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My babys mom did the same thing once I told her it's over now I have to spend 4000$ on a lawyer instead of being able to spend my money on my son. I'm innocent I never touched her the police didn't care the judge in jail didn't care they just want your money. Her lies are going to come out sooner then later and I can't wait for that to happen doesn't matter how long it will take maybe years but it will come out eventually. I learned my lesson the hard way don't ever in your life trust a female ever because no matter what the police will always always believe them especially if the liar believes their own lies that are coming out of her mouth.
Its not a game calling the police on someone for no reason just because your upset it's really messing someones life up for no reason at all.
It might be rough on me now but i just remember that ,one day everything will come out no matter how long it takes and I'm gonna be able to see my son again. I could go on and on.
Why are people who take advantage of the system designed to protect those that are legitimately abused prosecuted for filing false reports? I've been a victim of this exact thing and my ex lied with impunity. PROSECUTE THESE PEOPLE!
Please I need help , I have two minors kids , age 10 and 12 they were at the public school in Randolph and i switch with connections academy ,online school and i submitted the enrollment letter , attendance verification from the current school ,they denied me by calling the Children department family and my behalf false ,what can I do
Victim of false allegations of domestic violence. Allegations were dismissed but lost my child in the short time between being removed from my home to the court hearing(two and a half weeks). No repercussion for the false accuser. This is blasphemy.
I need to have the false accusations cleared from my records.
This is happening to me right now. My life is being destroyed on the false allegations of a woman with no proof. She made a report 6-9 days after the alleged incident. This was completely premeditated to ruin my life. Simply because I did not want to be with her anymore.
I have been a victim of these injustices over the years, also. I lost time, money, jobs, etc.
It seems to be more common than i thought for i haven't met a young lady or woman in all my time who hadn't lashed out illegally/physically in some fashion or tried something of some effect to "GET BACK" from anger.
ONLY!, of being hurt emotionally/mentally.
I also see this in 98% of all men i encounter in daily life.
This is a hot topic in the barbershop, so being a barber myself, THE TOPIC STAYS RELEVANT.
I'm very interested in this organization and would love to learn more about it and possibly be an asset to it one day.
Ive been searching for a organization like this.
He is needed. The laws need to be changed. The amount of damage that is occurring is unbelievable. A man, if accused has NO rights. No recourse. His finances are wiped out, his freedom is taken away, his reputation distroyed. He stands to loose everything due to a vengeful woman's lies, with no recourse. This is America, why is this being allowed? Please .. do something to change this abusive law, and the unjust procedures that it produces.
Hi to people of heart and compassion and reason

All cases should reinvestigate

All judges lawyer attorney social worker police psych should be judged and trial for having destroy millions of family especially fathers
They should be a national trial and these lawmakers judge who keep these abuse system gully until proven innocent while it should be the opposite ..

How many families destroyed
How many children raised by mothers who alienated their children against their father who did nothing and are totally innocent

How many suicide men suicide due to these laws

How many homeless and the wife get all

America wake-up ..this injustice has to stop

Men male are innocent in most cases

Why always think the male are guilty and could do the terrible horrible stuff their wife / girls friends / female partners would accused them ..
Everyone reading this.... Please, call the Senate Judiciary Committee in Washington DC.... this is their JOB! (202) 224-5225 Tell them Americans would like their due process back! These false accusations are widespread and systemic because of our LAWS! Federal AND state laws need to change.... mainly with Protective Orders / Restraining Orders issued with NO TRIAL, NO DUE PROCESS, and NO burden of PROOF!... and they NEVER prosecute the false accusers!... NEVER!... and everyone knows it.

Please call the Senate Judiciary Committee at (202) 224-5225 (Washington DC) NOW! Protective Orders and Restraining Orders are in DIRECT violation of the US constitution... the right to a fair trial, the right to due process, the right to face your accuser in a court of law, and the right to be presumed innocent until PROVEN guilty in a court of law! This is a widespread and systemic violation of MILLIONS of American citizens most BASIC civil rights!

Our own government is CAUSING this! Federal AND state laws NEED to change immediately!

Call (202) 224-5225 Senate Judiciary Committee NOW, or the false accusations will only get worse. This issue is completely OBVIOUS, and its destroying our society, one family at a time.
This site has been up for a long time . Our politicians are failing us one again , by not bringing to the forefront injustices which are caused by the very same laws enacted as a political body. This issue needs and deserves attention as the live of women , men and children are turned to waste because no action has been taken. If a laws are hurting more than helping the should be revisited ,. In the case of domestic violence there are already laws which help victims. Yet our politician chose to sit idle while lives are crushed . What's driving the inaction now, are they afraid that the numbers false domestic violence cases that are false are more than what the laws intended to stop, Are they afraid of losing funding for prosecuting innocent people and not prosecuting those who will lie to gain advantage in a divorce or pay back . When laws give an advantage over one or another they are no longer laws that work for the benefit of society rather hurt those who really need the help. Why has the issue of false allegation and the lack of judicial relief not received attention is beyond me. Is it just a money game. It's really need to stop.
My son has been verbally accused of mental abuse by an unstable wife with pre and post partum depression and who has been secretly campaigning for months with comments about him "yelling at her" and fear. He has never and would never harm her and had been the primary caregiver of their newborn while she is treated and hospitalized with pre eclampsia, placed on zoloft. She has much sympathy because of pre existing mental issues and has now fabricated this story. Her constant need to be the center of attention and discredit others is alarming. She refuses counseling for depression and only agrees to marital counseling so he can see everything thats wrong with him. She feels she has no faults. Please stop this cycle for our gentle loving sons who are falsely accused.
It happens daily and ruins a man's life and needs to be stopped.
my false allegation story isn't particularly terrible. i was accused of harassment, the police were annoyed both that it was happening and that they were forced by procedure to charge me and bring the case to court. the judge was also annoyed that the accusation made it to court and declared me not guilty. my life was left mostly intact, but even the fact that i was in court for a harassment charge caused a few complications in my life.
These false allegations ruin lives
My boyfriend had an altercation with his son but started with me telling him " to quit being a *****" & in a quick second grabbed me under my jaw & released. NO PAIN, NO IMPEDENCE of breath! Grabbed & let go! About an hour later he & his son got into an argument that led to other instances happening & the law was called. When the deputies questioned me, I told them the truth of how everything led up to the law being called. The call was made by his son & for his son only. NO CALLS OR INFORMATION concerning me was included in the 9-1-1 call, but in the event of the law questioning me & me TELLING THE TRUTH &giving them the information of how it all started, the law took it upon themselves to arrest my boyfriend for family violence, causing pain & impeding breath. When I was questioned about him grabbing me, I was asked if I wanted to press charges & I said no. In the end of their "investigation" that night, I asked if they were taking my boyfriend to jail & they told me yes they were. I asked for what & I was told for putting his hands on me. Remember, the cops WERE NOT called on anything about ME, only on & for his son.
I had already gone to bed to which should have shown the "law" I was no where close to being "IN FEAR OF MY LIFE"!
I understand & believe that there is a need for laws concerning Domestic Violence but there should be levels of degree to when & how much has been done or incurred & if the accused is at the scene the level of degree should then be assessed & whether or not there should be an arrest made.
I don't BELIEVE OR THINK it should be left SOLELY up to the officers to make that call! I feel that is a violation of my RIGHTS as a UNITED STATES CITIZEN!
I am a grown woman, very capable of making my own decisions & I should be able to do so on my own accord!!!!
My husband and I have been involved in legal matters with his ex wife for the last two years and every time the courts don't grant what she wants, she automatically claims abuse and plays the victim. My husband is a disabled vet who has done nothing. She also has BPD and has even gone so far to claim child abuse against my husband because she wasn't going to get full custody. This needs to stop and these false claims need to have consequences.
Wife made false reports. Became the victim. I became the hunted. Local police arrested me wit no cause. I filled restaining orders on 5 family members involed in incecient . None were approved by court not one. 100% disabled vet. 20 years fighting for the freedoms of others while here in colorado they attack vets as hostile treats. They come no my home with weapons draw. During iccident to family members try to attack me and nothing was done to incarcerate these locals
This is second divorce case in colorado women have all the rights men are treat a gulity and have to pay all court cost child support and the wife sits at home on there*****an laughs
no need for evidence-domestic violence 'services providers, law enforcement personnel, and prosecutors are all instructed to" always believe the victim' even though the accuser has on evidence or proof or violence. victim advocates-domestic violence programs hire' victim advocates ' who coach person with minor problems how to present and embellish their complaints to enhance their chance of getting a restraining order.incentives to make false allegation-persons who are identified as" victim' are entitled to broad range of services and legal benefits; sole use and possession of the residence, child custody, SAP,COURT 2/18/16,HELP,chappellbillie292@yahoo.com,congressman, form sc. aps.
I am in the same situation because I decided to leave and they did exactly what that state did to me restraining orders no contact order its wrong someone needs to address this and something needs to be done
I was and still am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence. I
was separated from the 8 year service to the army, lost a house and job,
served 3 years on a sentence of 5 years, 8 months in 2000, was stripped of
all money by the DCSS without going through the court and told I owe 47,000
dollars in arrears. Additionally, in my recent divorce proceedings, I was
just ordered to sell the house and pay $157 a month in spousal support after
to court denied me an extension because my attorney abandoned me one week
before trial. He was not familiar with family law and because of the lies,
vexatious litigation and misleading documentation, especially since it deals
with German language and false allegation, he abandoned me 9 days before my
court hearing. My soon to be ex based her case solely on hearsay, never
providing one piece of evidence. The decision of the Courts were all based
on hearsay as they would not even LOOK at my proof and documentation prior
to making a judgement.

As it currently stands in the Riverside Court RID1404777, I have been denied
my right to counsel, denied an extension to get counsel, ordered to pay $157
per month in spousal support even when she was the main bread winner since
2000 to date, my mandatory settlement conference was moved up from April to
2/10/16 leaving me with no time to get counsel or defense (unheard of by
anyone Iíve spoken with). My house is being sold out from under me, my bank
account is depleted and I feel that soon, my pets and I will be homeless.

The accuser has filled for German citizenship 2 years ago and has property
and bank accounts over there and has failed to report this to the courts.
She has turned my family (where she stays to date) against me along with my
daughter all for financial gain. There have been so many lies, accusations
and attacks against me, none of which have been proven. Neither her attorney
nor my old attorney checked the facts. The sad part is the attorneys never
check facts and Americans always want to protect everyone, even the ones
that lie to them until it too late. Some will never even realize it and if
they do, no one seems to ever do the right thing to fix it.
Been through a 1 year ordeal. I was guilty before even questioned. Once I told them that I wouldn't speak to them and wanted an attorney they arrested me then enhanced the bail to 500k. After the accuser recanted her story on the stand the DA still wanted to press forward with the case. What a ordeal. It was all lies because she wanted custody of our child. Something about these laws need to be changed to protect innocent men as well.
I hope this bring attention and open your eyes before it happen to anyone family. .
I donít know how to begin tell you. However, I am hurt and ashamed to say I am a server damaged U.S. citizen victim of false allegations of domestic violence in Elizabeth City, North Carolina. My life has been literally been destroyed by others that I thought was suppose uphold the law in our courts system. Itís been nearly 18 years since DSS falsely fabricated warrants for my arrest through my wife collaboration not knowing what she signing. She was non U.S. English speaking wife with a temporary resident visa here in USA with our new born baby. The case was brought to a Judge and the judge was my prior Attorney and disregarded my civil rights when I ask for different judge. I donít know how many people been damaged like me and fallen between the cracks. It affected my mom and especially my daughter I have not seen in over ten years. And my ex-wife continues her parental alienation to this day. Is this really what our Great Country about?
my brother is going through this right now. got into an argument with his girlfriend and she called the cops accusing him of choking her, when he didn't even touch her and once again there is no proof nor marks that he did and he is going to jail for 3 years.
I am going through this situation personally. Even though i have everything proving my innocence and she's using the system to get revenge because i don't want to be with her anymore.
I was and still am a victim of false allegations of domestic violence I was separated from the 8 years service to the army. Lose of a house and job. I served 3 yrs on a sentence of 5yrs 8 month in 2000 was stripped of all money by the dcss without going thru the court and told i owe 47,000 dollars in arrears proven to be false. Now to date in a divorce were i was just ordered to sell the house and pay 157 in spousal support ,after the court denied me an extension because my attorney abandoned me one week before trial because of the lies and vexatious litigation and misleading document especially since it deals with German language ,false allegation without having to provide one piece of evidence just accusations today as it stands in the riverside court rid1404777 I have been denied my right to council denied and extension to get council ordered to pay 157 in support even when she was the main bread winner since 2000 to date mandatory settlement conference moved up 2/10/16 leaving me with no counsel or defense un heard of by any one i talk to. My house is being sold out from under me my account is depleted my pets and i will be homeless. The accuser has filled for germane citizenship 2yrs ago and has property and accounts over there that has been failed to be reported to the courts. Turned my family in which she resides to date against me along with my doughier against me all for financial gain. all because of lies and vexatious litigation the sad part is the attorneys never check facts and Americans always want to protect every one even the ones that lye to them until it too late . Some will never even realize it and if they do .do the right thing and fix it.the laws were ment to help people in real need not a gide book for a profetional victiom abuse some one for profite
There should also be reparations made to to victims of false accusations of DV from the police who refuse to include evidence in their reports that could exonerate the falsely accused and the prosecutors that go forward with cases when the person who made the false causation goes to them and tells them that's what they did.
There should also be reparations made to to victims of false accusations of DV from the police who refuse to include evidence in their reports that could exonerate the falsely accused and the prosecutors that go forward with cases when the person who made the false causation goes to them and tells them that's what did .
My sons life has been destroyed. He is not only innocent but he was the victim of her abuse. He has been denied contact with his daughter for five months,lost his job and is about to lose his home. This has got to stop.
I had this happen to me last year because my drunk self centered roommate was mad at me for helping another drunk person and not paying attention to her. I have spent the last 7 months of my life watching everything I worked so hard for be tainted and destroyed due to her selfish reasons. She lied under oath. I told the truth and was found not guilty but my life is still a mess. What effect did it have on her?! None. She is partying, going on cruises, lying about me, and living life. This needs to stop! There Is no reason good people should have to go through this because of vengeful and heartless people!
I had this happen to me last year because my drunk self centered roommate was mad at me for helping another drunk person and not paying attention to her. I have spent the last 7 months of my life watching everything I worked so hard for be tainted and destroyed due to her selfish reasons. She lied under oath. I told the truth and was found not guilty but my life is still a mess. What effect did it have on her?! None. She is partying, going on cruises, lying about me, and living life. This needs to stop! There Is no reason good people should have to go through this because of vengeful and heartless people!
Additionally,Illegal immigrants or alien non citizens, after living with a U.S. Citizen in their owned home or property get automatic green card status while case is going on and the defendant is forced to leave their own home and Alien/Invader gets to stay in the house that once was that of the U.S Citizen Now incarcerated for years possibly. Or even just forced to leave through a No Contact Order........ Brings to mind the communist manifesto- "We will get you from within". Maybe that is why they call it the Red Femme movement ? I firmly believe there should be a Congressional hearing and investigation as to the criminalities of the writers involved and how this unconstitutional law ever got passed. Do not think your immune either!
Its just too easy for anybody to call on anybody and police have to arrest.
My son is currently being falsely accused by an active Meth user that is on probation in Freestone County Texas. The law enforcement needs to watch for these signs and listen to what people are trying to tell them. Innocent until proven guilty.
my wife accused me of threaten her just me an her alone then afterwards she filed divorce against me the police came and saw no reason to arrest me so she made out papers against me I stayed in jail on her accusations an cost me time an money so she could position her self better in divorce court something is wrong with the system
My brother is going through a custody battle right now and his ex decided to say on the stand that he hit her once and how controlling he is. Neither is the truth, she couldn't even recollect the circumstances of when or where it happened or where she supposedly got hit. She is a narcacisst to the very core. My brother is and has always been the guy always willing to help others in any way possible. Has never been in any physical alterations his entire life. He is the responsible one who likes to talk through issues calmly and collectively. To even fathom that she sat up on the stand today and lied about something like this is so disrespectful to people who are actually going through this. All she has ever wanted is a paycheck and it is clear that she will go to lengths to try and get it. This needs to be a criminal offense to protect the lives of the ones who are falsely being accused. They could lose everything including their careers for a lie. It's just not right.
Good article, almost the very same thing has been happening to me over the last eight months. Has cost me alot of time with my two young sons.
this is out of hand , when judges are told by the victim that she made up the very important facts of the case and the judge still awards her the case ! this happens even though there was not one thing in that trial she was remotely correct on , not even her attempts to lie and mislead the court with false documents, and the judge still award her the case was unreal! it was the most ridiculous thing i have ever witness and i would of laughed for hours had i not been the one who just got screwed by a crooked judge .. my situation has many differnt aspects to it , like a boss who set me up by working with this same female , i have saying a boss set me up because it makes me sound crazy but i say it because i have documents to prove my statements, my situation is so bizarre that i am considering writing a book on it all the way to the crooked judge and the bias court house . to say i was screwed is an understatement and at first i had no idea about my boss when she claimed sexual harassment but after i got the first restraining order i found out and it was her ignorance that tipped me off she placed a letter direct from my boss to her and then the pieces started falling into place , try getting a lawyer when you say you were fired for sexual harassment and that your boss was involved in setting this up , ya not going to happen , for that matter just try and get a lawyer on the harassment claim alone i could write all day long on this , but i can tell you first hand that restraining orders are out of hand and the judges are making there own rules and i wish there was a petition for the stupid law called "at-will" because that is also a joke and gives your employer the chance to do what ever he wants without ever having to answer for his actions .but i have lost almost everything and my name and rep has been destroyed and im afraid to use the last 12 years of my work history. but she is comfortable in her new job that at the time of her claim was only there 1 year to my 12 . im ****ed off and will do what ever it takes to get my story out and hopefully ruin there lives as they have mine only based on the truth .
FALSE DOMESTIC VIOLENCE CHARGE AWARENESS should have its own month with all the bells and whistles. I was made homeless and spent time in jail too, by a liar who used to be my wife. The system doesn't punish those who obviously lie to try to gain advantages during a divorce. Guilty until proven innocent !
Women who falsely accuse should be punished !
this is out of hand , when judges are told by the victim that she made up the very important facts of the case and the judge still awards her the case ! this happens even though there was not one thing in that trial she was remotely correct on , not even her attempts to lie and mislead the court with false documents, and the judge still award her the case was unreal! it was the most ridiculous thing i have ever witness and i would of laughed for hours had i not been the one who just got screwed by a crooked judge
This happened to me. My mother who is 90 and has dementia was led into doing this because she didn't like me as her Trustee moving her into assisted living, asking to take over her checkbook and refusing to park her car there for her use. It cost me my inheritance, $12,00 to stay in hotels while I waited on court dates set way out in the future. To end it all I signed over my 1/2 share of the condo that was to be my inheritance. She got a dirty, small town attorney who knew the dirty way to do the bidding of other greedy family members who wanted to control her assets. I couldn't believe the lack of recourse and the that there was no burden of proof.
Having been accused by several different women in life, woman often seek retribution by using the very laws established to protect woman. Sadly the police need more tools to help assess and take appropriate action without destroying a man's life and relationships in his community.
On January 26 @3:00 am I was arrested and charged with two counts of a misdemeanor #1 domestic violence even though my girlfriend told the police officers that I didn't touch her or my 9 month old son they still arrested and charged me with two counts of domestic violence against my family members because the squad got called to the house where my girlfriend and me were arguing so I put my ear phones in to listen to music and avoid further confortation between us well it was dark in the room and she tried to take my phone and ear plugs out so I would argue with her and I stuck my hand up in defense thinking she was trying to hit me so I was going to block her swings but she hit my hand and hers went back and accidentally hit my son in his face if left a knuckle red mark on his face so she called for a squad to check him out and the sheriff showed up I was already gone out of the house when they got their to avoid further confortations well I was heading into town on foot and was approached by law enforcement officers they didn't even read my Miranda rights to me before placing me into custody I informed them that I was also carrying a concealed weapon that was loaded with one in the chamber because we've had break-ins before and I didn't get a chance to put it back in the safe where I keep it I know that it doesn't look really good but my girlfriend showed up in court on the 28 and testified that I didn't even touch them and the police officers lied and filed false charges on me my court hearing for all this is on 2\9\16 at noon the judge said he was going to dismiss the two domestic violence charges against me but he appointed me the same attorney for me on all three charges even though the handgun charge is a F4 felony charge please help me if possible
Our son is now being persecuted by his wife, a local news personality, and he stands to lose custody of their 18 month old daughter because of her malicious attacks claiming he is violent. There is no record of any abuse, but she is most anxious to cozy up with her new boyfriend, who just happens to be an attorney from Missouri. Our son will be appearing before a magistrate tomorrow. Wish Scott luck.
My son is now being persecuted by his wife, a local news personality, and stands to lose custody of his 18 month old daughter because of her malicious attacks claiming he is violent. There is no record of any abuse, but she is most anxious to cozy up with her new boyfriend, who just happens to be an attorney. My son will be appearing before a magistrate tomorrow. Wish Scott luck.
My son is now being persecuted by his wife, a local news personality, and stands to lose custody of his 18 month old daughter because of her malicious attacks claiming he is violent. There is no record of any abuse, but she is most anxious to cozy up with her new boyfriend, who just happens to be an attorney. My son will be appearing before a magistrate tomorrow. Wish Scott luck.
If they started punishing the ones who do make the false accusations maybe some of this would stop! It's to big a money maker, no one will fix this!!
my wife left me and took our 2 yr 8 month old son then 2 weeks later has her lawyer file domestic violence and sexual assualt to name a few things to keep our son from me. I can not afford a lawyer and have to appear in 3 days in front of judge. i have no evidence to prove my innocents.
I am friends with many men who are victims of loosing everything to woman who ride the system and create false abuse allegations to get what they want. It makes me sick that there are so many woman that really need the hwlp
Just bizzare how wrong this is. For other cases such as murder one is "innocent until proven guilty" but for domestic violence accusations the innocent lives of the one being accused and even there children can be flipped completely upside down and possibly ruined. To me someone falsely accusing someone of domestic violence and ruining there life is in itself the worst kind of domestic violence yet there is no punishment for that. Come on lets get real.
False allegations of sexual/physical abuse can damage the lives of the accused forever. There needs to be accountability for the accuser; including sanctions, penalties, and if necessary criminal charges placed. It is unconscionable that the accuser abusing the legal system is still held unaccountable for their malicious actions. This needs to change. Even if the accusations are made in civil court, there needs to be immediate and harsh judgement placed on the accuser in criminal courts in order to make the point that the harassment and judicial abuse must stop.
Police is not looking to investigate, they do the arrest even without questioning. This ruins lifes
I had an old roommate who is a compulsive liar and drama queen who accused me of domestic violence. It got classified as a domiestic violence just because she lived with me. Now I'm dealing with lawyer fees, court and if it doesn't get resolved it could potentially affect my career in Healthcare.
To warren t from salem,oregon.I fought the whole system and in the end I actually won.I did it the hard way and now know many mistakes I made along the way.first you need to file a motion with a judge to have a forensic psychologist evaluate both of you.my number is 607-725-8377 if you want some free but good advice.im in fort lauderdale and fought a crroked cop,russian scam artist wife ,another group of russian scam artists helping her,a womens organization called "no more tears",an incompetent dcf and seven different lawyers representing the ex
I am continually being attacked in my community by a lying ex with borderline personality disorder . Vicious lies and rumors to discredit me. But not just her. She finds other unstable people who get involved and lie for her. Some just seem to enjoy piling on just for sport, others think by lying they are helping to save her. She triangulates anyone who may have had an issue from my past. Befriends other exs or rivals. Now she has a cocaine addict, a felon, a stalker, a prostitute, an angry violent, jealous musician, two bitter ex girlfriends, a jealous angry boyfriend of an ex and anyone else she can find to help her attacking me as well, trying to paint me as something I'm not and get me in trouble with the law. This defamation is constant, calculated and intended to destroy anything good in my life. They have all ganged up and even lied to the police about me. 8 years of these attacks from this mentally ill woman who convinces equally unstable people that she is in danger and a victim. She is a fraud and an abuser and has been doing this******for 8 years. Of course when I just went through a bad breakup from someone who stole my car and equipment, she becomes friends with her and the two go on a defamation campaign finding anyone who will believe them and act upon their lies. They both have serious mental and drug problems.
She's gathered up some horribly abusive liars, manipulators and criminals..
When the lie doesn't work they make up an even bigger lie, like I'm trying to kill people or I have diseases. I'm currently dealing with more trumped up charges and interference in my life at every level. Professionally, relationships, friendships. It's a nightmare and it won't stop. Every time I try to seek the help of police or courts it backfires and I'm never taken seriously even charged because of her lies. What's worse is she finds people who believe her lies and think they have to lie for her to protect her. It's years of this childish, spiteful revenge and for no reason other than to manipulate and control.
There are already laws against assault, stalking, disorderly conduct, etc., The addition of DV laws makes it easier for liars to use the system as a weapon and for the state to capitalize on any mans misfortune through outrageous fines and penalties. It's criminal but no one seems to care if it's abuse from a woman.
I was recently the victim of false domestic abuse complaints, which my ex was using to extort money from me. I am attempting to settle for a large financial payment, but the damage to my reputation will never be undone. We have so much evidence proving my innocence and that she is lying, that my lawyer wants me to fight, but I don't trust the court system to protect me.
I my self wasn't even aware domestic violence was even an issue wulith my marriage. We moved from NC TO SPRINGFIELD MA she went into a shelter cause we had no where to live I was told they would help her faster if it was just her and our children to
get help. I agreed to stay with my family. NY wife her mother and our oldest daughter all did it at the same time. It wasn't til I found out she was committing adultery that I found out she was in a domestic violence program. I have photos to prove she was with me and around me during this so called abused woman was lieing saying she wasn't around me OE associating with me who was supposed to be such a threat to her. She even was offered to write a book on her so called abuse. I been with her 20 years my children are 22 15 and 9 and NONE have seen black eyes fat lips abuse period and ask why? Because it never happened with the these accusations wouldn't there been hospitals or police involved? Wouldn't the children have seen the bruises cuts black eyes from this alleged abuse? Theses programs give woman rent free homes for a year gift cards cash food stamps and all they have to say is he abuses me. No proof!!!!! I can show pictures of us multiple times throughout the yes she been in the program. I chose to leave because she was sleeping with a married man and I found out. I then was then threatened by the mail that he would hurt me in front of my children if I told his wife he was with my wife. Who can I go too to expose this fraudulent stories and bring thing truth to the surface????
Men are sometimes being falsely accused because of its gender and bias coming from the society.

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