Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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My boyfriend of 2 years was charged with domestic and other charges because the cop that arrested him before decided she could. I told them initially and in court that i was not touched, because i wasn't, and in the jail he sits for another 2 months, had to plea out and be guilty of it too or could've gotten 11/29... its a lot more complicated than that but this is bs... i am `19 and he is 20 and we were working on getting a place. now we are at a stand still.... i have no respect for any of the system anymore.. it made me hate them all. especially me being the "victim" this is RIDICULOUS.... we had witnesses and my parents saying nothing happened.. but i guess witnesses or you know.. the victim themselves can't do anything. i am so outraged...
My evidences as videos, pictures, voicemail, and 3 reports I made legally, did not find her guilty of violating Government Rules and Policies at Work Booklet. The Govrnm. Agency covered her up, my 2 attorneys lied to me as they promessed me my FACTS WERE MORE THAN ENOUGH to find many GUILTY of violations...corrution? ALWAYS ..EVEN WITH SOME ATTORNEYS. ...Im still not giving up..im seeking help against corrupted government workers using computers to obtain drugs, prostitutes, etc (video) with date, time, website..was not sufficient to prove bad managment.

George G.
He wanted to be with me not her. She wants him in prison. He is in jail and his future is ruined. She has free help and coaching from her"case" workers. He has no voice at all. Only her words count
I am a disabled man I been falsely accused of assault and domestic violence. I received a restraining order, I haven't seen my two children for 17 days. I been depressed and sleepless nights crying over my children. I'm not a violent man with no past of domestic violence, Please help me and others like me who are falsely accused. Thank you.
I am a disabled man I been falsely accused of assault and domestic violence. I received a restraining order, I haven't seen my two children for 17 days. I been depressed and sleepless nights crying over my children. I'm not a violent man and I had a past for domestic violence, Please help me and others like me who are falsely accused. Thank you.
I am a disabled man I been falsely accused of assault and domestic violence. I received a restraining order, I haven't seen my two children for 17 days. I been depressed and sleepless nights crying over my children. I'm not a violent man and I had a past for domestic violence, Please help me and others like me who are falsely accused. Thank you.
I've had 2 TRO'S signed by my ex wife. The police didn't want to here my side of the story. Both times I went to court, lost a days pay and she nevered showed. Each time she did sign a TRO she called the next day wanting me to come home, knowing that I would violate the TRO. I now have a record of domestic violence and she nevered was charged with filing a false TRO.
My ex abused me and then filed charges against me. Now, some 10 years later, my 2 boys being being abused in the same manner as I was. Once the initial accusation was made, I was damned. Getting my day in court and clearing name would have cost me all our savings and college for the kids. My ex's attorney is well known in Washington for leading with DV charges as a strategy in getting the upper hand. Something really needs to be done.
False accusations of domestic violence were pressed on me because this woman " rebecca" feared I would turn her and her landlord in for welfare fraud!...when I was bailed out ..I did! ..may GOD have no mercy on her!
To often woman use this as means to gain custody and erase a parent from the kids life. These woman can ruin a mans reputation, job, and life just because they don't want to share parenting time. They use the system as a sword trivalizing true dv victims. I read that more that 73% woman claim emotional and verbal abuse when they divorce. What does that mean? Every little argument, words she doesn't like, yelling match is now called abuse. My bf has not seen his kids in 4 years and he is not even guilty. Go NJ family Court; cash for kids and rewards false accusers. Highly recommend at first of sign problems get at least a visitation order; her words will lies. Divorce can be nasty! ! Family courts have too much control over personal life at the expense of the defendant.