Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

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Stop False Allegations of Domestic Violence

We, the undersigned, are writing in hopes of bringing to your attention a dire misjustice that is occuring in our state as well as many others across the US. Laws inacted to protect the victims of the vile crime of domestic violence are being misused by both citizens as well as law enforcement, and in this process innocent men's lives are being destroyed. In most states, the burden of proof is being thrown out and the simple word of the acuser is being taken without question, many times without the accused even being allowed to speak. True victims of domestic violence, some of whose names you will find below, find this to be deplorable. Not only can a woman falsely accuse a man of domestic violence without fear of consequence, but the accused man has no voice against her. The accuser can be a mentally disturbed individual using such laws to exact her revenge against a man who simply does not want to be in a relationship anymore, and her word is automatically taken, even when no evidence is in place. The man in such cases is automatically arrested, injunctions are automatically set in place, and even if he is able to prove his innocence in court he has lost months of his life due to the fact that she cried wolf. Worse yet are the cases of these innocent men who are poor and have no means to hire private attorneys. Their public defenders assume they are guilty and therefore do only the bare necessities to be their legal voice.We are not in any way asking for a revocation of the laws that protect true victims of domestic violence. Our wish is that these laws be revisited and indications made to to allow for criminal and civil prosecution when someone, whether male or female, has misused these laws in a vindictive and cunning way. We also would ask that law enforcement officers, public attorneys, and judges be forced to recognize the precept that the accused is innocent until proven guilty. Unfortunately, in the cases of domestic violence accusations, the opposite is true. An example of this is that of a 20 year old Florida resident who made the bond that was set for him, only to be picked up the very next day without provocation. The acuser in this case simply told the court she was afraid. He had done nothing in terms of trying to contact her or see her, and was not without several witnesses the few short hours he was free. Something must be done to prevent those who would lie about being a victim of domestic violence from continuing to do so. If it is not, our prisons will be overrun with innocent men and our streets will be controlled by the women who sent them there.

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My husband was accused of a crime he did not commit. He spent 12 days in jail and 9 of those days with a guy who admitted he killed someone. All this because his ex wife decided to accuse him of an aweful crime. This is the second time I have been married to my husband and she was the wife in between our two marriages. Ex told him 21 years ago if we got back together she couldn't stand it and he would live to reget it. The case costs us over $100,000 and even though she and her adult children commited purjury, nothing is done to them. I'm sure this case cost taxpayers in that state more than what we had to pay. The detective admitted on the stand under oath that he did not do an investigation but issued a warrant for my husband. Detective also stated in his 2 years of being an investigator 80% of the cases were false accusations. I might mention my husband was divorce from his ex for 6 years before we got back together. Ex's profession is a nurse, scarey huh.
I was arrested and put in shackles and jail when my estranged wife called the police and told them without any proof that I threatened her life. In court the truth came out that she falsely accused me. The judge warned her not to do that again. I suffered emotionally and financially due to this injustice by profiling.
The girl worked for an attorney in domestic vilence, she learned the ropes. She used them to her advanage. Now my son has a felony. No one will listen to his side. He is just guilty.
I have been spending thousands to protect and exercise my paternal rights for the past two years. All it takes is one false complaint to flush your rights down the toilet.
I too have been falsey accused. I have seen my children only 3 days in the last 6 weeks. I listen to my daughter call me on the phone crying for me to please call her back and I can hear my soon to be ex-wife in the background chit chatting with her new friend unconcerned about her daughter crying to know where her daddy is. I suspect she knew her daughter was crying me and thought the tears and crying of her daughter might provoke me into violating the restraining order and call her back. She could then have me thrown into jail and lose any chance of future custody.

She files the DV charge because I caught her after she moved out at her boyfriends house in the middle of the night. I could care less about that, but it was because she left my two 11 year old children alone in sleeping in their beds and no idea she had even left. To make it worse she turned her phone off so if they had woke up she would have been unable to reach her.

We were sharing custody at the time and I told her if she did it again I would call the police and take the children into my custody. She did it again two night later.

I brought the children home with me and decided I would not call the police on her. That was a mistake. The police served me with a restraining order for domestic violence and I am now unable to even go near her new place to ensure the behavior is not continuing.

This law is entirely out of control. There needs to be penalties to these women who abuse the system for their own selfish gain. The law was to protect innocent powerless victims not create new ones, which is what it is doing at a ratio of creating 4 new victims to every 1 it actually helps protect.
They are convicting innocent people of criminal acts without a criminal hearing.
My life is an example of a horrid justice system. I had my life taken from me because she left me for another male. She used the DV order to keep me from my son and allow her to stay at my home. We were not married and she received rights to my home for a month. She was never abused, never had a bruise, neighbors testify that she is crazy and they never heard a cry or yell. I've never been charged with any crime in my life nor have I ever been arrested for this. Something needs to be done to balance this system.
my wife has miss used this servise
How can an informed decision be made if there is no proof of wrong doing. One persons word should not be better then anothers?
Twice I had a restraining order put on me and both of them were dismissed out of court. Plus neither of them had anything to do with protecting or protection. The first one was about property I could not return because I didn’t have a license and was truly laughed out of court and the second was just to **** me off because I broke up with the women. The second women lied in court and had no proof, and neither of these women was ever charged with filling out a false police report or for lying in a court room when I proved that those allegations were bogus. So why are these things still on my record when I did nothing wrong? Something needs to be done about these things!!!!
Please make it clear, their should be a history or proof of violence. Having one party say it happened and the other party saying it didn't. It is not fair to loose half of my time because someone decided to lie? If you lie in court it should be punished? otherwise why say things under oath? Honor, trust and loyalty are essential to our court syatem.