wife. someone told her if she gets an order of protection agains me she could get custody of our son. the allegations or false. I've never even come close to this woman. without my current wife by my side.
My boyfriend has just found out his ex-wife filed domestic violence charges against him in a town he wasn't even in. They have two kids and he hasn't seen them in over a year. He pays child support and was trying to stay away from her and moved away. Just because her craziness he is now having to go to a town for an arrest warrant against him and may have to sit in jail until he can see a judge... The only reason she did this is because she wants her family back! Yea, he is going to come crawling right back to her! jk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yv5qM_JszvE
I am a victum of this. My babys mother lied to cops and had me in jail for 9 months. She took a wild story from the news and told the cops. She barley allows me to see my son and use that lie so I cant see him. She had 3 cps cases and calls in when I cant afford child support. I am a single parent and the child I have living with me im on child support for. You can contact me at rjthetruth37@yahoo.com or 254 400 1496.
Tired of seeing false accusations being used as a tool by women to take away children from men.
I have seen too many men lose children and there dignity over false accusations. Even lawyers and police will tell you it is biased and a tool used against men.
I am the victim of the same practice of automatic assumption of guilt and arrested after a friend of my wife called the police over an altercation between my wife and myself. She has marks on her from me struggling to restrain her for my protection, and though I did not make any defensive moves against her, the marks were used as a basis for my charges. I spent an hour and a half being watched by one officer in my home while two others took her in the back and questioned her during the "investigation" before my arrest. I was asked three questions during their conversation with her directly pertaining to the conversation between them and my wife, and they consisted of about 45 seconds of time collectively to be relayed and answered. This was the sum of their "investigation" into the issue before arresting me. There was no investigation per say, apparently merely building evidence to back an allegation. An investigation would have consisted of thorough questioning of both parties. I have may friends who have gone through the same thing, some repeatedly with the same woman. And during their police encounters even though they were the ones covered in bruises and scratches and very evident defensive wounds, and the woman bore not a mark at all, the male is always taken into custody.
When my son was falsely accused of domestic violence. My grandchild mothers had said previously said/texted I can
charge you with anything as long as I act liks I believe it. Nothing
will be done to me. All the judge said it never happened and you
have to stop believing it did. After court, all she said to my son was
not this time. But will see you in
court until I get permanent restraining order, sole cstody and youll pay child support. She was charged, received deferred judgement for felony child abuse for my 15 month granddaughter 2nd&3rd degree burns on both feet and left arm. She wanted to punish my son. Maybe if the courts had punished her for perjury on the false domestic charges. She would not have hurt my granddaughter. They exachanged my granddaughter at a police station. My
granddaughter was burned before exchange, brought to exchange
crying, she thought my son would
have been charged. Little did she
know, every visit was on security
tape, he drove out one exit and
turned back into police station,
changed her disper in front of
female police woman. When he took her out of winter suit, officer saw burns. Called for ambulance, helped both my son and granddaughter, pulled security camera that showed my son had only driven out and back into station, 3 minutes time lapse. Doctors at Shriners hospital determined that burns were over hour old. No way my son coud have committed that, she later plead guilty. Judge apologized to my son at her conviction hearing. That perhaps the court should have considered her claims of domestic violence more of a planned falsed charge than they did. The courts should have put more weight in her texts / videos saying she would act like she believed false charges. And be held unaccountable for anything. The burns occurred less ghan 4 months of false domestic charges filing. Courts apologies do nothing for either my son or the physical damage to my granddaughters feet/ arm or the psychological effect this has had on both.
My boyfriend accused me of DV after an argument about separating and my 18 mo. Old visitation plan. The officer arrested me in front of my daughter and when I asked, why. He said he had a scratch on his arm. I never touched him and spent 2 days in jail. I finally posted bail 5k dollars later. He then made it increasingly difficult for me to pick my things up, see my daughter (until I enforced the court order), and he completely displaced Me. Please, lets punish those who abuse the law.
I was arrested even after i showed proof i was innocent. There should be a procedure that should insist an investigation prior to any arrest. Me as a single father with custody of my two wonderful children. My ex wife thought if she had me arrested for a restraining order violation she would automatically get custody of the kids.A week later and $7000 later im fighting a fight i should of never been in. Please im begging with all my heart, make changes on these matters. I've almost lost faith in the justice system. Please hear our voices. Mr. Cory Booker if anyone's more compationant its you.
I was arrested even after i showed proof i was innocent. There should be a procedure that should insist an investigation prior to ant arrest.
I was arrested even after i showed proof i was innocent. There should be a procedure that should insist an investigation prior to ant arrest.
I am currently seperated from my children after being in an emotionally abusive relationship with my wife. She continues to abuse me by filing false accustations and slandering my name. She is alienating me from my children whom I love with every fiber of my being. She is keeping them from me by not even accusing me of abusing them but saying she is worried that I could some time in the future abuse them. She has been abusive verbally, emotionally, and physically. There is no justice for men. Since she fired the first shot it is now my burden to prove my self innocent and she will never be responsible for her actions.
This is a major problem in America and especially in King County, WA
I have been wrongfully convited of domestic violence and even a prosecuting attorney that ended up elected as judge that sentenced me. All my charges we initiated by my now ex-wife so she could get me out of the house because she was commiting adultery to be with her new boyfriend. Its been 4yrs now. Anything i can do ?

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