Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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My son got temporary court ordered visitation with his son after his ex got pregnant by another man and took his son completely out of his life in August of last year. On second visit to get his son, his ex "claimed" he slammed her hand in the door. It never happened. I was with him when he went to pick his son up. So, it has been over a year since he has seen his son, aside from the first visitation in March of this year. He was found "guilty" by an idiot judge who didn't even take my testimony seriously and totally ignored his lawyer when he summed things up. My son has decided to pay his child support and drop trying to get visitation with him. He hopes that his son will attempt to see him when he gets older. He is eight years old and I'm sure he has very good memories of the family she has taken away from him. She is evil and I'm sure if my son continued to see his son she would claim the worst....sexual abuse. I wouldn't put that past her. She's the biggest liar and thief I have ever known. Next court date is December and charge will be dropped pending no contact with his ex. I despise this woman and her parents for doing this to my grandson.
Rainbow services of San Pedro Ca! You should be ashamed of yourself for taking advantage of woman's vulnerability with Gifts. I'm exposing this agency, you can get away with it but so long but when you mess with the wrong family, God will not let you mess with his children. they take these woman's story and turn it into life a threaten situation and make them do things like get a divorce file restraining order and file custody quicky within 30 days of being there. when these women come in they write a statement for them by copying pasting and if they don't comply with what they put in those statements they get kick to the curb, these women advocates use strong language that makes innocent men look like a monster in the eyes of the court system. It doesn't stop there those women that have children they bribe these children with gifts by telling them to say that their dad is a bad man and he will hurt you and your family. You wouldn't believe what I am finding out from these woman that were at rainbow services. This agency is destroying families and making these innocent men look like monsters. I am now coming out and Telling my story. I am suppose to be hero in the eyes of this country fighting for this country. And this is how I am treated I feel like a refugee in my own country.

I will not sit back and allow you to destroy my family and my character. I am putting it out on here hoping that people will see my truth and join in with me and help me fight back. And yes you men that are out there you can come swallow your pride and do something to change this system. Together we can make a change.

I will continue to pray for this agency!
I was taken to court back in 2013 I believe by the House of Ruth Baltimore. District Court in Catonsville, Maryland. My ex wife angry that I divorced her and later remarried, claimed that back on 2001 I beat her up while she was pregnant with our oldest daughter. Funny thin is she was only pregnant for 17 days in 2001, while I was in the field for the Army as our daughter was born Jan 2001. She claimed she feared for her life, when I simply asked to pick up our daughter's an hour earlier for what she claimed was no good reason, yet she never asked me why or allowed me to explain why for my request. She even had her then bf come to her house to stop me from getting my girls. The police I called treated me like I was the bad guy and even thought her bf was their father. I explained to the officers that I'm a career Soldier and there was no way I would jeopardize that.

Any way in court, I provided phone records and text messages which pointed all to the contrary of what my ex was trying to say. The judge listened to a voice mail on her phone of someone with a Jamaican accent. I'm not from Jamaica or know any one from there. She also presented a typed up word document claiming I typed it or had someone type it and place it on her car. She claimed she made a report, yet police never once came to my house to talk to me to see about my side of the story or to even see if I had an an explanation.

She claimed she was so frightened by me, but yet we remained together another 11 years after her claim of the 2001 so called incident. We had another child together in 2007, bought a house together in 2007 or 2008. We even drove cross country from WA state to Maryland in June of 2006.

I ask you does this sound like a woman who was afraid or had a reason to be afraid of me. Nonetheless, the courts believed her story with the corrupted evidence she had. Oh, I forgot to say that the typed up letter was not even signed had not signature or physical handwriting on it what so ever.

I was mistreated by the court and my military record and accomplishments were in jeopardy.

Later I was told that this District Court was under scrutiny for releasing people or not granting Protective orders when a woman makes a claim.

In my opinion I was used as an example. I'm black, she's asian, and she claimed to be here alone with no family, when I was her family and she got caught cheating. My family took her in and welcomed her.

From the time she said I beat her up, my case was done. The judge heard everything her attorney from House of Ruth said, but was essentially than attentive to my attorney.

After the court granted her the false protective order. We immediately filed for an appeal. With the threat of me suing her for everything, a month an a half later she dropped the case. Now if she had nothing to hide, how come she just dropped it like that. If I did what she claimed, she would've had a strong case.

I ended up partitioning for custody of ou
in 2003 the Appeals Court in Massachusetts VACATED the 209 a order issued against me.(Szymkowski v Szymkowski) I am not an Attorney and represented myself Pro-Se I exhausted all of my savings in an effort to hold on to my Children. In the end when the Court Vacated the order my Children were completely BRAINWASHED by my ex-wife and her now ex husband and as a result I have never seen them again. Yes I won the Case but in the end I lost everything. My Story would make a very sad Movie.
I have quantifiable proof that the allegations made are false and impossible. Even proof where the plaintiffs statement changes 180 degrees from what she told the police officer vs what she used to get a PPO. Pure leverage in a horrible 7 year divorce. I heave never had the opportunity to have a hearing on this evidence. It is her only weapon she can use to get out of our signed judgement of divorce. But she obtains them with ease and no recourse or punishment for fabricating evidence. We need to fight back against the decades of "education" some women's groups have used to get the attention and ability to seamlessly get ppo
I am a victim of this very thing. 4 protection orders in the last 4 months. 2 days in jail. And all because she is afraid and I stated "I am coming for my son legally". I've been accused of gun violence, physical violence, and emotional abuse. These allegations are simply not true and as a result I am not able to see my little boy for the next year. The only crime committed here is gender bias and abuse of power.
Please this law needs to be re-evalulated it is suppose to be the right of us americans to be innocent til proven guilty, yet this is not how the system really works. Innocent people are spending time in jail for something for they did not do they are the victims here. While the sooo called victim pressin these charges are getting away with making the false allegations setting the next person up who gets into relatioships with them easier targets to have the same thing happen to them. When will it stop unless we the people and anyone we know let our voices be heard and put a stop to the ruining of the lives of the true victims.